Do you suspect you’ve been cursed? Purify yourself of negative energy and empower yourself to move forward in your life with these 5 simple hex-breakers.
Are hexes and curses real? Short answer: yes.
Long answer: hexes and curses are sort of like energetic cold and flu bugs. They’re essentially vibrational patterns that affect one’s personal energy field in an undesirable and challenging way.
What’s the difference? Well, hexes are spells cast on others with malevolent intent. Curses are similar, but generally these are less formal in that they are set in motion when someone simply thinks or speaks an ill wish against another.
But just like you don’t catch the flu every time you’re around someone with the flu, spells and ill wishes don’t automatically turn into hexes or curses. This only happens if you’re susceptible because your energetic immune system happens to be low. (And you can easily keep it high with regular meditations like this one.)
But if you suspect that you have been hexed or cursed, should you be freaking out right now?
Nope! Don’t panic. Never panic. Take a deep breath. Then take another one, and remember that you are the power in your own life. You absolutely have the ability to shift your own energy for the better.
Next, keep calm and employ one or more of the following awesome ways to break a hex or a curse.
Please note that all of these are 100% safe to do whether or not you are cursed or hexed: so if one of them is calling to you, it won’t hurt to give it a try. In fact, it’ll give you a vitality-boosting energy cleanse.
Hex or Curse Breaker #1: The Lemon Cure
For the Lemon Cure, on the morning of a full moon, rise between sunrise and one hour after sunrise. Cut a lemon in half and sprinkle the top of each half with sea salt. Sweep your aura with one half and then the other half (sort of like you’re using an energetic lint brush about 6-12 inches away from your skin) and then place both halves face up on your altar. The next morning, again between sunrise and an hour after sunrise, discard the halves in a yard waste, trash, or compost bin. Then repeat the entire process with a new lemon. Repeat for 12 days straight.
Hex or Curse Breaker #2: The Saltwater Cure
If you feel intuitively drawn to the Saltwater Cure, draw a warm or hot bath. Add 1 cup epsom salt, 1 cup sea salt, and 1/4 cup baking soda and dissolve by stirring the water in a counterclockwise direction. Before you enter the water, hold your hands in prayer pose and say, “Divine Spirit, thank you for filling this water with vibrations of healing, purification, and love.” Visualize the water as filled and surrounded with blindingly bright white light. Then get in and soak for at least 40 minutes. And stay hydrated as you soak: be sure to have plenty of drinking water on hand.
Hex or Curse Breaker #3: The Angel Cure
Enlist angels to break your hex or curse with the Angel Cure. First, obtain a celestite crystal. Cleanse it by placing it in bright sunlight for 5-10 minutes. Hold it in both hands near your heart as you center your mind. Then say:
Archangel Michael, I call on you. Thank you for powerfully clearing and purifying me of any and all stuck or challenging energies. Archangel Haniel, I call on you. Thank you for attuning me to the frequencies of purity, harmony, and peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Blessed be. And so it is.
Keep the crystal with you for one full moon cycle, purifying it regularly in the light of the sun.
Hex or Curse Breaker #4: The Selenite and White Sage Cure
Selenite crystals and white sage are both powerful detoxifiers and can help clear old energetic patterns or vibrational debris related to curses or hexes. Using a selenite wand, sweep your energy field downward and outward, about 6-12 inches away from your skin. Then light a sage bundle so that it’s smoking like incense and thoroughly bathe your aura in the smoke by waving the sage around the around the outside of your body, again 6-12 inches away from your skin. (This is called “smudging” if you didn’t know.) Be very careful to catch any burning embers with a dish or a plate. Then safely extinguish the sage by sealing it in a jar.
Hex or Curse Breaker #5: The Rose Overdose Cure
Roses can help break your hex or curse because they have among the highest and purest vibrations of any living thing. For the Rose Overdose cure, draw a warm bath. Add 1/4 cup rose water and the petals from 12 white roses. Soak for at least 40 minutes. After you dry off, put 4 drops of rose flower essence under your tongue. (Please note that flower essences are very different than essential oils, as they are safe to take internally. In case you’re not familiar with the difference, here is an example of a rose flower essence.) Put another 4 drops under your tongue just before bed. Every day for the next 28 days, take 2 drops of rose flower essence under your tongue every morning upon waking and every evening just before going to sleep.
Not Sure Which One(s) to Choose?
Cut 5 small, equally-sized squares of paper. Now you’re going to draw simple representations of each cure. (Don’t worry if you’re not an artist – as long as you can recognize it, it’s fine.) On one, draw a lemon. On another, draw a simple wave to represent water. On the next, draw angel wings. The final two will be a leaf (to represent sage) and a rose.
Put them in a hat. Say a prayer for guidance, asking the Divine to show you which cure will most effectively break the challenging energy pattern for you. Without looking, use one hand to mix them around, and draw one.
Then, flip a shiny penny to see if it will be helpful for you to do an additional cure. If it’s heads, the answer is yes. If it’s tails, no. Choose up to three this way. (More than three would be overkill.)
If you happen to choose any combination of the lemon, rose, and angel cures, do them in tandem: don’t wait a month and then start the next.
If you happen to choose both the saltwater and the rose, do the saltwater bath first. Then wait a full 24 hours before beginning the rose cure.
The selenite and white sage cure can be performed before (and on the same day as) any other cure.
Keep Calm and Stay Strong.
To bolster your energetic immunity, make sure to eat healthy, drink lots of water, and get plenty of sleep. And, as I mentioned above, it’s also a good idea to keep your energy clear and shielded with a meditation like this one.
And remember: don’t panic! You’re going to be fine. You’ve got this.
Hello Miss Whitehurst.
I am a 78 yr. old man who thinks he may have been cursed by his father–but I’m not sure. When I was 6 yrs. old my father was full of incessant hate and would kick me with his boots, all the while cursing me.
I have never been successful and have absolutely no desire left to do anything. I have lost everything, especially my daughter whom I loved very much. I am a good writer, but I always pick the wrong literary
agent and just end up doling out money for nothing. I have one self-published book that is out there, but I doubt that it will sell . . . and I am unsure whether to try and find a good, honest agent for my next book?
I hope and pray things will change for the better. I haven’t told you everything; there is not enough room here. I would love your opinion.
John
Hi John! I’m so sorry to hear about your heartbreaks and challenges. It’s my sense that your relationship with your father definitely had an effect on your life, but that it’s not a curse precisely. Have you read You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay? If not, I highly recommend it.
Hey my name is Areley and about 3 years ago I found this clear sealed bag with my hair in it and white rice and seem to be some time of spices or dirt in it too. I was told to not touch it with bare hands and to go throw it as far as possible away from home . So I did that, but till this day I don’t know what that really meant and idk if that’s what has affected my life so much that I always lose my stuff like last time I lost my wallet went back to the place where I lost it before getting off the car and into my home and they showed me the cameras and it shows how I got into my car with it so I looked all really good in my car but it’s not there either… I didn’t stop to get off anywhere else so I could have not lost it no where else, things like that happen to me a lot now and Or something good is happening in my life and then things turn bad..
Areley, I suggest the Angel Cure from this post.
hy tess,I stole from my struggling sis,and told me,I will live in agony and my children to come shall make my life nor peace,,pls what can I do
Hi there! Did you make it right with your sister? Start by paying her back. Then if you feel you still need support, try the Angel Cure.
Hi Tess. I have had awful luck since childhood, especially in obtaining the sole thing that I want. My oldest sister has expressed extreme jealousy of me since I was a child, because I had something she wanted (which happened to be the exact thing I have always wanted since I lost it after childhood). A few years later I lost that thing (it wasn’t tangible), and I worked extremely hard until I finally got it back by myself. But now, a year later, in a ridiculously illogical and rare turn of events, I have once again lost that thing. I have fairly bad luck in other areas of life, but it is this one area where I have the most inexplicably, unexpectedly horrific luck. I have spoken to professionals, friends, my parents, many of the things that happen to me that cause me to lose what I had have no reasonable explanation, and often completely baffle experienced professionals. And it is this exact thing that my sister has always been jealous of. She is definitely the type to be interested in magic, but she doesn’t practice it from what I know. Does this sound like a curse to you? What can I do? Will I be able to reverse the things that happened to make me lose what I had?
Hi J! It doesn’t feel like a curse to me, but actually a karmic pattern that goes back from before this lifetime for you both. For now and to start, I suggest a daily cleansing and shielding meditation. It doesn’t have to be this one, but this is the type I mean: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/. After you’ve done something like this daily for at least a month, if you would like further guidance, feel free to connect with me again.
I forgot to add…she has since gained the thing she was jealous of me for, and in the years that we both had it, she expressed no jealousy towards me, but the summer before I lost that thing, she again told my mother that she is still jealous of me for it, and it was about 6 months later that year that I lost it again, in a weird, incredibly illogical series of events. When I say illogical, I really mean it. It is true that experienced, educated professionals have been absolutely baffled by the things that have caused me to lose this thing, and have often said there is no possible way that this occurred. Actually, every time that she has expressed any jealousy or admiration of me having that thing, it seems that I have subsequently lost it within the year, despite having it for years on end before she speaks about it. This has happened at least 2 or 3 times. I believe only one of the times, out of maybe 4 or 5 times in all, that I lost it may not have been preceded by her commenting on it.
Oh I just saw your reply, thank you.
Hello Tess I got married to a woman from the islands about 7 years ago..we divorced a year into the marriage..after I left one year later I started to hear her voice in my head..also I feel sharp pains in my body..to this day I am going threw the same thing..her voice beats me down says negative things..I’m thinking this maybe a curse or a hex.i do not no becuz I am not familiar with any of this..what I do know is that I e eaten her food and a pond me moving out of her place I’ve left something behind..how can I free myself..no one seems to understand
Hi there. I suggest that you contact Sen Elias over at Crescent City Conjure. Here’s his website: https://crescentcityconjure.us
Hi pls ineed your help, put a spell on someone to dreamt about me, i put our names on a pink paper with my perfume, we broke up.so i erase our names on the paper but i kept on having bad dreams, pls help what to do to
Hi Jenny! I suggest that you do the lemon cure from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-awesome-ways-to-break-a-hex-or-a-curse/
Do you have to shill something with every answer or recommendation? Is that part of your policy?
this very much sounds like ancestral healing being called for john. We are intimately linked to our fathers and forefathers, we carry their patters in our DNA. Perhaps you could invoke your fathers spirit if he has passed, or your grandfathers if not and make an offering, some tobacco or some food cooked that he used to enjoy. Its a good idea to leave it outside by a tree or flower/stone that means something to you. By feeding out ancestral lineage we create a connection with them to work through. He will help you.
Hi I’m Shadwin. I’ve been having a rough life and everything I do doesn’t seem to be working out. Whenever I feel things are working out there’s this full stop that appears. And I don’t understand what’s causing it.
Shadwin, I’m so sorry to hear it! I highly recommend the book The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. Maybe give it a try and see if it helps.
Hi Tess, I am thankful to have found this page. I was suffering for 3 years now 2 yrs.ago i was confined and always doing the checkups because my body is in pain but the doctor said its all normal but i know something is not normal in me there are some changes in my body like weight loss, dull eye, my face looks different from before, skin color and always experiencing back pain and feeling there’s an insect in my face and head. A friend of mom thinks somebody put this magic on me a possible things i remember i had an argue before. I tell to my friend and she bring me to a faith healer the old woman told me there are two girls jealous of me and they want me to gone crazy plus a guy who dont want me to be with somebody else and want me to be ugly. don’t know what to do anymore how to deal anymore i want to get out of this i dont want to be lonely anymore. Wish you can help me
Liz, I’m so sorry! This sounds challenging. I recommend the Lemon Cure.
Hiya my mate is by far definitely cursed, bad things keep happening everyday, coincidences all the time, feeling as though she has been hit round back of the head and other people when they around, is there anything we can do at all? Please.
Hi there! I recommend the Saltwater Cure (#2 in the post).
Hi tess Whitehurst my name is Kayla and I am 17 years old. I know this may sound crazy but I’m not the kind of person who ever talks about this type of stuff but I know someone is giving me a hard time and I might be hit with a curse in my mind which is effecting everything including my thinking and everything else that I’m doing from a Hispanic girl and her friends that may be involved. You see it’s kind of a long story but I’m a senior in high school at eastern Guildford in Gibsonville, NC and I live in Mcleansville, NC I was a new student there last year when I was a junior me and my mom moved from Greensboro for a better place and I was ok with that since it was going to be new people I was being myself. I was riding a new bus 1062 the bus driver is nice and she is the only person who is nice. Anyway jumping to the situation that I’ve been dealing with I’m depressed acting out of character things just isn’t going my way and things aren’t right like it used to be. You see I was happy and I was in my own little world just thinking about a lot of things in my mind which is good for Me good things but I noticed I have had a hard time with negative people who are messing with me and this Hispanic girl particularly who have put a curse on my mind and blocked all of my thoughts and I am having a hard time concentrating. I just want to be happy again and if you can help me some how to get these negative people and the effects that they gave me inside of my head that might be beneficial to me . I may be also dealing with a short term memory loss I just can’t think anymore or be in my own little world. I am suffering of being bullied indirectly from these people and the Hispanic girl who has caused all of this. That’s it for right now thank you please help me if you can because that’s all I can think about this all the time.
Kayla, I suggest that you carry or wear a clear quartz crystal point. Keep it cleansed regularly with sunlight and/or running water. Also, cut all added sugar and processed food out of your diet. Fresh, whole fruit is OK, but fruit juice is not. I also suggest that you eat lots of fruits and vegetables and take a high quality probiotic supplement every day. After at least a month of this, you will almost certainly feel a lot better, but keep it up.
Hi Ms Whitehurst,
I’ve been married almost 7 yrs. Before I married my husband, he had all the qualities you would want in a husband. It’s as if someone flipped a switch, & turned all that off when we got married, and I moved in to his house. We don’t sleep in the same room, 95% of the time when he speaks to me, it’s harshly, and disrespectfully, the rest of the time, we’re not speaking to each other. I’m miserable, I hate him for turning my life upside down. I have a strong feeling someone has a hand in the demise of my marriage, and I have a strong feeling who it is.
Yvette, I’m so sorry to hear this. It sounds like you may want to do couples counseling, and if that doesn’t work, you may want to consider separating. You CAN empower yourself and heal your life so that you love it again.
My aura is grey cobwebs and nobody can or will offer me any help.
Michie, have you tried my aura cleansing meditation? https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/
Thank you … I’m not sure it’s fixing anything but it does make me feel better
Hi, I am trying to find out information on breaking a hex from someone who is deceased now. It was from my grandmother who would tell me frequently that she put a hex on me to never have children. Joking or not, I’ve been trying to conceive for two years now with barely any success. How should I go about this? It is true she may have just been saying it, but she would claim to have put them on other people, including my mother (specifically to not have male children until she met the “right” man, and low and behold, I have a 2 year old half brother now at 25 years old). It is just a concern that maybe this is why i am struggling.
Hi Aerie! I’m getting that the lemon cure (the first one on this post) will be helpful for you for this purpose.
Hi Tess! I am glad to have found your page.
Back in November, a long-time friend (who may not be a friend any longer) said she was putting bad karmatic retribution on those of us that did not vote for Hillary. She happens to be a psychic medium. Since then, I’ve had a laundry list of bad luck. I’m not sure if it’s my imagination but I would like to get rid of this problem. I have no idea what to do.
Thank you for listening
Hi Robin! That sounds really challenging, I’m so sorry! I suggest the Lemon Cure (the first one in this blog post).
Hi Tess, i was trying to learn about twin flame and this lady was “helping” me but now she is asking for a lot of money to brake a curse someone put on me. I’m sure this is not right but now I’m afraid she can put some kind of curse or vex on me if I don’t pay what she is asking. how can I block her from doing that? and if she is right how can stop what was put on me without all this money asks??
Lau, that must feel unsettling, I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this challenge. I suggest that you ask Archangel Michael for help with this challenge. You can call on him to surround you with protective light and flame once per day.
thanks!!
for several years now my daughter and two grandchildren have lived with me and my husband.a couple of years ago another person started coming over alot.since that time my daughter and grandkids hardly ever speak or even acknowledge us.also they refuse to eat any food that i fix or even take out that i buy.they are very distant to me and my husband.i think this other person is a witch and she has put a curse on my house or me.i don’t know what to do.
Hi Judith! This sounds devastating! I recommend the Selenite and White Sage cure (as described in the post).
I am wondering if I am cursed. Everything was going really well, then I got attacked by 2 dogs, then the following week I was audited. Found out really bad financial news with my husband. This is all within 3 weeks. I do think we had a ghost in the house for a bit because our one dog would follow his eyes to nothing and then start barking at nothing. I saged the entire house. Its a 100+ year old house.
Hi AJ! Oh no! That all sounds very stressful. I am not getting the feeling that you’re cursed, but I do sense that lots of cleansing and clearing will help you move through this transformational period in a positive way. Check out the “Cleansing and Clearing” section of my blog to find some practices that feel right to you.
Thank you. I am going to do all those things. 2 more major life changes were also thrown our way since my post. My live was pretty stable and honestly in the past month more has been thrown at us then in years and years, and I have a child with an autoimmune disease.
Hi tess, I was hexed by eccentric old man and boy is it working what can I do?
Hi Kareen, I’m sorry to hear this. I’m getting that the lemon cure (the first one in this post) will be helpful for you.
Hi Tess,
I believe my sister put a hex on me when she came into my home. She has always been very jealous & has done many deceptive & underhanded things to me over the years. All of them I forgave her but she simply cant seem to be happy for me. The first time she ever visit my home, she had to go outside & cry because she was so upset I now lived in a large beautiful home. She is also very jealous of the close relationship my husband & I have. My sister is twice divorced, fights with the few friends she had left & lost her only child to a drug overdose. To say she is bitter is putting it mildly. Do you know of anyone legitimate that I could pay to come here & rid this house & me of any negative juju she bestowed upon me & my family. Our run of bad luck since she entered my home cant be just a coincidence. Plus, she seems to almost be euphoric over our run of bad luck the last few years. Thank you. Teresa
Hi Teresa! I’m not sure where you are in the world, but you might consider contacting Sen Elias over at Crescent City Conjure. https://crescentcityconjure.us/pages/spiritual-services
I’m sorry. I’m in Gettysburg Pa. Thank you. Teresa 🙂
No prob! Yes, see what Sen Elias says. Maybe he can help you out remotely.
Hi Tess! I recently recalled an instance where when I was about 5 yrs old someone put a curse on me and with the magic she used I had only remembered this 25 year later. It is said to be an old spell old what it is but it’s supposed to last 4 generations. Please help me. Can I email you?
Hi Kris! Thanks for reading. Please feel free to use the contact form on my site.
Hi Tess what was your suggestion for the old spell? And how possible would it be to clear curse done to my mother while prego with me, now it’s Happening big to me.
I’m sorry, I don’t understand what you are asking. I will say that you can clear old curses like the one you mentioned using the techniques in this post. Choose the one you are most drawn to.
I think my wife is having sex with people in my house, but I can’t see them. I swear I can hear her and someone else in other rooms of my house . When I walk into the room, it sounds like two people hiding or running away and she is standing there with this cat that ate the canary look. I’m also finding white tissue paper balls all over the house on the floor. Too many to be just one that someone may have dropped on accident. Does this make any sense? I know I must sound crazy, but I can feel the presence of other people my house. She denies everything and even swears on it. But I can’t deny these feelings that I have. Could this be some kind of spell for invisibility or a spell on me to hear things that aren’t there? Please help. I feel like I’m being made a fool of. Please help me!
Brian, I suggest performing a thorough space clearing in your house: clear clutter and then clear the space with white sage, bells, chimes, etc. (Check out my book The Good Energy Book for clearer direction.)
Or could be gaslighting, #spycam
Hi Tess, Please if you will, I have a two part question. -I have recently lost someone very near and dear. I thought I was dealing ok, but lately I have had some very unsettling occurances that make me believe this person is trying to communicate with me, but for some reason I become frightened when the signs occur although they are not threatening they are actually very non threatening, I think they are more surprising but I don’t know what they mean and I am so unsettled over them, maybe they are just coincedences?
-Secondly for years I have had the worst luck, I just can’t seem to be able to keep a good thing going weather its jobs,friends, money, life. I am a good person,mom,friend,sister,daughter,wife. I dont hurt people intentionaly and I try to always choose the high road. My bad luck has caused me to be depressed and insecure, I feel that there is something wrong with me, like I have this dark cloud over me and perhaps I can’t see it, but no one has ever said that there was something about me they don’t like it just seems they leave my life and with out cause and give no reason. I lose jobs as quickly as I gain them and without just cause, the people I love most stay away but dont say why? I have always felt I reap what I sow and that kharma will get you so I try my best to be a good person and show my love for others but not over bearingly and I very aware not to be annoyingly needy. Is it possble I have had a curse or spell placed on me? I just can’t explain why my luck is always bad and until just recently it never occured to me that it could be a curse? How can I tell what it is? Sometimes I feel I must have been a really bad person in a past life because I have been a very good person in this life but still have this terrible luck.
What would you suggest I try? Please advise I am so lost at this point.
Patricia, I’m sorry you’re experiencing these challenges! I’m not sensing that it’s a curse. I suggest doing this meditation daily: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/ . I also suggest that you read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up and follow its instructions. Many blessings to you!
Hello, Tess! Over the last few years I have experienced numerous relationship failures. Around the six-week mark all the relationships have gone south for no apparent reason. I truly feel like I have a curse. Can you help me? I don’t know what hex removal is appropriate. Thank you in advance. 🙂
Dania, I suggest the Lemon Cure – the first one in this post. 🙂
Hi I’m wandering what exactly does someone do when they curse or hex you? My brother plays around with stuff like this. I myself am Christian. He really doesn’t like me because I’m his adopted brother. And when you speak the word of God he will almost start to completely have a ?! Do you think this fool can really cause my wife and I problems? He’s been in my house while I was gone at work before and totally degraded my wife calling her fat and making fun of her. Well there’s a lot more too it than that. But I’m just wandering what you think he may be able to try to do to my life if he doesn’t like me. Because I know he doesn’t.
Hi Jeffrey! That sounds frustrating – I’m sorry to hear about this. As a Christian, I assume you believe in angels? You could call on angels every day to surround and protect you, your wife, and your home. Or, if you prefer, you could just call on Jesus. This way, if your brother does try anything, you’ll have a barrier of spiritual protection to keep you safe.
Hello Tess, thank you for all the healing and light you bring to the world…
I am going through a very rough and difficult time, my life has been very hard and of late, even worse. My beloved cat was killed a year ago the same night I had a car accident, and I struggle with depression and other health issues, etc. May I ask what you might suggest. Blessed Be
Phoenix fire, I’m so sorry to hear about these heartbreaking challenges. Do you have any clutter anywhere? If so, I recommend clearing it. I also recommend the book You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. Have you read it? I can’t say enough wonderful things about it, and I’m sensing that it will be very powerful for you at this time.
I have read it, but will re read, thank you for your response and Blessed Be )O( <3
Hi Tess,
Does the lemon cure have to be on a full moon or can it be done at anytime? I would like to start the cleanse as soon as possible.
Thank you!
Hi Jane! I would wait until the full moon. In the meantime, you can get the energy flowing in the right direction and prepare for success by clearing clutter from your home, eating healthy, and drinking lots of water.
It’s been almost 2 years since my wife and i been having problems. We had move into a older rent house. That same day we had gotten married. After, a couple of months i started to hear at night conversation in the other room. I don’t know what can be but it seem it has gotten worse louder) PLUS, i been feeling like something has been bitting me. But the worse thing is since the day 12/05/2015 while my wife is asleep. I feel like something or someone touching her. I am scared for her. Plus, i had a dream that show me a couple standing together and a X on her or us. I can remember. I don’t know if i was dreaming but i saw a more then one figures around the bed of our room very evil faces. I don’t know if someone put something on me or my wife or even both of us. Are relationship feel like it come to a end.
Mac, I’m so sorry to hear this! I’m not sensing a hex: I’m sensing a haunting. I’d like to suggest that you hire someone to clear your space of earthbound spirits. If you don’t already know of someone, and you let me know where you are in the world, I may have a referral for you.
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I came across your page by chance .l think it was meant to be as l am currently in bed exhausted and sinking into deep depression.
I have suffered different types of abuse all my life.From parents and husband .l had failed suicide attempts and forever not coping with life.
I have lost a child and husband along the way and l am still struggling .l have been on my own for so long.Each time l get emotionally involved with someone they lose they job.lm exhausted .l really need your help.
Hello dear Tope. I’m very sorry to hear this. Have you read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up? I know it sounds simple, but I have the sense that if you read it and follow the instructions in it, it will make a really positive difference in your life. After you do it, come back and let me know how you’re feeling.
hi tess,
my name is tom i have had an unforant insident where my exs ex out of nowhere decided to hex me and the one i love, which in turn messed with my family and my realationship, i have done nothing wrong to this man due to the fact at the time i was with my ex,(extremly possessive) i was afraid to leave and both her and my ex drove me mad, but he just recently decided to hex me with i guess may be love spell. i tried to use protection candle didnt work hexed the rest of family. unfortantly i busted my knuckle when i was woring and everything went silent then i broke into a panic attack screaming in pain and havent been able to work or stand my gf since, i used a hex breaking spell with beer hops and lemon and now im feeling sick but it was wirse before, it has caused ill health for my family and due to the fact he acted on the mercury retrograde idk if it will be stoppable. but i have faith. because through the tourture my soul is still feeling im numb to because of this and because of him i can clearly communicate with him and its sickening because this man has stolen the light from my life and made me sick literally, i can barely sleep ither, i havent slept well in months. what can be done because of this??
Thomas, I’m so sorry to hear about this. I recommend doing the Lemon Cure starting at the next full moon. Also, starting now and every day, call on Archangel Michael for help. You could even light him a candle.
I once visited a healing witchdoctor who said I was suffering from money curse. However, I did not comply to the ritual requested . After sometime I resigned from employment and my money that I received just got finished mysteriously. Am I under curse , can’t get a job or money.
Hi there! Perhaps you are, but it’s my sense that the Saltwater Cure (the second one in the post) will clear it for you.
Hi Tess – I have a close family member I feel has been cursed with alcoholism by a family member; the cursed family member lives in a different state; what would you recommend?
Thanks,
SJ
SJ, so sorry to hear this! It’s my sense that the best thing you can do is keep your own energy clear and positive (this meditation or one like it may help: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/ ), and send the family member with alcoholism clearing/healing/shielding vibes regularly.
Hey,
I’ve got this anger in me from my family and an addiction i once overcame for 4 years but have now been 5 years in torment . I get close to success then block myself from it by using or getting drunk. I feel like a fool and contemplate suicide often. Yet I aspire to healing, reflexology and massage. Crystals and witches are my new friends. The universe conspires to shower me with blessings and synchronicity aligns with me regularly. Yet I see strangers faces wash over me when i close my eyes and violent thoughts plague me to hurt myself and young family. It’s like Im torn in two. Or have evil in me. What should I do?
Hi, thanks for connecting – this sounds so challenging! I suggest talking to a therapist. Have you heard of the app called TalkSpace? Might be something to look into, as it offers very affordable therapy options (if this is a concern). Rehab would be awesome too, if possible.
Hi Tess,
My whole existence, I have not been able to do anything with my life. Everything I do doesn’t work out and the number 13 follows me around. I am an artist and I have tried over and over to make money on my own but, whenever I feel things are working out or might work, there’s this full stop that brings things to an end. It seems that I can make money for other people but not for myself. The last was doing designs and placing them on products through a Print on Demand site. Everything seemed to be going well and I was planning a million products with my art and I made it to nearly 200,000 products when they suddenly capped accounts at 100,000. I ran a numerology report for myself and found that 13 is my karmic number and tells me I will always hit a brick wall whenever I try to succeed at anything. How can I succeed against this karma? I am at my wit’s end and cannot live like this anymore.
John
Hi John! You do not need to believe in the numerology report or the story that you will hit a brick wall. I recommend reading this post, even though it’s about breaking a mirror: https://tesswhitehurst.com/is-breaking-a-mirror-really-seven-years-bad-luck/ – watch the video at the bottom as well. I also recommend reading the book You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay.
I guess you misunderstood me. I have NOT been living my life with the notion that I have bad luck and that I will always hit a brick wall NOR have I been living the past 50 years believing in a numerology report. I have already lived my life and what I said was that I have not been able to do anything with my life because no matter what I do or what venture I undertake I always hit a full stop because of circumstances BEYOND my control! No matter what, I always picked myself up, dusted myself off and got myself ready to try again. There is NO failure, just stopped by life because it just seemed like it did not want me to succeed. It was NOT until LAST year, SIX MONTHS AGO, that I ran this numerology report and it essentially detailed the path of my life as I have lived it! The number 13 that has followed me around my whole life, was there too and it is a karmic debt number detailing how in one life I had money and success and used it to hurt others and in this life I will struggle and “hit a brick wall” in all I do. Now I understand about positive mental outlook and that is NOT my problem because, through all the downfalls, I keep telling myself that “tomorrow is another day”! I just thought you might offer some guidance on working through this karmic debt but it seems you don’t have a belief in re-incarnation or karma.
Hi again John! I suggest giving the Lemon Cure (in this post) a try. 🙂
When I posted my reply, I had the premonition that you would recommend the Lemon thing. I appreciate your efforts but these rituals – just like the crucifix and holy water – require a belief structure in where it is your own power through belief in these rituals and objects that makes things happen. No more or less than what your were trying to suggest in your first response of mental outlook. I am fighting a different demon and, since you have no belief in karma, it is not something that can be wiped away with lemon and salt. If you believe in the threefold law, than you know that whatever a person does in life that they have to be accountable for sooner or later. The only thing missing from that is that if you do not pay for it in one life, then you will pay for it in another life. Thanks anyways.
Hi my name is Joao Pedro (John Peter in English) and i hope u can help me, im going tell my story that i tell to many ppl but no one believes me or gives me any credit but im sure im cursed in some heavy form i hope is not too late to solve it and hope u can help me.
. this is my story: i was 17 years old and everything was great my future was promising i had a girlfriend in a city close to mine and i used to go there to be with her , we used to go to a coffee to meet with her in one of those days a man enter the coffee from nothing and asked to play a game and said to write my entire name in a piece of paper that he will bury to the ground to make an experiment, i was young and naive , and writed my name after a few seconds i did that and my girlfriend said u shouldnt had done that and i said that is nothing what he can do with a piece of paper with my name on,,,, when i looked around few seconds later that man simply had vanished , dont know who he was, the truth is since that day my life was just became miserable i lost my old friends almost never seen them agaiin since then and since then only bad ppl come into my life, i got hit in the head several times in fights that i cant explain why was in them ,got locked up, no girlfriend since then,i went to a path of drugs(that im almost out now) i bringed nothing then suffering to my parents and family and its like my mind cant forget only that day, everything else that was good i forgot if i had it , i can only remeber the bad things like my life is a curse itself, im almost 33 and everything went wrong and i mean everything! im in a point in my life i feel i still have 17 years old because since that day it appears i just cant do nothing with my life, all decisions , everything that happen just seems to go wrong no matter what i do. even know so much years after that. 16 years to be precise and im trying to run away from all the bad things and evil in life and all just keep coming back and i just remeber that day i writen my name in a paper to a stranger like it was yesterday , please help me
i feel like iam nothing,i have nothing,mylife is kinda nightmare i have severe headaches that dont let me think, all goals and objetives to the drain right now im in tottaly misery and if it wasnt for my parents i probbly will be still be locked up or dead there was sometimes i have nightmares with bad things and they just come to happen i cant understand why, my life was promising till that day just cant understand how so much bad things can happen from a stupid decision and i cant find any other explanation
Joao Pedro, that sounds really hard – I’m so sorry! I suggest contacting Sen Elias at Crescent City Conjure in New Orleans to help you out with this one: https://crescentcityconjure.us
Hi
My husband is a very nice man, he is always helpful and caring towards people and offcourse family, but his own brothers are always taking advantage of him especially monetarily. I have tried speaking to him but it’s not helping my in anyway.
His brothers are always asking for money n my husband being a nice man cannot day no to them. So he lands up lending money everytime. N its hard earned money. Its not that we are really rich to keep on lending but his brothers don’t get it. They enjoy themselves in everyway. And also take loans from us. I’m fedup n I don’t know what to do. Please help me.
Ritu, rather than casting a spell in this instance, I suggest setting a powerful boundary by separating your finances. That way, your husband can make his own financial decisions and you can make yours, and he won’t be able to give away money that you have worked hard to earn.
Good Day TESS, I Am So Happy To Be Here And I Hope To Find Solution To My Problem.
I Am Godwin By Name And My Life Have Been So Hard. People Tell Me That Am Good And Fun_To_Be_With But When It Comes To My Bussiness And Educational Background, It Is Rough For Me.
Early Last Year I Had A Dream And Bothered Me So Much When I Ask So Trusted People They Told Me That My Success Is Been Delayed And Something Have Been Positioned To Watch It.
Please Help Me!! What Should I Do
Hi Godwin! I suggest the Selenite and White Sage Cure in this post.
Thanks Alot
I Forget To Add This One Too
Sometimes When I Am Walking On Road Or In A Field Playing Game, I Notice Something Like Cobwebs Wili Cover My Face, Sometimes My Legs Someone Told Me That It Is Evil Weapon But I Don’t Believe It.
What Is Your View On This???
Hi Tess,
I am a 31 year old man. I was good in my studies in my school. My family had great expectations from. But ever since i left High school i have been a total failure. I never clear my exams for job . Recently i lost my job too. Actually i was cursed by one of my teacher when i was in senior school. It might be because of that curse that i have been unsuccessful all my life. How can i break that curse. Please suggest Thanks in Advance
Hi there! My sense is that it’s not a curse, but an energy block. Try clearing your clutter from your home and giving your house a good cleaning. It might help unblock your energy and get things moving in the right direction.
Hello Tess
I had send a post to you a few days ago and you have not responded to me! Its obably a oversite but I really need your help
Thank you.
Susan
Hi Susan! Did you send a message through my site? I don’t remember seeing it. Please re-send.
Hello Tess
I sent it the same way I sent m6 previous message under gspurych. I can resend if you like?
Thank you so much!
Susan
Hi Susan, yes please resend using the contact form on my site.
Hi Tess, I’m so grateful I found your site! So my story is – I was in a relationship with a man who was extremely jealous, possesive, controlling and abusive (mainly verbally). After 7 years things got really bad, I started fearing for my own safety and I left him. This was 6 years ago. Since then I have not been able to find a partner. Each relationships suddenly finished after couple of weeks/months no matter how much I tried. Recently I’ve been to a psychic for a tarot card reading. She went really deep and told me that my ex-boyfriened put a curse on me hence my love related issue. She is not the first person who told me that something is not right or that someone does not wish me well. I also have this feeling of heaviness on my chest, sometimes I cannot breath. All other aspects of my life are great! This idea of curse sounds a bit odd to me, not sure if to believe it but deep insideI think there is something about it….. What should I do?
Hi Nica! I suggest the Rose Overdose cure from this post. It’s my sense that this will clear up the challenge.
Hello Tess
My husband and I think we have a curse or hex put on us. Since we have been in our home which have been for several years we have had health, financial, work, and relationship issues; this is just a generalization but the list is so long. Nothing seems to go in our favour. When we were in our previous home, our life was not so difficult. We think it may be our crazy Neighbours since they are capable of such evil things including lying to the police and causing havoc for other neighbors, but maybe it is someone else?
We have cleansed our home with crystals and different prayers and we don’t feel it’s our home.
Can you please make a recommendation. We love each other so much and want to live a life filled with health, happiness and a positive future.
Thank you.
Hi Susan! Have you considered moving? It seems like that house might not be the right fit for you two. I know it’s easier said than done, but that’s the sense I’m getting: find somewhere new.
Thank you Tess!
Financially at this point in our like it’s not feasible. We moved into this home and area to be closer to our mothers who are getting older and need more attention.
Hi again Susan! OK, then I recommend intense decluttering and simplifying. Once you’ve cleared every extra thing from everywhere (including off-site storage areas, your workplace, your car, and digital clutter such as old emails and voicemails), drop another line to let me know how things are going. If you haven’t read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, it’s a fantastic resource for clutter clearing motivation. I can’t recommend it enough.
Thank you Tess! I will start the challenge! I know it will take time as my husband and I are pack rats! Any suggestions in the meantime?
Susan
No, that’s it for now: read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up and clear clutter! If you want even more inspiration, you could also read Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston. The more you clear, the more energy you will free up, so every bit of time you spend on clearing will improve your wellbeing.
Hey Tess,
I feel like I have no control over my body I think a hex is making me spill all my drinks and break things at work all the time. Is there a bad energy in the room or am I just clumsy here more than other places?
Maddie, I’m getting the sense that there’s some harsh energy at your workplace that is overwhelming your personal energy. Try wearing a black tourmaline pendant. Clear and charge it by placing it in full sun for at least a couple of minutes every 2-3 days. (If there’s no sun for a while, you can burn sage smoke around it or run it under cold water.)
hello, i want to share my story to you people! im lucky ..live with my boyfriend still. i was cursed really bad! first i lost my me money and place to live , and me and him had to move 4 times and he was at hospital he salmost died!” and he was really sick and almost broke his neck, and i got these rashes all over my face and i heard voices and i fel bad and depressed all the time, me and my bf started fighting because everything vere going to hell,.,. and we almost broke up and i was angry and jealous all the time and hated everyone. but then i found out who cursed me and wrote their name on a paper and put it in water in freeser ,and i burned all the things who were placed in the apartment like small hairs and stuff.. scary shit. and i did things i dont remember and i forgot things, i was tired all the time and felt hopless.. this is no joke , thanks for tips!”! blessed be!!
i hope i can make it up with my boyfriend because i acted terrible , i really did!
Linn, thanks for connecting here! I wish you and your boyfriend all the best as you continue to shift your energy for the better.
Hi Tess,
I have been having trouble turning my brain off at night. I have been having mundane, hyper-realistic dreams (about things like stressing out at the grocery store over what type of chicken to pick out, being late for work, etc), causing me to wake up feeling not well-rested. I encountered a Wikka coworker who I believe may have put a hex on me. How do I start feeling more like myself?
Hayley, I suggest the Rose Overdose Cure from this post.
Hello,
I was told by a friend/medium that my Aunt put a curse on me centuries ago. The curse is against my hole family that we rot from the inside out. I have a bad addiction to alcohol and so does my mom . Is this apart of the curse ? Which should I do to break this ?
Love to you.
Christa, I suggest the Lemon Cure from this post, and also rehab or at least some other type of addiction program for support.
Hi Tess,
I will do the Lemon cure but Full moon is in 5 days, can I start it now or I have to wait?
Thanks a lot!
Soledad
I would wait!
Amazing Tess!
I started in the morning of the full moon and changes happened the same day as my colleague, who had a plant pot on her desk with a knife pointing at me, removed it and cleaned up the space (this had been there for at least 5 month but I never though it was against me!)
Thanks a lot for sharing your knowledge!
Soledad, fantastic! So glad to hear. Thanks for the update.
Hey there miss ,
So my guy and I have been together for 10 years now got together really young . His mom never wanted to see us together and for the past year or two he has changed so much he sees things he gets violent he can’t ever keep a job and he is so good at everything it just doesn’t make sense . We believe she wanted everything for her so she did what ever she can to stop us from doing good . What should we do ? Always believe in GOD still do
But we have to figure out if she did and what can we do cause
I am the one affected by this accused wrongly mistreated and when I try to leave him he won’t do it . And we have kids together
Hi! I suggest that you give the Rose Overdose Cure (from this post) a try.
My husband had an affair with a girl who is in to wicca. I had gone
to a psychic to see what was happening to my life , a lot of bad stuff. She told me that my husband was having an affair and that his girlfriend put a curse on me. I didn’t believe it, until all this bad stuff started happening to me. I found out who she is, because I went through his phone and found a text she sent. I have l ost my job twice, my son backed over my dog, I had to put her down. No one will hire me, and I was at my last job for 26 years. A lot of more bad stuff has happened, too many things to write. I just really need help. The psychic told me if I pay her 5000.00$ she could help me and it would take her 11 months to do it. My question is can I get rid of this on my own, this has been going on for 2 years now. I did nothing to this person, I was told she was jealous of me. I don’t even know her. Please I need some serious help here.
Hello! I’m getting that the Selenite and White Sage Cure from this post will be the best for you.
I have been wondering for a long time if I am suffering the effects of some type of generational curse. When I was 13, my father committed suicide. My mother never remarried. I helped take care of my maternal grandmother until she passed from COPD. My grandfather was the next to pass from a heart attack. Then, my husband had a stroke. My mother then suffered from many afflictions, including COPD, a heart attack, and then passed from ovarian cancer. My youngest son recently had a roll over car accident and broke his leg and fractured his spine but fully recovered. Just a few months ago, my husband had a second stroke and lost his vision. He was completely blind at first but some of his vision has returned. He is having heart surgery this week to repair a birth defect which may be causing the strokes. As for my own health, I have suffered many debilitating conditions but I am too tough to go down without a fight. My life has been filled with more tragedy in my 46 years than most people endure in a lifetime. My youth was spent in the church choir singing God’s praises. So I am wondering, “what the heck? what did I do?” My grandmother was a professional astrologist, clairvoyant, and psychic. I wonder if she brought something onto us? I suspect she may have done witchcraft, perhaps some dark magic too. She was prone to anger and bitterness, especially if she felt slighted. I have deep beliefs in the occult, particularly after what I have seen with my own eyes. What are your thoughts?
Wanda, I’m really sorry to hear about all these hardships. I’m getting that there is indeed some sort of generational pattern as you are sensing, and that the Rose Overdose cure in this post will help quite a bit. It’s especially important that you perform it with the intention to restructure your energy and to claim a new momentum for yourself.
Hi Tess,
I recently went to see my grandmother, whom asked me to 1.) pick up a glove and then touch something blue with it 2.) hold a match until it burned out.
I think she meant well by it, but I’m never quite sure as my grandmother doubtless has a spiteful vengeful side and often thinks that she knows best in all things, when in fact her arrogance and spite can occasionally override.
I regret doing as asked, and wish to undo whatever was done. Since that stay my metabolism has been undone and been suffering from a general ill feeling. I was quite happy before.
Hi there Tom! I’m not sure what that was about, but I suggest resetting your energy with the Rose Overdose Cure from this post.
Hi Tess,
I hope this won’t be long winded. I know that my father was cursed/hexed a long time ago by an employee of the family’s business. This was in Germany. My sister Diane (who has since passed away last year) investigated this through spiritual channels. The curse was no boys as children to carry on the line and no marriages for the girls. I am 1 of 3 children to my dad. All girls. I am also a twin. I have a daughter (out of wedlock) and so does my twin sister. (out of wedlock) Both our daughters were born on the same day 10 years apart. No men in our lives. My daughter has relationships but nothing gets really serious and so does my niece.(my sister’s daughter)
My younger spiritual sister Diane tryed to break the curse years ago but it’s not broken, not completely. We all still feel it. My sister Diane believed it’s because we all have to be together. (and it’s pretty darn strong) Any suggestion on how we all might have “men” in our lives and break this chain?
Thanks so sincerely much.
Namaste
Hi P – I know this may seem off-topic, but the message I’m getting for you is regular clearing and shielding of your aura. Here’s a video about why and how to do this: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-and-why-to-clear-and-shield-your-energy/ and here’s a meditation you can do regularly for the purpose: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/ . I would try clearing and shielding daily for a while and see if you feel and notice a shift.
thank you! Hugs
Hi Tess, my life has been extremely difficult for the past few years and it feels like there’s been a blockage of happiness no matter what I do. My job, my relationship, my family, my friends.. all of it seems to be hitting dead ends. I don’t know what to do anymore. Can you help me please?
Mia, it sounds like you might have clutter you could clear. Do you?
Thanks for getting back. I wish it were simpler to pinpoint! They all seem fairly unrelated yet seem to fall out no matter what I try. I didn’t think it was worth mentioning at first, but my dad was cursed by his ex-wife after marrying my mom and they found his photo ripped in pieces with a handmade doll with pins at our garden bin. They reassured me that they had it cleansed a long time ago as soon as they saw, but I was wondering if that could have carried on to me maybe? I don’t know if this information would help, but i’m the only child from my mom.
Tess,
From the time I was a child the strangest things have happened to me usually just random but unlucky, I know that there had to have been a family curse, but I try to not feed into it to combat any extra misfortune. I am a very positive person. I consistently sage myself I keep positive energy crystals, and I meditate every night. I am educated and have a great job. I work hard and never let things get me down, but with all of the positivity I feel like I have to work harder than everyone else and after all of the positivity, unlucky things still happen often. (usually at the best time) so I know that all of my hard work is helping.
Is there a way to break the cycle of the misfortune, so that all of the positivity is not just balancing out bad luck, but turning all of this to good luck? Or have I done everything I can?
Thank you
Hi Dustin! I’m getting that the selenite will be helpful. Maybe add that to your sage smudging rituals. For some reason, that’s all I’m getting for you right now, so maybe start there with the Selenite and White Sage Cure.
A few years ago I date a guy that turned out to be a very bad guy. While we were dating, he had an ex girlfriend that he told me was in to black magic. He said she probably had put a curse on him and me. We are no longer together but my luck in life especially love has definitely felt like its cursed. Any suggestions.
Kimberly, hi! I suggest the Rose Overdose cure from this post.
Tess hi am cindy I would like to know if you could help me cause, a reader told me that the resaons me snd my husband are having problems is because a woman put two voodo dolls and we are back to back and that th he dolls are buried in the ground and asking for 800 dollars to do 3 ceromony snd also to find out who the womais he said she wants to stay with my husband
Hi Cindy! I would try one of these spells first. Perhaps the Rose Overdose.
Hi this is Cindy again I would like to know what could I do cause beforw he was very attentive with me now hes not for valentines day he gave me stuff but he said that if I didnt remind him he would off forget and that he was over valentines and he also told me that last I told him I didnt love him that when I said that it put like a wall between us and that stood on his mind so he also said two week ago that he didnt have same feelings like he use to and that I dont show him affection and that he wanted that theres alot going on on this marriage beause I sleep seperate from him for years and thats being bothering him also but he started to act different with me after our 18 year old anniversarry when a lady in a beauty parlor cut his hair and he was looking for a better job he said he was tired of doing favors for his boss just to bring alittle bit of money he wanted a change in his life so this lady in the beauty salon gave him space there to make his own bussness like putting minutes on a phone ficing phones and promoting her beauty salon products on line and also putting music hes being there 2 weeks now but no customer come only one that bought him a movie today 4 dollars also hes learning how to cut hair im a little worried because what are the intentions of this woman thats helping him to d o all this but two of kids were there cause she did there hair the little girl told me he called that lady shes mexican mi amor like my love and my other son said hes not to sure that one if them gave akiss he dont know if it was the cheek or lips and he said I see you later im concerned what should ido and tgen hes telliing me that he dont want me to mess this opportunity for him with my insecurerities that he dont want me going there srarting problems and every time I go downstairs he stays in tge house with the kids and calls so much asking where am at hes dressing different his hair I just to braid he had a long tail she cut it short tail and fir his birhday a wek ago she braided his hair and the reader I called he said that this is cause of something they to both of us that they wanted us separated not together please help could talk to you on a phone or maybe I need a cleansing
Cindy, have you tried therapy? A therapist can help you sort out what’s healthy for you and what isn’t. I am not currently doing sessions with new clients, but I suggest that you look at the app TalkSpace, which allows you to speak with a therapist on the phone for a very reasonable price.
Almost a year ago, my dad died as a result of kidney failure. My sister, my mother and I were taking care of him in the hospital for several days in which he was in great pain, discouraging, wanting to flee. At the time of his death, my sister was with him, she began to feel the moment that indicated his last moments, she had taken him by the hand, my mother and I reached to arrive just at the moment of his last breath. My question is this, is it possible that my sister could absorb the bad of my father’s illness as well as the agony of him? I ask because just a month after this she had two external tumors in the vagina, which were benign and were operated on. and now, 8 months after that, they found another giant tumor in the uterus which has been found with some malignancy. We are desperate because she is very healthy, vegan since childhood, she has always played sports of all kinds. I feel that maybe my dad somehow passed on that energy of his illness because it has been very similar in some aspects … What can she do to get rid of this energy from my dad? What is your opinion? I appreciate your help.
Hi Germaine! I’m so sorry to hear about this. I would like to suggest that your sister contact Valerie Elster at valerieelster.com to schedule an Akashic Healing to support her other healing efforts. Valerie does this type of healing over the phone.
Hi, so I have a stalker who everyone I mean EVERYONE feels that she gives off very dark and I mean DARK vibes. She has hated me before she met me and we have spoke very few words but yet she has had an obsession with me for months. I want to clarify that I do not talk to her, talk to people she is close with, do not make eye contact, or talk about about her. I act as if she doesn’t exist but I also want to clarify that I am not rude to her. However, for months she has talked about me nonstop, stares at me, is everywhere I am, will add and try to befriend everyone I talk to in order to find out things about me, went out of her way to steal my bf from me (which I just let happen bc she scares me). She will literally go up to people who have just talked to me and ask them everything I just said. She is terrifying and everyone agrees. She also has a very weird backstory that does not add up together. The only thing I know for sure is that she is from a very small town in Alabama and is close with her sisters. The reason why I think she has cursed me is because at first it started during break and I would be walking in my house and feel like I saw her thru the corner of my eye and started having dreams that she was in the background. Then things calmed back down and I didn’t think much of it but now I am having extreme headaches, I can’t stop sleeping, and have not been myself. I normally wouldn’t blame this on someone but I have been having realistic dreams that seem like they are happening in real life but I can’t move that seem so real of her in my room watching me, petting my hair, and standing behind me in a mirror. I also have had weird things happening in my dorm such as loud noices, things moving around, and lights coming on by themselves (these things have not been slight as well. They have been very aggressive and obvious) . It is also affecting my cat and I have had friends spend the night and be terrified because they have seen things in my dorm and heard the noices. It’s to the point were I can’t sleep and feel as if I’m certain she is doing this because she is a very dark person. I’m in touch with spiritually things and normal see colors with people and she is jet black and always has been. I know someone who had a experience with her just like this at the beginning of the school year as well. I have been doing lots of research and have seen where they say curses come in 3 waves. The first being over break, the second is now but it is very scary and aggressive so I am scared for the next wave. What do I do?
Olivia, I suggest seeing if you can get a consultation with Mambo Chita Tan. Here’s the page of her website that describes her consultations: http://legbastore.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=178&products_id=1665
Hello my name is ashley, my grandmother was cursed by a witch because she was in love with my grandpa but he didnt love her at all and things got heated. So she cursed my grandma with a badluck spell that has to do with never having enough money etc. My mother thinks the curse is going away slowly because the curse affected my mom too but not as bad as with my grandmother. What uplifting/protection spell should I do?
Hi Ashley! I recommend the Selenite & White Sage cure.
Hello my name is chris a nd beleive i was hexed by my mother she was into witchcraft for years where ever we lived ghost seemed to follow her and she was heavilly into ouji boards and reading tarot cards anyways as my parents separated i left with my father because i was kind of scared being with my mother because of the energy that followed her so i beleive that out of spite or resentment she cursed both me and my father he eventually passed away and as for my self ive had nothing but bad luck poor health so my question is how can i remove a hex or curse from a person thats no lonver a part of my life thank you.
Hi Chris! I suggest the Lemon Cure from this post.
On the night of Jan 31st to feb 1, 2018. The blood moon, I had an awful sleep paralysis dream. Where my roommate appeared as this evil energy, and started chanting incantations before I finally woke up from the paralysis screaming. Since then things have been going poorly, and I know it’s only been less than a month since, but I feel as though there is a negative energy that persists around me, as if this isn’t the first time this energy has been around me. It’s just the first time I have witnessed it- though in a dream. I’ve looked at my natal charts and done a lot of astrological research to see if the string of odd events happening recently might be related but something is still so off putting and I can’t seem to take this dream out of my head. Not sure what to do.
Hi there Sk! I suggest the Angel Cure from this post. You can keep the crystal near you when you sleep to protect you in your dreams as well.
Hello Tess,
I’d just like to say firstly how much I appreciate such a wonderful article, with such wonderful words of wisdom and helpful information.
A very powerful friend of mine told me that back in 1999 is then I should have began to have my spiritual awakening at just age 12 as one of the first wave energy workers. I was shown by god with past thoughts that this was in fact true. This was when I started high school and from what I remember at that exact time I became very depressed. My mother put it down to `Stroppy teenage phase` I became very depressed and anxious because my head was blocking the awakening process.
I have something called dyspraxia as well as very sever cognitive damage from a very traumatic birth.
I basically have left side brain damage. A pretty big mind-set combo indeed haha. It has caused a lot of pain to me in my life, however this isn’t a sob story or anything I just need to explain everything so that I can get the best advice for which method to use.
So after that depressing time I hit a point of awakening 17 years later during the 2016 wave, I was pushed into waking.
However my mind still caused a lot of issues and I had trouble hitting flow. I had many light workers watching me over Facebook and many who are spiritual. I was doing a lot of guitar and singing videos at the time. On Christmas eve I had my kundali awakening on a Facebook guitar singing video in front of a big Facebook audience.
About may time 2016 I had a spiritual reading and I was told that theirs something I must absolutely not do as it will maybe result in me ending my own life! I was warned by this reader that a lady with blonde hair blue eyes is seen pointing at a picture of me and cursing me in the near future.
I ignored what she said but it remained in the back of my mind due to being a bit of a worrier/over thinker. I didn’t have focus on this women attacking me or anything but it just remained slightly in the back.
Any way during the time of my Facebook popularity and doing those guitar videos and singing a women called Stefanie blonde hair blue eyes was interacting with almost every post I had put out on Facebook.
I was trying to get to know her at the time as I thought she was a very sophisticated genuine women, but I wasn’t fully awake so I was blind to see the truth.
Any way around 2 months later after my kunduli experience I suddenly felt my energy field off balance and I lost a state of flow.
I went straight into my mind and went full force ego to the point of being taken over by entities is what it felt like,
I had no focus on them and I said to my self just forget it ignore them. It made me completely leave facebook and during the time of leaving facebook I remember about that reading I had. I felt sick to my stomach, reactivating facebook to block her, to then finding out she has several accounts some named things like great powers etc.
I felt sick to my stomach I can tell you this now. Any way this thing seemed to take over my whole life, going back off facebook and then going through a time of losing 2 jobs, and even my twin flame relationship. Completely gone all down the pan.
I had a huge following over facebook, and I had the door slammed on my face to the point where I hit 0 self esteem within my self, lost confidence, lost my hair almost, lost the love of my life and 2 jobs.
When I was at work it always seemed like id try really hard to stay positive and be happy and id be doing really well but then it would be like one problem after another would come my way, the manager would only seem to notice me when I was on my phone or something or going to the toilet, which stood out as slacking to them as they never saw my hard graft.
I had people coming to bully me just like I had before my awakening, it was like I was going back down hill again to square one.
This happened with two jobs in a row.
With the twin flame she and I had an amazing 3 weeks together until other women started getting involved saying how they liked me and wanted me, INFRONT OF HER FACE! NOT NORMAL!!!
I have never seen dark forces work so hard like this in my life. This drove her out of my life by her thinking I was going to cheat or something when I genuinely was about to declare my love for her, this happened the same evening.
A year has gone by, and I have lost my confidence in getting back on Facebook to help others, I have lost my confidence in jobs and relationships.
I know everything happens for a reason, and part of me believes that this wasn’t meant to happen but part of me believes that it was meant to make me learn and experience `Failure` I am still currently in my mind now, but I have shifted a lot so that I can now think straight again to some degree.
I am very up and down emotionally and the past seems to be a constant thing which comes into my mind.
Ill have anger out of no where, ill take offense to things ill get angry and bitter but ill keep the anger under control and inside, ill vent it off in my own ways.
I was always such a loving boy and my family has said how I’m now gone I’m not me any more.
I do class this as murder as you can tell just thinking and talking about it after a while brings up hate for this women, I had tried to give her love by cutting chords etc.
But in a way she has destroyed what took me along time to build.
However all I want now is my life back and to get flow again so I can rebuild.
What happened must of happened for a reason as I said and this women is obviously quite sick and hates her self to of done this.
Part of me is still deciding weather or not to leave the earth through suicide or not, I am now seeking out a therapist because of it, being in mind through retrograde 2017 and no flow, it kind of destroyed me in many ways.
But here I am wanting to fight back and return, but as I said part of me is drained to the eye balls. Like having a long nights sleep and waking up with little energy and bags under the eyes, whist having a 50bpm and good blood pressure and health in every other way, and a feeling of deep self devine love within but yet an ego mind over the top of it all without flow with stress and anxiety inside, which also blocks astral projection as well as seeing things behind my eyes.
Being persuaded by some sort of black magic or hex entity which is constantly telling me to do 3d things when I am very spiritually evolved yet I am here as human still.
As I say this had to happen I am sure of it, if not if it was a mistake in life’s tapestry for me then what is, is.
I have no choice but to rebuild my life some how now, I was always so positive, the dyspraxia part of my mind was the negative but it was never this bad.
For along time I was shouting to god saying just take me away, I’ve been to the darkest corner as well as wanting to get revenge on this women but I know that isn’t the answer, however I still think its murder if it destroys a part of you then it is. I also had addiction to spending and I burrowed 12 thousand pounds from family which is being paid back, but that’s what happened with being hit by this curse.
As I say I just want a state of flow back so I can get into that motion then once I do I can properly forgive and move on as I don’t want to die.
Sorry for the long essay haha and sorry if I sounded angry and this isn’t a sob story or anything I just wanted you to see if you can help me with this?
Many thanks.
Aaron, please don’t end your life! And please get therapy, most definitely. Also, I suggest that you contact my friend Valerie Elster ASAP. She can work with you over the phone to see the pattern and clear your Akashic field as needed. Find her contact info at valerieelster.com.
Hi Tess
Ive been suffering with depression from a very early age which I managed to hide from everyone all my life. As a child I remember always feeling different to others around me, more like an old woman stuck in a child’s body. I had a carefree childhood until the age of seven, when my parents migrated to the states with the rest of my siblings. Everything changed for me from that day. I had repeated nightmares of been pushed of a cliff and heavy rocks crushing me to the ground. The next one was seeing me as a woman in my thirties with long hair and white long dress been placed on a bed and burned alive. I never told my parents of these dreams but remember waking up in sweat most of the time. As a teenager I was very depressed and kept away from the rest of my family, which later in life told me that I looked like I was always spaced out. My older brother was always picking on me telling me that I lived in fairy land waiting for Prince Charming to rescue me from the rest of the family. My older sister was always jealous of me but when I started becoming a woman it got worse. She was very competitive as I was taller and she felt that cuz of my looks all will go smoothly for me in life. She married but separated before I turned 20, and even though I tried to be close to her she was always nasty with me. At the same time one of my brothers met a girl that was in a cult, practicing black magic, got him into drugs and all went downhill for my family. My father brought a physic around the house who told us that we have been cursed by many people, and handed out a few thousand dollars to her but nothing came out of it. After a few years of misery my brother lost his mind and has never been the same again. He was diagnosed with scitsofrenia and has been on medication ever since. As for me I was raped by the first man that came close to me, and had many other man after that tried to harm me either sexually or by witch craft. A series of bad things were happening to me one after the other, I was so depressed I remember that I was going around wearing black, and many called me a witch. At the age of 25 I married a man that was possessive, and belittled me constantly, I to had two kids with him and spend 16 years in depression. When I finally found the strength to leave him, he turned my kids against me, and with no help from my family I he finally took them off me. He cursed me and said that nothing will ever go right in my life and I will regret making this decision. Before leaving my homeland a woman that pretended to be my friend took me to a friend of hers and told me that she can do a card reading for me as she knew the tarot. She told me that I will suffer, and all she could see is my luck changing after 50. My mom also confided in me at that time telling me that when she was young some gypsy fortune teller told her that her life will be nothing but pain, and someone had put a spell on us, for her girls never to find happiness in marriage and her boys never to have any success in work or in life.
But even though I suffered so much I always try to stay positive, help friends and family in every opportunity I get, I don’t hold any grudges to the people that hurt me in the past and believe in the goodness in life. People that get to know me a bit always say that I have something about me, an internal strength and a lot of kindness. Men on the other hand that I met tell me that I’m a white witch and they feel that I put a spell on them. And it seams that the more I give the more I make them feel less worthy and leave me feeling that I hurt them. I just don’t get it.!
I meditate, I read a lot about positive energy, I like natural healing, I use a lot of essential oils, I’m not religious but believe in the power of the universal law, never wished bad upon anyone but still attract negative people that I try to help but leave me feeling drained. And now I’m starting to believe that I might be cursed, maybe even from another life. I met a man that came into my life out of the blue two months ago, I tried to help him, but started feeling sick every time I saw him. Within a couple of weeks I had strong pains in my abdomen, I took up smoking, I couldn’t eat, I fell into depression and lost my job. When I tried to cut him off, he went crazy, cursing me, he said he will make sure that I will not be alone and he will put a spell on me and I will rot away and die in a year. I told my family about this, they told me that they have put a priest to pray for me but I don’t see any difference.
I need your help with this Tess as my whole life is falling apart again, and I don’t know what else to do.
Jamie, I’m really sorry to hear about all of this. My friend Valerie Elster does amazing readings and clearings over the phone. I have the sense that this would be very positive for you. You can find her contact info at valerieelster.com.
Hi Tess
Thank you for your reply. I’m a little skeptic when it comes to readings as my family had them in the past. To be honest I thought that one of your cures might help me. I did the whole procedure with drawing the cures and placing them in the hat. It came out as the selenite and white sage, and the rose cure where right for me, but wanted your advice on this. Do you sense that they will not help me?
Thank you
Hi Jamie! From your message I thought you were requesting something extra. I must have misunderstood. Sure, those cures both sound great, I’d go with whichever one your intuition guides you to more. You could also do both if you like.
Hi Tess
Yes I was, and you guided me to the right direction, I didn’t realize it at first but you did and I want to thank you for that.
I was looking for the higher truth and through your response I came across a book written by Akemi G. It’s called “Why we are born: Remembering our purpose through the akhasic records”
Thank you so much Tess
God bless
Hi Tess! I have had a sneaky suspicion for some time now that I actually cursed myself. I made a very intricate wish on myself and my life when I was 19 and I have had a string of bad luck since then. I also had a premonition when I was 18 and all those things have happened. Well at the end of that premonition a fortune teller appeared and She has haunted me ever since. I saw her face appear yesterday after praying for help. This could all be coincidence but I’m afraid the wish I made has me falling down a rabbit hole. I am scared to I wish anything to make anything worse tbh. Can you please help me? Sincerely
Val, I suggest 2 cures from this post: the Selenite and White Sage cure AND the Saltwater cure.
Tess my daughter has been approached by 3 people who randomly read her and are pretty much spot on with things that they say. Recently she has been in such a bad place as a very short relationship was ended between her and a man she met at work. She hasnt been sleeping and crying and pretty much a mess. Today she was approached by a woman who immediately started reading her. She said my daughter is surrounded in negativity. She states that the women in our family are cursed to suffer heartache/divorce. SHE WAS RIGHT!!(as my husband of 22 years had left me 2 years ago) She said my daughter will fall in love 2 times and she will choose the wrong person. She says there is someone close to her but not ready to come to her as she is in a bad place. She said so many things that made sense so it makes me wonder if this is true and worry about what i could do to stop it. any thoughts// thank you!!
Hi Cheryl! I suggest that you and your daughter both do the Rose Overdose cure.
Is there an alternative to the white rose petals as they are hard to get this time of the year?
Hi Tess, I have a question, Many,many years ago I had a dream of someone one cutting my hair, and someone bringing me food.. well the food that was brought to me was uncooked.. I did cook and eat it I was going through difficult times.. for a few years now my beautiful hair has bald spot issues, and thinning.. this person has since passed away.. any help for my hair or what’s your thoughts..
Amy, I suggest doing the Rose Overdose cure from this post. I also suggest cutting sugar from your diet (whole fruit is OK, but not fruit juice or any added caloric sweeteners such as honey, agave, maple syrup, or cane sugar) and taking a high quality probiotic every day. I’m getting the sense that balancing your gut bacteria (that’s what cutting sugar and taking a probiotic will do) will also help with hair growth as well as total mental and physical health.
Hi, I don’t know if you’re still replying to this thread, but I’d like some advice if you can offer it.
I’ll admit, I used to be a thief, mostly because my friend encouraged me to be. I no longer am, but I can’t help but think a store employee may have cursed me years ago because of it. It’s honestly the only really bad thing I’ve done that would warrant retaliation like that. Not to mention I’ve always had depression which picks up bad energies, especially after my first boyfriend left me, which was also around the same time I started stealing.
Anyway, it’s been years, but in those years, horrible things have happened to me. I started bleeding from the colon beginning November 2015, when my family and I moved into a new house. It gradually got worse and I suddenly had this disease I didn’t know about, and it still hurts me. Any friends I had abandoned me by mid 2016. I fell in love with a boy in the summer of 2016, but he left with no reason by the end, and I’ve been alone ever since. I tried starting my own business at the farmer’s market, but quit only a few months later due to extreme depression. Having so many bad things and feeling so negative in such a short amount of time is not natural.
I have had a limpia done, and the man who did it said he saw very dark energies, which either meant I was cursed or filled with very bad emotions. Both seem to be true, honestly. I am working on trying to get back with my lost love, but I don’t want anything bad to come along and destroy my chances or make my condition worse.
Anything would help, please.
Luke, this sounds very difficult! When I tune in, I’m getting that it’s all related to the disease you mentioned in some way. It feels like finding a holistic doctor who can treat it effectively will help with the depression and everything else, and start things moving in the right direction for you.
I have a sister that uses voodoo to divide family over what I can only imagine would be for inheritance. I used water black salt, a photo, a mirror and some of her handwriting in an attempt to ward off the ill effects that we know that she is causing in our lives. After just twelve hours of having put all the elements together, I noticed this morning that her photo had climbed up the side of the bowl and was beginning to dry. The other items had moved to the back of the photo and are also beginning to rise out of the bowl of salt water. What could this mean?
Mary, I’m not quite sure. What is your sense?
Hi, thank you so much for getting back to me.
When I woke this morning I felt much lighter and somewhat disconnected from the vitriol. But when I saw the photo rising above the rim of the bowl I was alarmed but yet hopeful. I have little experience with magic and others. I only practice self healing magic.
My sister is and always has been a very negative and vindictive person, and I have always been subjected to her negativity, most of my family has over the years. She uses effigies and dolls to cause problems for folks, even her neighbors, so I need to be careful as to how I try to protect myself. Any assistance you can provide would appreciated.
Mary
Hi Tess I’m needing a hand or some guiding information, I have two men in my hometown they are into negative energy and they are hence and hexing my food everything I do they are hencing I feel they are destroying my life . Can you tell me the best way to stop all these Hences or hex it’s happening at least five times a week can you tell me is there away to stop this happening please could you help .
Hi Harry! I suggest that you do the Selenite and White Sage Cure daily.
Dear Tess,
for years i have believed I have been cursed. Every time I think my life is getting on the right track, bam new set backs. For examaple, Four weeks ago I got sick with the flu, on the way back my car breaks down, then the next day I get fired from my job. week later I get bronchitis. week after that I cut my hand that requied stitches. day after I got offered a job but can’t work because of the injury to my hand. week after that y t.v. stops working (and it’s fairly new). It’s one thing after another. I know people go through things in life that builds you up to be better and stronger but this has been my whole life. I have never had a “happy life”, just stress and more stress. any advice you could offer would be greatly appreciated. My family thinks i’m going crazy but I believe it to be true.
Amanda, I suggest clearing clutter thoroughly and also clearing your space. My books Magical Housekeeping and The Good Energy Book would be great resources for you right now.
Hi Tess,
I really appreciate all the help you do with everyone. I have a health issue and my mom has always felt that it’s stemming from someone with ill intent. It’s only in recent years when I’ve been suffering from this health problem as I’ve always been healthy. These issues came out of the blue after my ex and I broke up. I don’t think it’s him who could’ve done this but I do feel it was someone from my past. Please help me
Hi Mercy! My sense is that you will benefit from performing the Salt Water Cure in this post.
Hi! I hope you can help me: My husband came home one day with a headache. I took him to Dr he has had MRI, CT scans all test and they cannot seem to find anything wrong with him. He has memory loss confusion, nervousness, sleepwalks does things he does not remember he does. they say he may have Alzheimer’s but I feel that He does not have that disease but has been cursed by an obvious person and a tenant where he worked …we have been happily married for now 45 yrs. It hurts to see in this way can you please help me? Thank you
Alice, it is not my sense that he’s cursed, but that he might be having a dissociative fugue, and that he would benefit from treatment by a psychologist (I’d start there rather than with psychiatry). Here’s a description of this condition on Psychology Today’s website: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/conditions/dissociative-fugue-psychogenic-fugue
Hi Tess, I have always been very aware of my third eye, and been able to make things in my life happen, with spells and intuition. I have a very accurate feeling that this is not my first life but have been around for a few. I have been very blessed to dig up crystals in my garden, whenever I do gardening and feel that I am magically touched. But something is bothering me very much. It feels like me and my husband have had very bad luck and terrible financial difficulty. Things start to go very good for us, and then all of a sudden it will just take a terrible turn, like a partner in the business will cause trouble and we would loose our business and house and cars. And then we will build up again, and then we will loose our house again and soon after our cars. We will then start building up again, and then the car will break and everything will go bad again. We are at breaking point and I am not sure how to go about breaking this hex or curse or whatever is causing us so much strain. I hope you can help me?
Adelene, that sounds frustrating! It’s my sense that this has to do with the feng shui of your house. Do you have any clutter you can clear? That’s always the best place to start.
Hi Tess
I think my husband is cursed. We visited a psychic reader and was told that he had been cursed by someone. The curse was suppose to fall on his father or uncle but unfortunately it effected him. We were told that because of this curse there is lot of negativity between him and me. We live separately because of work for 3 years and don’t have baby. Is there any suggestion ?
Hi Khushboo! I suggest that your husband perform the Saltwater Cure from this post.
My first girlfriend in middle school was a Wiccan. The relationship lasted for only a couple of months and we broke up amicably, but my friends made fun of her for being a witch and I think I said some cruel things to her in the time after the break up. In our conversations she mentioned that she didn’t curse people, but since that time my romantic life has been a complete mess and my mind always wanders back to her. I always wonder if this situation might somehow be a cause. At one point in our relationship she gave me a ring that I have since lost and looking back I suspect she had put some kind of enchantment on it: probably a helpful one.
Middle school was a long time ago and I have lost track of this girl; otherwise I would seek her out and talk to her about all this. That would probably resolve everything, but it’s a far-fetched option. Normally I’m a pretty skeptical person concerning things like this, but my instinct tells me that the best way to resolve this is somehow mystical. What do you suggest I do to get relief?
Hi Henry! Before you contact her, I suggest doing the Rose Overdose Cure from this post. I have the sense that it will bring you peace and you may not feel the need to contact her after that.
Hi Tess, I have been reading through your replies to many comments and ive noticed you suggest sen elias quite often. what can you tell me about him? i just looked him up and booked him for a reading, but wanted to know personally how great he is for further reassurance! i am hopeful since i dont think you would recommend a person you dont think highly of.
Jenn, I usually counsel people to do magical work on their own behalf, but in certain cases I recommend practitioners that specialize. What are you looking for support with?
reconciliation work. to undo all the negative things/thoughts that came from negative events to have a clean slate and more love/positive feelings
Jenn, I suggest doing that on your own. That won’t require hiring anyone. I’d start with clutter clearing and space clearing. Then look at the cleansing & clearing category in my blog (or elsewhere for similar rituals and practices). Here’s a post about how to clear the space in your home: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/
Hi Tess,
I’ve been working within a home that has very questionable energies throughout it. I’ve smudged it and placed selenite all around it. I’ve been doing my best to clear the energy myself. It doesn’t seem to be working.
I’ve been going to see a woman for energy healing she’s provided me with a satchel of protective stones and she had been clearing my energy field But every time I go back, 3 times this week there has been something else attached to me. Today she asked if I could think of someone would want to curse me. I just want to be done with this. Do you know how I can protect myself from all of this?
I need some assistance.
Thank you 🙏
Hi Lynn! I get the sense that you’re doing better energetically than you think. It could be that your beliefs about your energy and the home’s energy are possibly the biggest challenge of all. Of course, in all cases, clutter clearing and daily personal clearing/shielding are recommended. Here’s a meditation you might like to do daily: https://tesswhitehurst.com/10-minute-chakra-clearing-meditation/
Thank you very much! I will do this. And I will also try not to overthink the situation.
I appreciate your reaching out to me.
Lynn
Hi Tess, I live in the Caribbean. Left my job to go work in my grandfather’s shop and it feels like someone is somehow keeping the business from being prosperous. I also feel like a block has been placed on me so as to not be successful in anything I do plz help.
Hi there! I suggest that you do the Lemon Cure from this post.
Hi, looking for some guidance. I met the man of my dreams 3 years ago and it seems ever since our luck has went down hill. Firstly my son was diagnosed diabetic, then we both lost our jobs, my son lost his dad , more lost jobs, more struggles with money more illnesses family pets died and so on, We as a family are so happy and positive and thankful for what we have , i just find it hard somedays with the daily kicks in the teeth and wandering when it will end. I have smudged my house a few times latley but really feel we are cursed, can you recommed anything ? xbx
Rebecca, I’m getting the sense that there’s a dream you have that you haven’t acted on yet. When you take even a few steps in that direction, your energy will shift.
Hi Tess,
on the 08/06/18 the love of my life left me.He told me that he still loves me and miss me but he felt he had to leave me,after we had a disagreement in which he thought I offended his family.We were together for 6 years. He always used to tell me that I was in his life and that he will never let me go.We never used to argue or shout at each other.He was always kind and loving.And I was kind and loving towards him.His sister was not happy about our relationship,she would make remarks all the time about us,but he never realized how much she disliked me. I believe a curse or something similar has being put on me and my relationship with him.Last time I spoke to him on the phone he was so cold towards me,I told him that he didn’t even sound like him.He was like someone else.
I am having also difficulty at holding a job down or finding a permanent job,which I never had difficulty with before.
I need help.I feel like so sad and heartbroken.
A brokehearted woman
Hi Maria – I’m so sorry to hear this. I suggest spell #5 from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/
Hi Tess,
Thank you so much for making this post. Recently my husband was diagnosed with stage iv cancer. Feeling lost I went to see a psychic who revealed to me someone in his past who was extremely jealous of him has wished him suffering and to not succeed in life. What can we do to counter this and prevent this from happening again?
Thank you again so much
Hi Mary – to counter it, I suggest the Rose Overdose Cure from the above post. To prevent it from happening again, I suggest a daily clearing and shielding meditation like this one: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/
Hi
I have issues with my mom since my childhood. She used to act like a teenager , like going out with friend. At that time I was in school. She used to make me do the entire household work. I couldn’t get enough time to study. She didn’t provide proper food. Even my father couldn’t help me because he doesn’t have a good job. I was treated like a slave. She used to beat me everyday. When I finished my college education and got a job, she started behaving like she made all the sacrifices and demanded money and things . When had fight s frequently. When I told her that I was the one who sacrificed. She refused to accept. I became angry and said something bad. I said if u didn’t eat what I cooked then u ate my sh*t. I think I had a curse. She provoked me to fight with her Everytime. I’m tired with this. I’m not sorry about what I said. But it is troubling me. I see sh*t in dreams. I have digestive system issues now. Please help
Hi Isha! I suggest meditating for at least 10 minutes daily. I have a lot of free meditations on my website, or you can check out an app like Headspace or Insight Timer.
Hi Tess,
I was wondering if I could get your advice.. My boyfriend has been dealing with a strange voice for a while now, a few years. He recently just went to a psychic and she explained to him that 2 women had put a curse on him and he had told me that his ex gf had left to Louisiana about the time he started hearing them. These voices put obstacles in our relationship but we’re still going strong. What may this be?? I know it could be a mental health issue, but he’s really functional and happy besides this “curse”. I plan on doing a salt cleanse for him.. and maybe some smudging as well.. I’m just hoping all goes well..
Hi Crystal! How interesting. If your boyfriend is open to it, contacting Sen Elias at Crescent City Conjure may be a good idea. He works remotely when needed. Here’s his website: https://crescentcityconjure.us
Hi Tess. It’s friday the 13 and I have some spiritual items as I am trying to open and cleanse my aura. I started to meditate and said my affirmation and lit my awakening har candle and tried to read my aura. At first I just saw nothing then it seemed as if my arm was lined in black but white light or smoke was billowing away… and then I saw bright sparkly purplish color. I tried again and then saw colors… yellow and kind of changing to a violet or blue. Am I truly ‘awakening’? I have been told I am a sensitive and need to align my chakras … that I have women all around me to protect me… what do you think???
Cheryl, I’m not sure how to interpret what you’re experiencing, but trust your intuition. Certainly aligning your chakras is always a good idea, and you definitely have guides supporting and protecting you. Here’s a chakra meditation of mine if you haven’t already discovered it: https://tesswhitehurst.com/10-minute-chakra-clearing-meditation/
Hi! I have recently been on a spiritual journey to awaken my psychic abilities. Just this year I have seen a handful of psychics & tarot readers, possibly too many in such a short amount of time, and was told that I had a generational curse on me, which makes sense when looking back on various events in my life. Specifically, I was told that there were multiple curses put onto my grandma, which was passed on to my mother, and now onto me. Because of this curse, I feel sharp pains near my abdomen & I experience severe headaches. The curse was specifically to take away any chances of love and financial success in the women of our family. I purchased hex breaking oil from my local spiritual store, but I’m not sure how to use it. Do I use it on myself, my grandma, my mom, or all of us? Thanks in advance!
Alicia, I’m getting that working hex breaking magic on just yourself will be plenty.
Hi Tess !
I have a “friend” who does voodoo santaria I feel like every time I find someone and I’m happy she starts doing some stuff with her saints and doll. Bad things start happening to them-as in the person I’m dating. Is there anything I can do to banish whatever she is putting on me ? Thanks in advance
Autumn, I’d call on Archangel Michael for protection for yourself and your love interest. You could also do spell #2 from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-curses-and-hexes/
Dear Tess,
I came across your page in my search to get some answers in regards to my fiance and, a psychic curses. My fiance of two years just up & left our relationship & the live we were Happily having for 16 months in Austin Tx. He returned back to El Paso on the 26th of last month. My fiance & I had such an amazing relationship. We never had issues , we truly were happy. There wasn’t. Day that he didn’t let me know how much I meant to him & his blessed he was with our lives. Other than him missing his daughter who was back in el Pasolife was wonderful. We were always thinking of a plan to get his daughter with him but, something always came up. His daughter came to visit for a but if the summer & then on the 23rd his parents came down to visit and take his daughter back. There was some tension between myself and, his family cause, of some behavioral issues his daughter was displaying while visiting. Her father & I have always been a team when it came to his child & my son too. Well, there was a friend of his that came to visit. I think all of them or maybe just his friend place son kind if cure on him cause, that Tuesday he came into the room & just said he was going to pack his things & go back to El Paso to be with his daughter. I asked him what about this place we had just signed a 15 month lease. He kept looking down , would not look at me & kept saying the same thing over& over. I caught a quick look at his face & h looked very strange. I kept asking him about different concerns. He would say nothing just kept looking at the floor. I started to cry then he looked up at me & he did something I never seen him do. I didn’t even know he was capable of doing. He let out this gasp and, he started to cry , I mean sob like a child. He kept looking at me saying he was so confused but, he lived me, I was his best friend, I was the only one who really ever cared deeply about him and I saved his life life. He just kept saying this things while crying. I held him & told him everything was going to be ok. We stood up till 6 am just talking. We went to sleep he was up a few hours later to go meet his family, he said he loved me & I asked to please promise me that what took place the night before , would happen again. He said no & everything was fine.well he returned that night around 2am saying the same thing , the whole time his friend was here too. But, this time I asked him to just leave and, come back in the morning & we would figure it out , I wasn’t feeling well so I couldn’t go through it again. Well he was just standing there looking at the floor again. I got up and, placed both my hands on his lower back and led him to the front door. His friend & him left and, he never came back. He drove back to El Paso leaving all his things behind , left me & my son stranded here, with no means of support. He hasn’t talked to me or anyone that knows us. His friend is the only one that answered one of just friends and, he said he worked my fiance really good and, guiltedhim into going back, he said his olan worked and, he was proud of it. Two days later his friend and my fiance posted a video talking about me saying I hit my fiance , threw him against the walls and kicked him out n keotnhus belongings. None of that took place my son was here and he himself said it was all kuws but, as his friend was saying this lies my fiance was sitting there laughing and agreeing with his friend. This was a nothing like the man I fell I love with would ever act. His friend talked him into changing his phone number & kill his social media too. So what do you think Tess does it sound like my fiance is suffering from some type of curse. I hope you can help me or you might know how can I be sure what’s going in with him. Thank you.
Hi there. This sounds heartbreaking, and very confusing. I’m not actually sensing a curse. I suggest doing this meditation every day for at least 30 days straight: https://tesswhitehurst.com/cord-cutting-meditation/. I also suggest clearing as much clutter from your home as you possibly can and clearing the space, as I describe in this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/. It’s my hope that within a month or so, this will create more clarity for you and you’ll know how to move forward in the best possible way.
Dear Tess,
I came across your page in my search to get some answers in regards to curses,
Only now me and my family realized that something Is wrong,
I am 40 my father passed away when I was 11, my brother I missing more than 11yrs don’t know if he is still alive, then my mother passed away in 2011, right after she passed away my sisters son passed away at age 18 found out he had cancer, a few months after him his brother 22 years passed away, suicide, last year my 2nd older brother passed away also cancer, 3 months ago my brother in-law passed away also cancer, a week ago my other brother in-law passed away, had a stroke and it affected his brain, not sure what to make out of this, please will you help
Thanks
Joce
Joce, I’m so sorry for all your losses. It does not seem to me that this is a curse. Rather than focusing on breaking curses, I would focus on finding a good grief counselor (if you haven’t already). Additionally, to help lighten and shift energy, I suggest clearing the space in your home and doing a cleansing/shielding meditation daily. These two blog posts may help: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/ and https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/.
Hi Tess!
Thank you so much for this column and for answering our questions. I’m not sure where my hex might come from, but it might be this:
About six years ago, my then music teacher and his wife went through a rough patch. He cheated on her and she thought it must have been with one of his students. It wasn’t me, but she confronted me and said she wished I would one day experience her pain. Since then, things haven’t worked out for me, relationships, jobs, even my music career. I’ve had cleansings done professionally but haven’t felt much of a change.
Which of these spells do you recommend?
Hi Marie! I suggest the Selenite & White Sage Cure.
Thank you!
Hi Tess,
I think me and my family including my sister and her family are cursed.
Our mum passed away January 2017 from cancer. My mum was an angel and a very special women that looked after all of us. I think (but don’t know) it’s my brother’s new wife who has put the curse on us. We had a sort of fall out or disagreement not long after mum passed with regard to our inherited property (greedy people in this world !) And everything started falling apart after that. My brothers wife is into spirituality and says she talks to people that have passed and I don’t know what she is telling my brother !! So many things go wrong – every single day. It is very draining. Even my 15 year old daughter says everyday that she is cursed – which worries me now that my kids think this. And now my husband (who never really believed this) thinks we are cursed. What can we do ? I just wish I could talk to my mum. Thank you for help.
Caroline, I suggest that you create an altar to your mom in your house. Just a framed picture of her, a candle, and anything else you’d like to add that reminds you of her, or that she enjoyed during life (such as foods, flowers, or beverages). Keep it fresh, tend to it often, and ask your mom for help. You can still connect with her and she can still look after you. I have a feeling this will create more clarity for you and help turn things around.
Hi Tess,
My life is falling apart in the strangest way. Every apartment that I move into, something happens within a few months were I have to move out. I’ve literally had to move out of a new unit every 6 months for the past 2 years. I’m moving constantly and its exhausting. Additionally, I keep losing jobs. Around the time that I lose my apartment, I also lose a job. I have been switching jobs every year now. It’s always because of one person in the office who doesn’t like me (and everyone else likes me) and they get me fired. The third thing is that my romantic relationships keep falling apart every few months. Every few months I meet a sweet and loving partner who is ready to marry me then out of no where, they are angry and explosive and everything ends. Each job and partner has come back saying that they don’t even know why they were so mad at me. My ex partners seem to be confused about why they got so angry with me and why the relationships ended. And my former employers all seemed to be confused about exactly why I was fired. These events started to make me think that I am dealing with a curse. There is no way in the world that people could all the sudden turn on me and not have any real memory about why it happened or how they overreacted. All of this constant turnover has taken a horrible toll on my self esteem and energy levels. I feel depleted, exhausted, and I feel like a complete zombie just going through the motions. I swear I am a nice person with a beautiful spirit who treats everyone with kindness. My closest friends seem to be equally as confused about why I keep having so many problems. My mother also seems to have had similar problems her whole life. Please help me find the answers to break this cycle. It’s so bad and I’m crying because it just won’t stop! I feel like I’m losing the will to live!
Hmm. Have you been feeling drawn to move somewhere new? If you’ve been wanting to move and ignoring that desire, you could be unconsciously manifesting these challenges because your soul wants to flourish in a different location.
Hi Tess,
About a month ago I drove my daughter to the credit union at night. We parked our car in the parking lot. As we were walking toward my car, I saw a man skulking around my car. As he saw us coming he started walking away from my car and passed us by. I was feeling angry and we made eye contact that I kept staring him down until he completely passed us by. Then he opened the lift gate of his car, sat down and poured himself a drink from a coffee type flask. I then drove away with my daughter. A few days later I took my car to the car wash and there were some spots that had a substance that would not come off even with solvent. Since then, I closed the car door on my finger and broke it so badly I had to have surgery to fix it. I am currently not working as a result. I feel like he hexed me. I don’t know the guy, I feel it was random. What do you suggest I do?
Hi Alicia – I suggest the Selenite & White Sage Cure.
Thank you!
Hi Tess,
Right before I found your site I entered the names of myself and my ex into another site for a reconciled love spell. I thereafter read your post about not using love spells on specific people and now I am very worried that the spell will backfire on us. Since I didn’t actually perform the spell or ritual should I be concerned? Or should I counter it with one of these? I don’t know what to do now. Any help is very appreciated.
Thank you,
Clara
Hi Clara! I’m assuming it’s too late to cancel whatever it was? If so (and even if it isn’t too late), this meditation will help you release challenging energy between you: https://tesswhitehurst.com/cord-cutting-meditation/ . Then, you could do spell #5 from this post:” https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/
Thank you Tess. Yes, it was too late to cancel it, it was a free website for spell casting and I couldn’t find any way for them to cancel. I actually did your cord cutting meditation yesterday before I even read your reply. It was lovely and I felt very good afterwards. I will work on spell #5 ASAP.
Thanks again and bless you!!!
Hello Tess ,
I have gone through a lot of hardship in my career and my love life , i had never been married , have kids or a girlfriend or in a living relationship . I really want someone in my life but because of career hurdles i ignored it now i am 37 yrs currently again facing again work issues and i suppose i will have to quit my job soon ! also whenever i had liked someone she had been negative towards me and it never worked ( i dont know its my aura or if i am doing something wrong ) but since last few years i have been seeing same pattern e.g. loosing job , quitting jobs , problem with a woman’s when i wish to date or know them for real (NOTE – I ONLY LIKED 2 WOMANS IN MY LIFE BUT THE FIRST ONE I FOUND OUT HAD ALREDY HAD A BOYFRIEND AND I WAS 3RD PARTY SO I WALKED AWAY BECAUSE SHE EXPECTED MORE FROM ME AND I WAS UNABLE TO SHARE LOVE AT SUCH POINT SHE REALLY WENT MAD ON ME LOT OF HEATED WORDS WERE EXCHANGED, AT THIS POINT AND I JUST KEPT WALKING AWAY , THE SECOND PERSON I GENUINELY LIKED SCREWED ME AT MY LAST WORKPLACE JUST FOR ASKING HER OUT ON MY LAST DAY OF WORK SHE KNEW ME QUITE WELL AND I WAS SURPRISED BY HER BEHAVIOUR AND ITS NOW ALMOST 1 YR I AM STILL THINKING WHY SHE DID THIS I TRIED TO COMMUNICATE BUT SHE MADE IT REALLY WORSE !) i am very kind and hardworking person and i don’t take advantage of others , when i love someone then i am too gentle , shy and reserved but i dont know how to put my point across to a woman (with females i go quite well but only when i like someone things go wrong ! )i am always misunderstood i guess ! but because this has become a pattern in my life i feel i am ”CURSED by some unknown WOMAN and not MAN”
i also want to find out first if i am cursed or not, before i any practice remedy that would be great !
please guide me through !
Kind Regards,
Rajan
Rajan, I don’t get the sense that you are cursed. I would recommend instead one of the spells from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/
HI.
I think my mother cursed me and keeps doing that. Everything I start I fail- job or education… I can’t keep a relationship – I am facing second divorce etc… Could you help me?
Eva, I’m not sensing a curse. Do you have any clutter in your home, or anywhere in your life? If so, I’d suggest clearing it ASAP. It sounds mundane, but I assure you, it has far-reaching effects, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Here’s a blog post for inspiration if you could use any: https://tesswhitehurst.com/get-rid-of-that-huge-pile-of-clutter-once-and-for-all-3-places-to-start/
Hi Tess,
My name is Amanda. I came across your blog when researching about how to break a curse. For the last 3 years my life has been such a downfall. I graduated nursing school end of 2015. I have been unsuccessful 6 times in writing my exam to obtain a license to practice. When I was in school, I did pretty well in exams– however, studying for this exam has been a struggle. I have spent a lot of money on programs to help me prep for my exam but still end up forgetting the material when in front of the computer writing my exam. I have been blaming it on test anxiety, but throughout high school and uni, I never felt so incompetent when writing an exam. Being a little nervous and getting the jitters when writing an exam is common but the fact that when writing this exam I just feel so worthless and helpless. I know my material but still can’t pass it. I have been sick on and off and just feeling low about myself. I always try and stay positive but I can’t help but feel so helpless. I feel like someone has casted an evil eye on me and I don’t know what to do. Growing up, my grandma used to perform hindu rituals and prayers when we felt like there was a curse, especially on me. Would really appreciate your advice. Thank you so much for your time!
Amanda, it sounds simple, but I’m getting the feeling that simply taking 4 drops of Rescue Remedy under your tongue before the test will help immensely. Its a homeopathic stress remedy you can find online and at most health food stores.
Hi Tess! I recently have been questioning things about who I am, my purpose for being and finding where I belong, etc. (to be honest, I’ve lived with these questions, the difference is my being more active in finding the answers) An awakening I suppose. With that, the universe sent new friend, with her own gifts, told me that I am a powerful healer, whatever that means, and that 3 yrs. ago someone came to me knowing who I was and a motive for why but that I had no idea. She told me what she looked like and that she was a witch that had put a blockage on me mentally to keep me from learning who I am. I usually wouldn’t give this a second thought and move on, but her accuracy with everything was spot on and I feel strongly that there is something to this. So, my question is is this a curse, a hex, a binding, or something else? and how do I now remove it?
Tammy, I suggest a daily spiritual hygiene meditation to clear and shield your energy. Here’s a guided one you can do (or you can do something like it) – https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/.
Hi Tess,
I am pretty sure someone is trying to take me down financially, everything i do to win more business at work isn’t successful, every deal i do falls through it feels like someone has this business in a strangle hold and is squeezing the life out of it. I have an idea where this is coming from but i struggle to believe that this person hates me enough to do this (for no real reason i actually support their business and buy from them regularly) , i have done the salt water cure and the angel cure and felt no change. I did the prosperity spell 2 months ago and it felt good felt like it worked but my finances have actually gotten worse since. I’m kinda stuck on what to do next? Any suggestions on what l can do to clear this?
Jules, do you have any clutter in your home, car, workspace, or anywhere else? If so, I’d clear it. It can hold challenges in place like nothing else.
Dear Tess,
I have been feeling like my older sister has put a curse on my young son. It all dates back to when I was pregnant and the first thing she said was`Talk to my friend, she had a stillbirth`. The reason I am feeling that now is because my son has been having behavioural issues in his elementary school. He runs out of class whenever he feels like, won`t participate in group activities like preparing for a sports day event, won`t change into his sports uniform, takes his time putting his backpack away etc. He has lots of friends in the school and gets along with kids from all levels. My older sister has been trying to cause trouble for my husband and me constantly and even tried to undermine my son by labelling him autistic in front of family friends and when he got answers right in some reading comp activity she was deliberately trying to convince him his answer was wrong when it was right. My family and I moved overseas in an effort to be rid of my sister, but we know that she is saying lies and saying nasty things behind our backs still. Thank you for reading this!
Lisa, this doesn’t sound or feel like a curse, but more like an annoying way to act. I suggest that you set some healthy boundaries with your sister in any way that feels appropriate. (i.e. have a talk with her, limit your time with her, and/or stop hanging out with her.)
Thank you for your insight.
Hi Tess, I was wondering if lavender Epsom Salt was acceptable for the water ritual or if that would throw off the mix?
Hi there! Yes, that will work.
Several years ago I placed a curse of inconvenience on my house after it was broken into for anyone else who stole from me. I sealed it with a Navajo turtle rattle and put pentagram (upright) decals on both doors. I’m not sure this is related but I have had a great deal of annoying luck. Can such a curse wash back on me who cast it? I have since removed the decals and instead Blessed the house in that anyone who broke in would see a change in their lives for the good and not need to continue harming others. I have not noticed a difference, if anything an increase in annoyances. I live i a different city now but still own the house. I am planning to return with the turtle rattle and smudge cleanse the house with sage and rosemary. Again, I’m not sure one has anything to do with the other. I’d love your opinion. I’m tired of changing light bulbs and picking up stuff that falls on the floor over and over again.
Sean, how are you with clutter? Do you have any that could be cleared?
Hi Tess. Thanks for answering. Clutter is a major point in my life. After my wife and I split up nearly 20 years ago I ended up with a lot of her stuff, her sister’s, my two deceased parents and mine. For instance, I think I have as many as 10 family Bibles that I have “inherited”. More or less, I am the last of my familial line so everything has ended up with me. I moved from Durham to Charlotte 2 1/2 years ago to help look after my girl friend’s 94-year-old father who passed away soon after and our house here is filled with boxes and garbage bags full of his stuff and her mother’s who passed way 15 years ago. Clutter is my middle name. I know a lot of stuff probably falls to the floor because I can’t find a flat spot to set it. We plan to sell everything (plus both houses) and move (maybe to the Savannah area). The inconveniences I am facing seemed to start long after the first “cluttering” and long before the second. We are trying to get rid of as much as we can but I also collect vinyl albums, books and Grateful Dead memorabilia. I don’t mean to sound flippant, but can you be more specific as where to start uncluttering? 🙂 BTW, the stuff I have brought with me from Durham to Charlotte only the stuff I find most important, a little at the time. Thank you again for your time and I am enjoying reading your stuff.
Sean, you don’t sound flippant! In fact, I’ve written a blog post on just that subject: https://tesswhitehurst.com/get-rid-of-that-huge-pile-of-clutter-once-and-for-all-3-places-to-start/
Hi Tess,
I have been in a relationship for 2 years. A year ago my partner and I have gone to his home land to introduce me to his family. He desperately needed their approval. Unfortunately they didn’t approve as I am not “one” of them. The minute we have returned to our home where we moved in together everything has changed and he has become distant. A week ago he has moved out and broken up with me. He says he loves me but we can never be together. I feel his mother has cursed our relationship before we left his country.
Hi there! I don’t think this is a curse but rather a heartbreaking situation. While there is no guarantee that he will change his mind, I suggest spell #2 from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/
Hi Tess,
My husband and I believe that we are either hexed or cursed when it comes to hiring contractors to work on our home. While we have gone to great lengths to research contractors and feel that we have chosen wisely, something bad inevitably happens. Currently we are putting on a new roof and it has been one problem after another and now rain is in the forecast while we are exposed. The workers have now left after ordering the wrong materials. At our last home we also went through a horrible reroof and purposefully did not use the same contractor for this job. I did a cleansing ritual this time before the job began – going through each room chanting, incensing and opening all doors and windows to let out anything negative. Maybe this was incorrect? Both my husband and I are devastated by the roofer we are using now and their behavior. I am worried that an elder within our family is the cause of our continued misfortunes…how can it be that everyone we hire is bad — plumber, painter, landscapers, handy people, roofers? What do you suggest? Thank you.
Greta, I suggest akashic clearing for your space. I am not currently offering this service, but my friend Valerie may be able to help. Her website is valerieelster.com.
I’m cursed have been for a long time. I don’t know what i did to deserve it.
I can’t feel joy,love,happiness but i can feel pain,hatred,anger,sadness
Every time i try to reach out for something better it just ends in me suffering and whatever this is it even disfigured me i can’t even be intimate with a women
I don’t want to die and I’ve prayed to god for it to end
Dennis, have you tried any of the cures from this post?
Hello mam, past 2 years have been very bad for me which is from the time I have joined a new team at work. My manager was partial towards the team and he favours 2 girls. I was about to get promoted but I couldn’t as I was struck with health issues. I’m unable to concentrate on my work throughout. I have developed anxiety and infections. My wedding was cancelled. I’m losing hope. I believe that my manager cursed me because I knew how he was favouring his favorite girls. My reflexes also slowed and I’m unable to react when somebody is harming me. Please help. If possible please suggest me how I can take revenge on him.
Isha, I’m sorry to hear about all of this. It doesn’t sound like a hex to me. I suggest that you begin by clearing clutter: anything you can get rid of and tidy up, do it. You may want to read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up for inspiration.
Hi, I am worried our property (40 acres) has a curse on it. We seem to lose a lot of animals, I have had animals all my life but in the last 15 years we have lost 9 horses,4 cows, 9 dogs and too many cats and birds…some one told us that many years ago(200)there had been a problem in this general area and there had been a lot of deaths. There has also been a lot negative things happening to my neighbors. Could a whole area be cursed?please help
Kathy, how do you feel about your property other than that? It could be that the land is craving more love from you, and is asking you to fully step into your sacred role as earth steward for that property. For example that an inner shift on your part to loving where you are and tending to it with patience and care will make all the difference in the energy of the land. Does this feel like it could be accurate?
Hi Tess,
I went to a fortune teller once and it got me worried when she told me that she got a bad aura that someone possibly cursed my mom and her children’s relationships and moving forward in life. I can definitely confirm that all of us have trouble with relationships and are stuck in life. I’m hoping to get help as it is worrying me a little more and more.
Shay, I would not worry. Instead, I’d clear clutter: from your home, car, work – anywhere you have clutter. Then clear the space in your home. Here’s a post about how to do that: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/
Hi tess,
My life has not been going smoothly for me.i have some many breakups,loss of jobs,I was jobless for a while now that I found a job I found that I have difficulty focusing,remembering things people just talked to me a while ago and I also always feel tired.
recently another broke up happened my ex kept saying to me “u will never be happy!” We we’re going on fine until one day he jus became extremely jealous and talk like a crazy person so I broke it off.my question is..watever he said to me is it a curse?and do I sound like I’ve been cursed?I did the cards method in ur other page and it says I have.ive done the salt and Epsom salt bath and need to do the angel cure but I can’t find the crystal here.can I use other crystals?thank u!
Mel
Mel, no it doesn’t sound like you’ve been cursed. I suggest that you clear clutter and meditate daily.
I just wish to remove my ex from my life because he send me nasty messages to curse me.ive done the singing bowl cleansing and removing unnecessary items from my house!hope it helps to improve other parts of my life as wel!
Hi Tess,
Please help. I feel as if my daughters fathers wife has cursed me. Everything negative has been happening to me back to back with my health, two cars I bought both had issues, financially, my apartment having problems my relationships not working just an overall sense of negativity around me. Could this be the case?
Deshawn, I’m not getting the sense that you’re cursed, but I am getting the sense that the Lemon Cure will help uplift your energy and turn your challenges around.
I believe my ex mother in law has put an extremely powerful curse on me. She is a very powerful dark witch and I really need to break it.Can you help me
Hi Jamie! You’re in the right place. That’s what this post is all about. I suggest choosing one of these cures and performing it.
Good Evening Tess,
I’m having a hard time of letting go of who I thought was my Soulmate. We were on and off for almost 12 years. We finally were done with one another 2013 and he told me he never loved me. Not long after he married a lady from another country. I myself and married also. It has broken my heart and spirit to know that he never loved me. I gave that man my soul and don’t know how to let go. I think about him all the time. I just wanted him to love me back and he couldn’t. I would love to be able to move on and forget him. I ready to be done.
Hi there! I suggest doing this meditation or one like it every day for at least 40 days: https://tesswhitehurst.com/cord-cutting-meditation/
Thank you so much Tess. I will most definitely do this meditation and get back to you. Have a blessed day
greeting tess i am i think have one hex with using crystal magic isle see my x bf was skill using this type of magic and he acting so evil to with me and piss off and hurt full and he come dark life force powder and i am very worry i had start bad lucky with few people i am with they started get sick and over loads .
OK, well doing one of these rituals won’t hurt.
There seems to be a lot of people who believe they have been cursed or affected by a hex. I also feel that way. When I was a teenager my father told me a story about how his jealous uncle (aunt’s husband) hired a witch to curse him. My father had gone back to Arkansas to take care of some family business (We lived in California). His aunt made a fuss as if he were a movie star and her husband did not like it. The woman gave his uncle something that was to be sprinkled in his food. Luckily for my father he was running late and only sopped up some gravy and a small piece of chicken. When he returned home he became extremely ill. He could not work or anything. While walking down the street a man, a gypsy I believe told him he had been cursed. He told my father he would have to confront the uncle in spiritual form because time had passed and the uncle was now dead. my father was told to draw a pentagram on the floor in the attic , sit in a chair in the middle of the circle and perform some type of ritual which would bring forth his uncle. He was told no matter what happened not to leave the circle. i don’t really know what happened after that. He did not tell me, but he got better, married my mother and lived a fairly decent life. He told me all this because I have a psychic ability and he was warning me that there really was dark and white magic and I needed to be careful. I did not take it that seriously, although my father wasn’t a lair and he was a religious man, but he was also a mason. I say all this because I am now 72 years old and very little in my life has gone right. I am really intelligent and gifted and told I am brilliant in many ways but something always gets in my way. I wanted to be an actress and I have won rolls but did not accept them or I would get sick, I have been humiliated many times when what i did should have gone smoothly. The long and the short of it is that everything I touch seems to go wrong. I have been a healer (Reiki) but it stopped working for me. My worry now is not just about my life and ho9w to end this curse/hex. But I have 3 daughters and 5 grandchildren. They have all had bad luck and my grand kids seem to have mental emotional problems. 3 of them are under 9 years of age. I am sorry to go on so long but I was told I had to confront and end this before I could help my children. I don’t want to die and leave them with this evil wreaking their lives. I need help.
Obietta, I recommend the Lemon Cure from this post.
HI Tess. I am in need of some advice. I feel that I have been under some sort of love curse since the last 2 years (and honestly maybe longer but the last 2 years have been particularly horrible.) My ex and I were not in love and he treated me poorly and neglected me in every sense of the word. So the last 2 years of our relationship were loveless and sort of devastating. Since then, I have dated or met several people who i felt i could really be in love with and after a short time (whether we sleep together or not.) they want nothing to do with me. At first they seem quite enamored but nothing sticks. They always disappear. Even people i am not that interested in take a turn and decide they don’t really want me or do something horrible out of the blue or I get ghosted. I don’t want to sound vain, but according to many people my looks are above average, I get a decent amount of attention in public and I have done modeling and. I am kind to people, I am not clingy. I am just confused. I feel like a leper and I know I can’t be that bad. All my close friends and family members are constantly baffled as to why this keeps happening to me. And so am I.
Abby, it’s my sense that this is a past life issue. I suggest doing this meditation by Denise Linn to help heal it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsXCnW609OE
I have been saying that for years. I am glad to hear you you think that too. Thank you so much for the suggestion.
Hello Miss Whitehurst,
Recently I received information from my older sister that my biological father had placed a curse on my mom and myself. The reason for the curse according to my father is because my mother left him, taking me with her. He is extremely religious to the point that he ignored everyone in the family for years saying that God told him to divorce the family. My mom couldn’t take the blatant neglect of my sister or I, from him anymore. At the point she left him and we moved away, my sister married the man she was currently involved with. That was 20 years ago. Ever since then, my mom and I have had just enough to survive on but we could never seem to get ahead no matter what we did. We are doing fairly well currently, though its still just on the cusp of survival and teetering towards the edge of downright poverty. Also I should point out that my sister and I do not get along. She has pretty much hated me since the day I was born and has suffered from jealousy regarding anything and everything that concerns what I do with my life. According to her I stole her spot light and all the love and affection from our parents. I was born 6 weeks early and had under developed lungs causing me to require the extra attention to remain healthy. Growing up the only parent I had a lot to do with is my mom. My father never really paid much attention to either one of us girls for as far back as I can remember and I am now 31. After reading your post, my instincts are pointed towards the Lemon, the Saltwater, the Selenite and Sage and the Rose cure. As I have recently awakened I feel it more so now than just the sense of something is not right. I have done smudging, cleansing of the home, cleansing of the self and meditating. Any suggestions would be welcome as concerning the need to make things right again.
Hi Jessica! Yes, the Lemon Cure feels right to me for you.
Thank you, I will do that as soon as possible.
Hi,
I’m 32 and my family have had over a decade of absolute hell. Please read this: having read others on here i think you might understand that this is much more serious than most peoples concerns. I really need help I’m breaking down and I don’t know who can help us.
I broke up with a girl under 10 years ago she was Iranian and believed in mystical things. She in haunting wails I can still hear swore she put a curse on my whole family believing that they were the problem in our relationship but they were not I just fell out of love and was young and stupid to let it go that far (I was always going to move back to my home city without her it want them). My father has had enemies or bad blood with people business and family, his people are Mediterranean who definitely believe in the bad eye and throwing bad energy and curses. He is a good man at heart and lives well honestly. And then my only other girlfriend in my life since that one believes in witchcraft and I later found out that after her own personal trauma before we met had done full on rituals to call on a demon to give her power and creativity. Her career blew up after this she swears.
We had a lot of issues after she cheated on me and lied on and on getting others to help her lies and drove me nearly mad tore my heart out and dragged it through 1 year of salt and sandpaper..when things got heated and my family could see how depressed and stressed i was for months so tried to tell me to take a break.. since she has several times swore with deep seething haunting screams that shes cursing my whole family in the worst way. She has deep hate for them somewhere inside still I think. She is a good person but I think she is powerful and in her own psychological struggles, I don’t know if she stands by this or takes it back after when we make up but i can not forget the sound and determination and words of the purest hate and negativity and literally deliberate intentional hexing or cursing.. so maybe she has perhaps misused her power and become radioactively dangerous and her world has much darkness in it already so i think she built up this idea of my family in her head and vented her rage at us.
I don’t know I know very little but I have had a vision of sorts I understand now that powers exist and energies and that we can have an effect on them as they do us. And I now know that this stuff is real and powerful and I really need help I don,t know what to do.
So much has gone wrong I cannot begin to explain its been living hell one thing after the other no light; my dad got cancer and we fought and beat it and then my mum got cancer and had her ovaries removed and then we had legal problems for a financial matter that was absolutely not our doing and that took 4 years of screaming working and providing accounts necessary and lawyers etc to clear our name. Jobs I took turned out to be a scam and i got no pay after four months have had no luck since in work and my life has just been a non-start despite lots of concentrated efforts to work hard and live well and be good to others. Then I got attacked in the street and stabbed and cut on my face 7 inches and 56 stitches because i tried to tell a crazed man to stop screaming at his girlfriend. Diagnosed with PTSD I’ve been in a prison of my mind it changed me fundamentally I should have died but it scraped an artery and that meant i survived just. Ive only just started to work through that now but then this. Then I had a motorbike accident and another and a car accident and one caused internal bleeding that caused me to be rushed to resuscitation and only survived by the blood of 6 other people and a horrific recovery i wouldn’t wish on an enemy.
This may sound like I live particularly recklessly but we are a good family and we have friction no one is perfect but we are sweet good people and we are being put through this constant what next what now soulfully sad and depressed times. my mum then got cancer again and this was worse took lots of chemo and she got through it somehow and they said at least 5 years now you will be clear but its been less than two and i just found out my mum has cancer in her jaw and they need to take a chunk of her face away and reconstruct.. I just don,t understand shes a saint out of all of us shes an angel you really haven,t met anyone so selfless and strong and kind and knowing. her and her mother believed in sight and my grandmother would always know when a bad thing happened before the news came and had other visions and things she was mystical and traveled the world and said we have that in our green eyed blood line (those of us that have green eyes my gma and mom and me but not so much my brown eyed brother etc idk). My sisters business wouldn’t start one bad luck thing after another despite hard work and decency lost lots of money and tears and my brother cant get a job no matter what he tries, we have all been suicidal or had suicidal thoughts at points during this decade.
I can go on there is many examples of just true total surprise like; this is the opposite of a miracle.. please hear this and help, this isn’t some small concern this feels terrifying and about as undeniable as it gets right now.. my mum has said it several times my dad too.. we are cursed they say (not casually)..
She walked in and told me about this latest diagnosis of cancer just now and we cried a lot and she said we are cursed ten ways not just one and we have to be strong now and I might have to take care of my dad and family.. im so sorry to depress ppl with this stuff but I really want your help anyone’s really.
I’m now desperately remembering my vision and that power exists and that I can affect it and I need help I have to find a way to clean this from us and help my family, someone is killing us and tearing our souls apart, please help.
I kept thinking maybe these are just tests and a trans-formative period but even when all the signs point towards a new page and time for growth and success and good fortune.. another horrifying drama or catastrophe ensues.
I honestly have been loosing the will to endure more. Thank you v much for any help at all.
Adrian, doing one of the hex breakers from this post is a good idea, but it’s even more important that you get into therapy as soon as possible. If money is an issue, Talkspace is an app that offers affordable phone therapy. And if you or anyone in your family is feeling suicidal, please call the Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255.
Hey. So I think I’ve been cursed. Everything seems to break or go wrong. I generally just have pretty terrible luck, and think a woman named “Sophie” may have placed a hex or curse upon me! What should I do. WARNING! This is a strong curse, everything really seems to break. My car broke down. I have chronic strep/tonsillitis that wont go away. Im broke as shit. My phone is broke. I have diarrhea that’s lasted for several years. Lots of problems with family… and it all started when I phased out Sophie from my friend group. To be fair, she was really mean and not very fun. BUT I think she has cursed me and I don’t know what to do! Help!
Katie, I suggest the Lemon Cure from this post.
Hi im 42 now but have felt for the past 10 yrs that i seem unlucky not really advancing in my career and just seems like my luck isn’t the greatest in life. Im wondering if ive been cursed. Or what im dealing with. Thanks for taking the time to read my question.
Kristy, I’d look at any clutter you have in your home or anywhere else in your life, and clear it ASAP. Anything you don’t love, use, or need, get rid of it! Maybe read Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui or The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up for inspiration.
Hello Tess, I’m here because I think a lady put a written curse on my mother and possibly on me. A few years back I lived in a neighborhood that was built on an battleground so everything was kinda weird from the getgo. Bad dreams, weird moods and heavy feelings were normal now and then. There was a woman down the road fairly old who lived in a house with many plants almost as if the house was plant too, she lived alone. She was friendly at first but there was something odd about her. At the time I was in school, once when I was walking to school she stopped me and spoke to me for a bit (note this was at six am) she asked for my name and stuff. She spoke to my mother as well and even gave us some of her old stuff. One day my mom and her got into an argument and that’s when things in my house intensified. Even heavier feelings from nowhere, visible things, objects moving, orbs, intense nightmares, my dad even got into an accident. I made it a thing to avoid her house and so did my mother. One day she drove past my mom and told her “we miss you” but she supposedly lived alone. This adds on to my sister’s weird dream warning about “them” coming. To this day even after moving weird things happen. Moving out helped and so did sages but I can’t help but wonder if we are still under a curse. My mother won’t ask for help from a professional. If you have any advice I’m all ears. I don’t usually do this out of fear of getting myself into some deeper predicament.
Hi there. It’s my sense that clearing clutter intensely from your space will be a good idea. Start by getting rid of everything from your space (and everywhere – storage, car, computer, etc) you don’t love, use, or need. Then come back and let me know how you’re doing.
hi tess,
I have been using sacred geometry to fight against the dark side recently as I know they have hijacked our sacred buiding blocks of the universe, fractals and scared geometry to control us. I recently got some orgonite which was originally developed by wilhem reich which has been further developed by people today (gem stones with copper wire, silver or gold flakes and resin). I have used them to fight off the shadow people and they really hate the stuff. Recently though I heard putting them in a hexagon shape and mediating inside really helpes with the power of them. As soon as I did it though I felt like a becon for good and evil to further see me and had chills up my back and massively around my head. I’ve had weird things since. sat at the 13th table at a pub by accient and my bill there was $13.13. I know these are good devices though I just don’t understand there interdimensional properties enough to use them now after what I felt. I’ve looked up this shape and know its a hexagram/solomans seal but at the same time its the flower of life/fruit of life/heart chakra shape. The hexagon is sacred but also hijacked like the swastika. first off I was wondering if you could help me if I’ve been hexed or hexed myself indirectly (can pray alone work) and how to break it and second how do we go about using these divine birth right shapes if they have been infiltrated by the darkness?I know its about intension but how do you work in the light without attracting the dark?I use sage, selenite, bay leafs, sea salt baths all the time. Is the merkaba/hexagon a vehicle of ascension or something the new age is pushing without knowing what it is being used for? I don’t believe the movies. I know these beings are afraid of us thats why they prey on people sleeping, young children, people in greif and the elderly. I’ve been in a battle with them all my life but I’m just hoping I haven’t brought that battle to myself head on. I’m not afraid though. Just need some advice. thank you x
Oh my! It is clear that you are very intelligent and highly sensitive to math and sacred geometrical patterns. So sensitive that it might be too much for you! Because of that, I suggest getting in to see a therapist or counselor if you haven’t already.
I recently had a spell done. After months or waiting because they told me so had to wait I asked for my money back ? Now this person is threatening to curse me and hex send demons to me and my family and start a generational curse. What am I supposed to do to protect myself? How would I know? Please help thank you.
Andrea, I have met Sen Elias from Crescent City Conjure, and he’s a great guy. Here’s his site, you might want to work with him for uncrossing and protection in this situation. He works remotely. https://crescentcityconjure.us/
Hello Tess,
I am 32 and have always had difficulty in relationships, thinking back all my siblings (5 of us) have always had difficulty in this area. I joke around with my mom that someone but a curse on her kids because we used to be really cute kids and they were jealous. I have relatives that believe and practice witchcraft, Is there any way to tell if I need to do a cleanse?
Sandra, I suggest the Lemon Cure from this post.
I always had issues with my family, my father cursed me, saying no one will love me and I’ll die soon.
generally, I don’t take anything seriously, but these words are bothering me, I feel like it may happen.
I know he said it in anger, but whatever he said always came true.
I recommend the Selenite and White Sage cure.
Hi Tess
I’ve been experiencing severe fatigue, headaches, I’ve been sick and according to doctors Im fine. They’ve ran test after test and don’t have anything. I feel depressed and It seems like they want me to have a car accident. I feel like I’m hex. Like someone is doing something to me and they want me dead. Please let me know what can I do.
Myra, I suggest the Lemon Cure from this post.
Hi Tess, my parents have been trying to buy a house for over two years now. Our offers never get accepted. Sometimes they’ll have a higher offer but someone else will get the house because they offered all cash, or didn’t care of the contingencies. Sometimes, a house will be on the market for a few months with no offers and as soon as they decide they are interested, the house will unexpectedly go off the market or other buyers will come an put offers despite not having any interest before. It feels like something is preventing them from moving from their current house. Their current house is far away from the central part of any major city (about 2 hours). Since they started living there about 16 years ago they haven’t made much profess in their lives and as someone that has been able to leave that house I feel as though there’s a lot of negativity associated with that house. Regardless, I want to help them get out and be able to purchase a new house. What can I do to help them take out whatever negative energies may be surrounding them preventing them from getting a new house. Thank you so much for your help.
Hi SK! If you can encourage them to clear their clutter, that will be the best thing.
Hey. In our culture there is a form of magic that is practised to block someone’s marriage, job and success. I don’t know what it is called in your language. Can this sort og magic be reveresed? If yes how?
Yes. Try one of the rituals from this post.
Hi Tess
My wife and mother in law do not get along mainly because of issues with my sister in law who is not a good person. I am a very positive person and things have always seemed to work out for me. My mother has claimed to be a “witch” many times and since she has had the falling out with my wife a few months ago, things seem to always go wrong for my wife. Random injuries, random people saying or even verbally assaulting her, friends turning on her. It has gotten to the point where i think my mother may have actually put a hex or curse on her. I was wondering which remedy do you think would work best. As for my wife and moms relationship we are slowly working on that as well.
Thank you!
Hi JP! I recommend the Lemon Cure.
Hi! I’m glad I found your website. Years back I was with someone who is my soulmate he cheated on me and in that person put a soul tie spell on him while including me and him in a spell full of negativity. I don’t speak to him but we keep going around in circles and depression hits use bad from what his family tell me. They are married. I have no interest in being with him. However, I’ve gone to three medians who confirms they see a lot of negativity and that she did indeed do something strong to both of use. I was thinking of doing the salt bath followed by the rose water bath. Not sure. I don’t trust anyone someone tried to get me to pay they $13K to lift it and I believe I can do this myself. Any help would be great.
Kay, yes: your intuition sounds solid. Saltwater followed by Rose Overdose – go for it!
Tess,
My partner believes he may have a curse or hex over his head.
He has encountered some unfortunate events in his life which is why he thinks he was cursed in his late teen years.
He has forbade me to delve into a ritual recommended to see if he is in fact cursed. Do you have any recommendations on what I should do next? Is he cursed? Would his curse impact on me? Should I do the ritual on myself to see if I now carry his bad luck? Can you help?
Chloe, I am not sensing that he is cursed. On your end, it never hurts (and I actually recommend to everyone) to do a meditation like this one daily: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/ . Keeping your clutter cleared and your home’s energy cleansed is also a good idea. Here’s a post on energy clearing: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/
Hi Tess,
I’m 21 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I have never had any significant relationship with a man. I feel like I am repelling them someway somehow. Every time I get close to someone, they soon lose interest. What curse breaker could work for me?
Carmen, instead of a curse breaker, I recommend reading You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. https://amzn.to/2SUmItF
Hi I am thinking I have been cursed by something It seems when ever I became happy it’s like there’s always something wrong that happens then so far this year I was dumped on New Years then I got tricked from someone who I trusted to getting a loan for them and then they left me with out caring, then after that I got fired from my job and now I trusted a friend to put her checks into my account which the checks didn’t go threw I feel my life tarring apart and I need help
Matthew, I’m not sensing a curse, but rather a blind spot with regards to trust. This is something a good therapist should be able to help with. There’s an app called TalkSpace that offers affordable phone therapy if money is an issue for you.
Hello,
I been dating this guy that was going through a divorce. I’ve had several readings stating he has been cursed by his soon to be ex wife and has dark angels around him. At this moment, he became distant and stop all communication. Is like he changed overnight. What do you recommend?
Hi Nicole! I am not getting the sense that he was cursed, but I am getting the sense that you would most benefit from moving on so you can open up to someone who is more aligned with your readiness for a healthy relationship. Here’s a cord cutting meditation that might help: https://tesswhitehurst.com/cord-cutting-meditation/
Hi Tess,
So a kitten can be bewitched ??
My kitten got sick and died but suffered a lot. I thought it could have been bewitched. (It’s something long to explain)
But if so, does he now rest in peace? Because it’s something that worries me.
Missy, I get the sense that your kitten absolutely rests in peace, and I do not get the sense that he was bewitched. Did you see this post? https://tesswhitehurst.com/ritual-for-honoring-a-deceased-animal-friend/
Agreed, Thank You!
Tess,
I am told I have been cursed, hundreds of years ago and it is applied to my life now. My whole SD family was cjrse, I am td (I was not born into my soul family this time around).
I have always had extreme difficulties that I just managed to work my way through at the VERY last minute… I had done a lot of work over the years to try and figure out why I have such bad luck and to change it, have been through many, “spiritual” sessions with (MANY) mediums and psychics, had thrown away things I thought were false and done LOT OF work on my own…
Only to continue to have horrible experiences .
10 years ago a psychic I had known for 20 years refused to read me: she acted VERY nervous and said there was “a wall”, a wall she could not see through. She hung up almost immediatly. I contacted 4 other psychics that day, across the country and they all said almost the exact same words and hung up on me…
Since then, I broke my back. I can walk (spine held together with muscles), but pain so great I faint from it. My MD (all MDs today) refused to prescribe opiods for the pain, no one can get them, cancer patients cannot get them, it is LUDICROUS. I knew zero about scheduled meds and kept trying pain med after pain med my doctor prescribed, not realizing they were all for “low to medium ” levels of pain… I could not work the pain was too great, so I’ve lived off my saving already greatly depleted from a Recession disaster).
$200,000 gone, $95,000 in debt and I finally discovered a safe homeopathic pain reliever acts just like morphine..
I. immediately started interviewing for jobs, was hired 5 times but EACH TIME the job was cancelled by the client for some reason.
No money. Evicted from my apartment now owing $10,000, on the verge of bankruptcy, living now in terrible situation…
I am GOOD at what I do, EXCELLENT resume, EXCELLENT references…
The original psychic agreed to read me, and she said she was told “sabotage”, and she said she “did not want to call it a curse”. Someone else DID say it was a cure, and a third party says a demon may be involved.
I speak to my guides via the I Ching, and though out this period since the back broke they have told me to WAIT, KEEP STILL, and REST. They have said there a a huge wall of small things they are tying to “disperse”…..
am 63, no pension, life saving gone… the need help.
Thank you for reading this.
Lisa, I think it might be simpler than you’re thinking. Try the Rose Overdose cure from this post and see what happens.
Tess, 8 drops of rose esessence a day for 28 days, would that be a .25 ounce bottle, please? 1 ounce…?
I RECENTLY HAD SOMEONE SAY SHE WORKED WITH DARK MAGIC AND POSTED A ‘SPELL’ (IN A COMMENT ON SOCIAL MEDIA) MENTIONING ME AND MY CHILDREN. ALSO STATING THAT I WILL LOSE ANY CHILD I BEAR AND THE ONES I HAVE. WHICH CAN I USE TO BLOCK THIS NEGATIVITY?
Hi there! I suggest the Lemon Cure.
Hi Tess,
I’m 30 years old and always feel like I’ve been cursed . I’ve tried every form of positive energy and the law of attraction but can never find a mate or keep one long enough to remain interested. Essentially this has lead to me being always single and still a virgin. Furthermore, I’ve been trying to leave my parents home and keep getting rejected from every flat I find. My gut feeling always leads to me thinking I’ve been cursed (my mom was hexed by her mother in law) and I wonder if it was passed to me too. Help!
Hi! I suggest talking to a therapist or counselor to investigate what is holding you back. It feels like a limiting belief or past trauma rather than a hex or a curse. TalkSpace is an app with affordable phone therapy, or if you can, find an local therapist you trust.
Hi Tess,
My name is Kattie G. I believe my entire family may be cursed going back generations. For starters, my family is purely matriarchal. In doing genealogical research no information can be obtained about any male in our family since before the 1860’s. Also, every woman in our family has some sort of psychic ability from empathic to reading auras to being able to predict someone’s time and date of death. Then there is all the negative. Most of the people in this family are drug addicted. Everyone has severe anger and rage issues. Most women lose their children to the system. No one is prosperous financially. We all fight constantly. Our daughters get pregnant as teenagers. There is always some life crisis going on such as eviction, or losing a job, or someone going to jail or dying almost on a quarterly basis of a year. I have seen much information on how to cleanse my person but how do I clear all this negative energy on my entire family?
Kattie, it’s my sense that you have done a lot of great & effective work on yourself already, and that you are a very powerful intuitive. I suggest doing a tarot or other intuitive reading at the full moon (Tuesday) about what you can do to support your family members in healing.
Hi Tess, I just found this post, thank you for sharing, I want to do the selenite and sage ritual, after you extinguish the sage in a jar, can you throw it away or you have to keep it? Thank you!
Stela, you don’t have to keep it!
Hey Tess
I was cursed by an ex to never be happy in love again. I did both the the salt water and the rose bath by your suggestion but the curse seems to be very powerful. What else could be done. Do I need an actual healer or someone that could help? Please… I feel so lonely and I have so much love to give…
Hello Tess,
First I wanted to say thank you for posting this wonderful page and for being so helpful to everyone who asks for advice with their curses and lives.
I am sorry to bother you with yet another question but this is honestly the first time I have even thought about or felt like putting this question/dillema out into the world in any form., mainly because now i am pregnant and worried that it may affect my child in some way.
So, I should start this off by saying that I am friends with a person who is an apparent sensitive and his mother does readings. I have never really put much stalk into what he has ever said to me (because he also called me his archenemy in the past and blamed me solely for his girlfriend, my best friend, leaving him just because she would vent to me about her problems), but he had told me countless times that I am cursed and that I also seem to have a dark attachment.
I am only questioning in a more serious manner now because A) I have had a history for a number of years of very occasionally seeing either a shadow being or most recently (because I am pregnant?) catching glimpses of things moving (like shadows? Idek how to describe it…) B) I am now worried that if I am indeed cursed, how can I either get rid of it or protect my child? Is there such a thing as being cursed with an attachment?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Krista, the message I am getting for you is that you are not cursed but that you are a highly gifted and natural medium. So you connect with spirits on the other side. When you consciously cultivate this gift, you will not feel unsettled or worried anymore because you will have more clarity about what’s going on. I suggest starting with a book about mediumship and following your intuition about how to proceed from there.
Hi Tess, how often is good to do the salt water cure and the rose cure? as it said it’s good even if you’re not in Hexed or spelled.
Hi Ambar! Sure, you could do either or both of those maybe around once a month to purify your energy and raise your vibration.
When I was little my mom would drag me along her side as she stood outside my dad’s dorm room and cast spells or curses on my father. And after the past three years I’m convinced that the curse just moved on to the next generation after dad passed away…….which of course is me. Over and over things happen to me, or people take my money. My love life stinks as well….and has n very been ideal my when I asked my mother if I am cursed she literally acts as though I’m not there . Something has got to give.please help.
Jamie, I suggest clearing any clutter from your living area and doing a meditation like this one daily: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/
Hello,
I believe my ex-boyfriend’s family may have been cursed many years ago. There is a darkness that has been present since I’ve known them – and their family has encountered much darkness externally and internally, from external circumstances to changes in behaviour and demeanor from a specific point (as noticed by particular family members). What should I do to remove their curse – specifically without them knowing (they are a Christian family and would not approve of such methods).
Thank you.
Priscilla, when you want to help people energetically, it’s often a good idea to request Divine assistance with cleansing and shielding their auras with golden white light. You can do this for any family members you’d like to help every day as part of your daily meditation.
Hello Tess,
Several years ago I reunited with an old high school boyfriend. He was estranged from his wife and getting a divorce and he reached out to me. We weren’t a couple as his divorce was not final but things did cross a line. I ended things completely when she started to threaten my life. Though I believed the threats to be empty ones I just didn’t want that kind of drama in my life. She comes from a rich powerful family who is known for making people disappear and using magic. I consider myself a strong and good person and didn’t want to buy into the idea that she or her mother could curse me. But as time passes things have become more and more difficult for me. My health, finances and relationships have all been affected. I keep telling myself its just life but some really strange things have also happened that don’t make sense to me. For example, two of my teeth falling out…My hands becoming very arthritic out of no where and my vision declining rapidly. One of my well known hobbies is something creative I do and attacking my hands and vision squashes that. Also a year after I broke things off with the old boyfriend, I met a man who up to now, was the love of my life. We were together for three years and I thought we were happy and moving towards marriage. One day it was as if a switch was flipped. Where he was once loving and kind. he became cold and harsh. I gave him some space and within three weeks he had met some one else and never even broke up with me or told me about her. I found out on social media. That was almost three years ago and I’ve been single since. I’m not the most beautiful woman but I’m far from ugly and yet I am alone. The woman my love left me for doesn’t seem any better than I am( I don’t want to be unkind but from the outside looking in, she seems like a homely, lesser quality me!) …yet they are still together and he seemingly treats her better than he did me. . .I try to not lose hope, I try to keep my head high. I keep praying and asking the angles to help but things take two steps forward and three steps back….I’m tired, stressed and afraid that ill have a stroke or heart attack and leave my kids too soon. They still need me. …Tess, am I cursed? Or just living a hard life and delusional that I deserve better?
Lizzie, it sounds to me like you may be cursed. Don’t worry, though: you can purify yourself of this energy. I suggest the selenite & white sage cure from this post.
Hey Tessa,
I can’t seem to catch a break in my life! Love life or just my life in general. My mom always had a thing for voodoo/rootwork and we always had a good relationship but now living in the same house we barely speak and she steadying burning things in the house she’s gotten from a root dr it hasn’t been my thing but I was also dealing with a guy for 2-3 yrs from New Orleans and when I decide to break things off that’s when all hell broke lose. I was got sick unexpectly(which I NEVER got sick) went to have a procedure done and the dr punctured my lung which the procedure was suppose to have me out of work for 3-4 weeks I was out 9 months he always told me I had a case to sue for medical malpractice which no lawyer would touch my case. I stop trying and focused on getting myself together. Of course I lost my job had to move back home with my son. Now I’m still dealing with the issue of the sickness but not as bad as it was but I can’t catch a break! Can’t find a place for me and my son, I am working but I’m not happy in my love life or in general I have cut the guy off completely but he still want to be with me but I don’t want him. Every time i try to get a place to stay it’s always a problem when I try to be in a relationship it fails! This one guy i was dealing with for 2 yrs we had a big falling out and that’s not like us. We are not even taking to this day! We went from he telling me he loves me and vice versa to not even talking! I just need some help bad!
Pam, I suggest working with the angels and doing #3 from this post.
i just saw this post. too much has happened in my life to explain why i think im cursed but also part of it was the house i grew up in that was supposedly built on an indian burial ground (i found out a year ago). can i just go down the list trying these curse breakers or is that not a good idea?
I think that sounds like a fine idea. Just wait at least a week between each one.
Hey Tess! My mom and I think we have a curse on us and our family. We are not sure if it is a family curse that goes back generations or if it was put on us. My mom has a pendulum and it has confirmed that we have multiple people that have placed hexes/ curses on us. We researched how to get rid of these curses and we did find a mirror spell but we do not want to bring any harm to anybody, we just want to remove the curses that are on us. We have had bad luck for many many years now. We really appreciate all of your help! Thank you so much – Krissy
Krissy, do you and your mom have any clutter you can clear? From anywhere? Storage, car, work, attic, etc? I would start there. Once all your clutter is cleared, come back and let me know how you’re doing.
Yes we do! thank you and thank you for the fast response. This is something we are deff going to do. May I ask, what are the benifets of declutting? Can that leave certain unwanted energies? Thank you- Krissy
Hi Krissy! Yes, decluttering helps EVERYTHING flow in your life. It creates more clarity, energy, and positivity. It is the very best thing you can do energetically and always square one when it comes to turning things around for the better. When you get rid of stuck energy in the form of physical objects, stuck energy in your life dissolves away as well.
Great thank you again! I will let you know how it goes!
Dear Tess, i think my family is cursed, in 3 genrations maybe more. what i am telling you now is really dark so you are warned. I will make it simple for you, my grandmother had the world’s worst father he raped her and he was evil, my mother had the worst father too, he was evil at many points and left her as a child. My father is also extremely evil and I no longer have contack .It affects the girls in my family dear Tess what is this, how can i stop it so i can be sure my future husband is not Evil, ? and after I have started to find out my family’s sad past, and begin to explore things around it, I have begun to see satanic stuff… Need help
Saophee, I’m getting the feeling you will benefit from working with a professional magic worker for help with this pattern. Is there someone you trust in your area?
Hi Tess,
Throughout my whole life I’ve been blessed with a family that loves big and sends love to everyone they care about. Although its not the same with having the love of a significant. I have great people in my life and surround myself with such, but havent got that love that’s true and tangible. When I was a little kid I had this trouble maker of a cousin and because I didnt give him my Christmas gift that he wanted he slapped me on the head with n envelope and said he had placed a curse on me to not being able to find a love… till this day I’ve had trouble with finding the right partner…maybe it’s just me being picky or that I’m not suited or what not but then again that curse may sti be lingering if it was true. We were kids then so I didnt really think anything of it and didnt think he could be capable if such. Now I dont know what to think or if it was feasible. What do you think of this.
Arielle, I think no matter what, “the Rose Overdose” from this post would be a good idea to cleanse and reset your energy with regards to love and romance.
Hello Tess,
I believe that there is a curse not just on me but my family maybe even something that has passed down though the generations. Nothing goes right and every time I think things will turn around for the better something bad happens again. I am in total despair and I need help please!
Janice, do you have any clutter you can clear? From your home, car, workspace, storage space, or anywhere else? I’d start there. Clear all the clutter you can and then come back and let me know how you’re doing.
Hey !
Recently about 5 months ago I started feeling pain in my back I was diagnose with a back issue that technically does not go away. for some reason I feel as tho karma is getting me back. I recently started apologizing to anyone I hurt but still feel like there is someone I got to know who has put a hex on me , I stop talking to her but still feel like the bad luck is coming for her negativity , she would put me in a down state of mind every time I talk to her , could this be her or just Karma what should I do?
Marie, I am not sensing that the back pain is related to the issue you mentioned, but rather it’s related to not feeling fully supported by the Universe. Try doing these affirmations every day for 30 days and see how you feel: https://tesswhitehurst.com/affirmations-to-shift-into-a-positive-vibration/
Hi, sometimes, not often, I go through extremely and intense dark periods of 2-3 days and find myself cursing people, places, even animals that i thought did harm to my own animals, it is very focused and later realize as i find my balance what i have done- what can i do to lift them without the subject knowing?
You can call on Archangel Michael to clear and bless them.
Hi Im Sarah.. So for years since I was 9 I had a very evil up setting childhood that caused me to grow up really fast and turned to drugs and others … All my life I have been fighting and struggling.. My addiction caused me to loose everything husband home kids… My life has been eventfull but never the less Ive been hurt by everyone I ever loved and cant seem to find my calling or my purpose and I struggle with love and acceptance… I have a good heart and its been broken over and over again with friends and loved ones… Im now out of my addiction at 34 and its new life since I was 9 years old I was using and drinking.. My lifes changed but I feel like I will never find love and purpose and I pray I just need more and I dont know of what… If that makes sence
Sarah, are you in therapy? I suggest finding a counselor, therapist, or psychologist whom you trust. There is an app called TalkSpace that offers affordable phone therapy if money is an issue.
Dear Tess.
Please can you tell me if there is anyone in England who can break a curse? I’m 63.
My extended family , brothers, sisters are a complete disaster. 3 out of 5 of us are mentally ill, schizophrenia etc etc, nothing I do ever goes right. There was talk , when I was young that a curse had been put of the family by an ancestor. things never seem to improve over the years. If anything good happens to me, which is rare, it is followed by negative stuff. The years are taking their toll.
Heather, I suggest doing the Selenite and White Sage cure from this post, and I also suggest carefully reading You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay, and taking it to heart.
Hi Tess,
I will admit that I was never one to believe in the magic and curses and such but recent events have had me wondering.
About 4 or 5 months ago my mother in law gave my wife an old strange Japanese book kind of like accordian style with the way it opens. We have a Japanese friend so I sent her a picture of the cover and some of the inside and she told me it is a book that monks read when people die and that it was creepy and we should get rid of it. Well I didn’t think to believe her so we kept it and then things started to change. I have been married to my wife for 5 years and had been together for 4 years before that but she meet a Japanese/Korean guy and over the course of the last 3 months she has been developing surprisingly strong emotions for him. We are now filing for divorce and she is prepared to leave me and our 2 children behind so she can start a life with this new man.
I understand that she could be genuinely in love but I find it hard to believe that such strong ties can develop in 3 months. She will defend him fiercely if I point out any of his shortcomings or flaws and she is even attempting to get pregnant with his baby already which most people would find strange in itself but when our last child was born, her doctor warned her that she came close to dying because her body could barely sustain the pregnancy and if she were to get pregnant again, she would have an extremely high chance of dying while delivering if she is even able to reach full term.
I don’t know, maybe I’m just hoping it’s something I can still fix by breaking a curse. The book is still in the house. I thought to burn it but did not know if that is the proper way to dispose of it. Also, I feel like mentioning that my mother in law apparently had this book for a long time, not sure how long exactly, but she has also been in and out of marriages and unable to settle. Maybe I’m just reaching for straws but if there is something I can do, please let me know.
Thank you
Peter, I don’t know what that book is, but I do suggest getting it out of the house and releasing it from your possession (i.e. give it away or give it back to your mother-in-law). Then I suggest clearing the space in your home. Here’s a post about how to do this: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/
Hi, Mrs. Tess Whitehurst my name is Ted. I know my house is Cursed! I know who’s doing it. I’ve tried to make Peace for my Family’s sake! It’s been a real Battle in my Home. I’ve Experienced all the Symptoms Of it! From Bad Orchestrated Dreams to Voices to Fighting Constantly to Hatred and Seperation in my House etc. They want me Out of my House! I read not too try too Break a Home Curse because it should be done by a Professional! Is this True? I burn Sage when I can. Also I burn Frankincense n Myyyr. I feel good when I burn Frankincense n Myyyr When I’m upset. It takes away my Anxiety it does. But things are not Changing for my Wife n myself! I live with a Stranger now my children are on Drugs the person doing this Mochs me in my Dreams. She has my Pictures was Brought up as a Child Doing Hoo Doo Magic and is also a Reilki Master! I Pray Everyday! All Day Long! How can I Stop this. I can’t leave my Home my Family no Matter What! I’m not going to Give in to them! What can I do Mrs Tess? It’s Spyhological Killing my Wife n Myself!
Ted, if you’re at a point where you’d like to contact a professional, I can recommend Crescent City Conjure. Here’s their website: https://crescentcityconjure.us/
Have you ever heard of a mother latching on to her daughter. A really really selfish and self indulgent woman i feel is absolutely sucking the light from her own daughter. She has this very strong “ive paid my dues” “the universe owes me” personality. And i feel like she is taking from her child. Its absolutely horrible that i feel this way but i do. Her daughter is not as pretty as she once was her hair is falling out she cant stop gaining weight and many many doctors say nothing is medically wrong these things r just happening. Mean time her mother looks youthful. And this woman has a bad smell only me and her daughter seem to notice. Have you ever heard of such things? We just want to cut any ties that may exist incase this is really happening.
Hi Nell! I have certainly heard of overbearing parents and I would not rule out some sort of negative energetic situation. In any case, if the daughter wants to cut ties for any reason, it would be appropriate. Regardless of family ties, if we are being mistreated by ANYONE, we are allowed to take care of ourselves be removing ourselves from the situation.
Hi my name is Jonte and I have a problem I have been dealing with for going on 9 years and I am on a fixed income and don’t have alot of money. I have reached out to people and no one can seem to help. I keep getting harassed by demons and I actually feel them attaching to me. Do you think you could take a look and see what is going on? Is there anything you could do to help me? Or maybe point me in the right direction? Thanks…
Jonte, do you have health insurance? Many health insurances cover mental health, and you might want to look into it to see if you can get therapy through your health insurance. I also recommend keeping your home clutter free and doing this meditation every day: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/ . Once you clear all clutter, this post will help you keep your space energetically clear: https://tesswhitehurst.com/how-to-clear-the-energy-in-your-home-in-5-simple-steps/
Hi Tess,
I’ve been looking for ways to rid myself of a curse or hex I believe has been placed on me. In 2016 I started a new job at the end of the year I always dressed in nice heels, clothes, jewelry, and my hair was always done. I loved looking beautiful as any woman would and heels was especially my thing. My mother always told me not to show off too much because people will envy any little thing. Now there was an older woman who had been going through a divorce and we both became acquaintances. I used to give her rides to her sons job after work and we would talk about her divorce and her knee injury she had years earlier. She was a sweet woman that gave off an odd vibe. I would tell my mom about her and she said to stay away from her and she was right. Later on we had a falling out after she had tried involving me into drama she stirred up at work. We never spoke after that and she had started spreading rumors. Later on I had gotten my own apartment and all of a sudden things went downhill from there. I had lost my job due to the department shutting down. Luckily I was immediately hired onto a company that was close to my old job. I was there for a few months then lost my job again then was hired to start as a contractor through an agency. Things were looking up for me finally. I used to go hiking a lot to pass time when the worse day of my life happened. I broke my ankle the week before I was supposed to start my new job. To make matters worse the day after my surgery the agency decided to end my contract. For 3 months the father of my kids had helped me with the kids. They were still in daycare until my parents had snapped and took the car away from me (it was in their name). We had no transportation for anything and his car had broken down. That month in December my daughter had slipped in the bathtub during bathtime and ended up cracking her skull. She had to get surgery and me being immobile I struggled in the hospital because her father worked nights. After all that I finally healed was able to walk and ended up getting a condo with my brother. I had just started a new job got furniture and everything was great so I thought. I ended up losing my job got another job to only last 2 weeks then got another job to last 3 months to get another job that I was sure to stay. I stayed at my most recent job for 4 months in a different position and they were cutting hours so they moved me to another position. I was barely starting training and I was so excited to start fresh. The third day I got in a car accident that ended up being a total loss. I got fired for missing too many days keeping up with Doctors appointments. Now I’m finding out the screws in my ankle have broken and there’s a chance of another surgery. I talk to the father of my kids and he says it’s life but I don’t feel like it’s life because I know my life it’s never been this bad. I’m going job after job and when things go good I try not to get too excited and expect the worse to come. I feel like I’m cursed by my ex coworker but I can never tell, it could be anybody. I apologize if this is long I’m just at my wits end. What should I do to protect myself and my kids from this?
Does one of the suggestions in this post call to you more than the others? If so, I suggest doing that one. Otherwise, follow the directions in the post to find the one that will be most effective for you.
Hello my name is Deanna. Years ago when i was a teenager, i was at the train station and pick up some change that was strategically placed. Since then i have had nothing but financial problems. How can i reverse this curse on me. Thank you
Deanna, do any of the hex/curse breakers in this post appeal to you?