Many survivors of sexual abuse are feeling especially triggered right now: myself included.
That’s why I wanted to speak out about it and share some of the healing and protective tips and tools that have helped me along my healing journey.
Did this video encourage you or help you feel less alone? Please share your thoughts in the comments.
This is some magic I wrote to help myself and it involves flowers ?
The Innocent
Tuberose please,
With your Magic & Energy,
My throat do purify & ease.
Remove all guilt & shame,
Clear my good name,
I was not to blame.
I was but a child,
Innocent, not wild,
Taken by force & defiled.
Cast into the wilderness,
A world without tenderness,
I grew up in aggressiveness.
I hid my tears,
In this World of fears,
Alone & afraid through my formative years.
Living in denial,
No way for a Trial,
Memories lost to Trauma & youth,
No evidence, no proof,
My body’s memories,
The only Truth.
Bless this Innocent child.
Corvine
Beautiful, Corvine! Thank you so much for sharing.
Wow Tess, what a beautiful and so very brave message ! You always look so happy and chearful; and now you are brave and kind enough to share such a delicate pain. I wish you lots of love and light and joy, Blessed Be.
Elisabeth, thank you for your lovely comment. Love, light, joy, and A Blessed Be to you as well. 🙂
Sweet Tess, you’re such a brave woman! Blessings!
Thank you, Raquel! Blessings to you too.
My name is Sonya..I am a survivor of both sexual, and domestic abuse…I am ready to tell my story…
Sonya, I sincerely hope that you have found the support you need.
Hi, i’am Sandalee. I have too been a victim of serious DV perpetrated by my husband. I recently found out that my husband of less the three years sexually abused my two little boys his biological children and his older son also my step-son. I have learnt he chose me due to my background in child protection and because Iam such an empathic person. Right now I feel stronger but for the last week since finding out the police removed him from the home and there is an AVo in place. My concern is that this man if you can call him that I feel he is demonic. I have chose to do a binding spell on him. I also regularly put a white or blue halo around our home. I fear he may come back as he has a key so I’ve been barracading the back door. Every thing I stood for every bit of good in me this man has purposely stained with his evil sick intent. My innocent little boys eyes tell the story I did not bear witness to. I feel so angry as the police and Facs are taking their sweet time. Any suggestions for me and our family who are grieving and dealing with more and more disclosures each day and ongoing sexualised behaviours from the kids now he is gone. 1000 pieces of the puzzle are slowly coming together. I hope no one ever has to go through this heartache.
Sandalee
Sandalee, this is devastating. I’m so sorry you and your family are going through this. Can you move to a new home and keep your new address a secret? Have you gotten a restraining order? Are you working with any supportive people who are experts in dealing with this sort of crisis?