Open the door to romance, magnetize a new love, or call in a life partner with one of these fun and effective love spells.
Love, hail and welcome! In this post, you’ll find classic love spells: spells to magnetize the love you desire.
This is an excerpt from my book, Little Guide to Love Magic: Everything You Need to Know, Including Love Spells.
Love Spell #1: Open the Door to Romance
If you haven’t been in the dating world for a while and you’re ready now to open the door to some new possibilities, this is the spell for you. It’s a great way to declare to yourself and the cosmos that while you may not be ready for any big commitments just yet, you are ready to call some joyful new activity into your love life.
You will need these items:
- Rose incense and an incense holder
- A peach moonstone pendant (Any style and price range you prefer will work.)
On the morning of a new moon, bathe or shower and dress in something clean that feels good on your body. Safely light the rose incense on your love altar, and bathe the pendant in the smoke. Then extinguish the incense.
While holding the pendant in your left hand, open your front door as far as it will go (and if there’s anything limiting its full range of movement, remove it). Stand precisely on the threshold, so you are neither completely inside nor completely outside of your home. Say:
I open my heart to the playful potential for love. I welcome sweetness. I welcome fun. I call in romantic attention and welcome in the new.
Leaving the door wide open, step just outside of it. Hang the pendant around your neck. With the door still open, step just inside the door as you gesture inward as if you are welcoming in houseguests. As you do this, feel that you are inviting fun, new romantic opportunities into your life.
Wear the pendant regularly to magnetize the romantic attention you desire.
Love Spell #2: Call in a New Love
Perhaps you’ve heard friends and coworkers wax poetic about wanting to meet the one : meaning their one and only true love, soul mate, life partner, or twin flame.
But while many of us eventually meet someone we want to spend our lives with, the truth is that there are literally countless possibilities in the world for who that might be. When we talk about the one, we imply that there is only one destined partner out there for us, when there just may be millions of people we could potentially love to stay with for life. So why should we place those limits on ourselves?
And anyway, maybe you’d like to call in someone new to your life, but you’re not quite ready to sign up for a lifetime with anyone just yet. You can cross that bridge when you come to it, after all. If so, this spell is for you.
Gather these items:
- 6 pink or peach roses in a vase
- Scissors or garden shears
- Hair clips or pins
On the morning of a new moon, after bathing or showering, remove one rose from the vase. Waft it around your body as if you are brushing your aura (also known as your energy field) with the blossom. Say:
Great Goddess, thank you for bringing me a new love.
Snip most of the stem off the blossom, and either wear the flower in your hair or pin it to your lapel (or wear it in another creative way, if you prefer). At the end of the day, place the blossom near the base of a tree or in a yard waste bin.
Using the remaining flowers, repeat this process for the next five days.
If someone asks about your new accessory, you can say whatever you want: that you’re on a rose kick lately, that the scent relaxes you, or that fresh roses are all the rage on the runways in Paris this season. There’s only one thing you can’t say if you want the spell to work: that it’s for a love spell. Keep your love spell a secret.
Love Spell #3: Call in a Life Partner
When you’re good and ready to find someone special you can live it up with and settle down with, this spell will help.
You will need these items:
- A diffuser necklace (also known as an aromatherapy necklace or an essential oil necklace—i.e., a pendant made for holding essential oil)
- Neroli essential oil
On a Friday when the moon is full or in the second quarter, take the items outside someplace safe where you won’t be disturbed, and gaze up at the moon.
Feel yourself soaking in the magic of the moonlight. Then speak or whisper words to the moon about the life partner you are calling in. Be sure to talk about your general wishes for your relationship and how you will feel in your relationship, rather than about specific traits you think your partner should have, such as their hair color or what they do for a living. (It’s best to dial into the vibration of how you want to feel, and leave the details up to the universe.)
As an example, the following words would be appropriate for this spell:
Great Goddess, Divine Feminine, beloved Mother Moon, I’m now calling in a life partner. I’m calling in someone I love and who loves me. I’m calling in someone intelligent, funny, and fun. I’m calling in someone who has a successful career that he (or she/they/etc.) is passionate about. We are wildly attracted to each other. We laugh a lot. We listen to each other and are kind to each other. We respect each other as equals. We have fun together. We support each other in our personal evolution. We go on fun adventures and vacations together that we both appreciate. We are more perfect for each other than I could have ever imagined. I am endlessly astounded by what a great fit we are. We live a life we love. Thank you.
Be sure to feel all the joy and expansion of having this person as a life partner, as if they were already present in your life. Feel gratitude.
Add the neroli essential oil to the necklace. (Each necklace should come with instructions for how many drops to use.) Hang it around your neck.
Wear the necklace until you realize you have met your life partner, refreshing the scent as needed.
For lots more love spells, and for everything you need to know about practicing love magic effectively, check out Little Guide to Love Magic: Everything You Need to Know, Including Love Spells.
Do you plan to try one of these love spells? Or do you have any questions about them? Please speak up in the comments below!
Oh! And the only thing about the other diffuser thing that was sent to me as a bonus, is that it’s not a necklace it’s a ring the first one was a necklace this one is a ring. Is that ok? Will it still work with a diffuser ring? Was the spell just angry because I did it in the wrong moon phase? Hahahah 😀 xoxoxo
Also, if doing it with a ring is just as good, the ring I found won’t arrive until this Thursday or Friday. But it’s still a waning moon. Will it still work if I do it this Thursday or Friday under the waning moon? (It will still be around 30 to 20% the moon on Thursday and Friday this week.) would that still work?
Hi Sumarah! No, I’d wait until the moon is 2nd quarter-full.
Hello, would it be just as effective if I could use a diffuser ring 💍 on my index finger? Sleeping with a necklace on is something I have never been able to do. I would love to do the partner for life spell. Do you have a suggestion on Amazon that will arrive in time for a diffuser ring size 6 and 1/2? Thank you 🙏🏼
Hi Sumarah! Sure, you can use a diffuser ring. I don’t have any special knowledge about any particular diffuser rings, though.
Like this calling in a life partner spell. If you don’t don’t find a life partner in a month, do you keep wearing it do you keep wearing it for a year? do you keep wearing it for 10 years? What do you think?
I would follow your intuition, but I’d probably try something else if it didn’t work after a month. Did you see this post? https://tesswhitehurst.com/3-spells-to-clear-the-way-for-love/
Right on:). That makes sense. Thank you xo :)))))))))
And oh I’m going to look now thank you :). Xoxoxox
Great! No problem.
I would like to use the calling in life partner spell. I have to say though. I used the other spell for “attracting the One” last year.
And I met someone wonderful at the very end of the spell. Then things became absolutely terrible. He left. I might never see him again. And it was really really weird how it all happened. :/ I even tried the spell again after he left, and nothing happened at all. Since then, other weird, and terrible stuff has happened after using your spells. Like the perfect job spell. Oh there have been opportunities alright over this last month, but they’ve all ended suddenly. And in complete disaster. The next moon cycle will be beginning soon, and I don’t know what’s happening.
I’m literally so confused. I don’t blame you Tess. Not at all. I just wish I knew what in gods name am I doing wrong? Like when I say end in disaster, I mean like as if by magic, it’s deep, and incredibly sudden how fast things have tended to go south after they start to look WAY better all of a sudden. ♥️
Do you have any suggestions on what the heck I might be doing wrong that’s attracting the spell, (s,) to act this way with me?
I am really a positive person. But I felt like it was time to see if there’s anything I can do about this so stuff can start working for me the way it’s supposed to. I literally follow every direction you give to the letter. And I’m every way shape and form.
My former fiancé I attracted with the first calling in the one spell from last year, even did the entire blessing of our relationship with me. We did it together.♥️And it didn’t do anything. And if it did do something, maybe it’s what ever is going on with this strange glitch in my spell work.
I just would love to know what I’m doing wrong so I can fix it, and finally be successful with some of these spells💜♥️💚
Please let me know if there’s anything you can think of. I appreciate you Tess.
Gail, I’m so sorry you’ve been experiencing this! How is your clutter situation?
Pardon the drama of that one. Lol 😀 xoxoxo And I appreciate you Tess. Honestly, I knew you would know exactly what to do if I just let go of the oars a bit. :). And so thank you so much as always Tess. You are so lovely. 🙂
And you know, right before I read your comment just now, I was cleaning up my apartment a bit :). How incredible. :))))))))) Now, when you say clutter lovely Tess. 🙂 Hm. Definitely I know having everything put away and off the counters, floors, etc. folded, neat looking. I totally get this. But is there another level that you mean?
I also just placed flying star cures on the 28th. And finally got that together. 🙂 I have a place for everything, and I don’t hold on to anything I don’t use. I just moved, and I looooove my new home :). For sure I’m still feeling out where the best place for everything is. And some stuff I just know, ‘Is in one of the drawers.’ Hahahaha 😀 I’ve definitely gotten it down to, ‘this, or that, is definitely in that drawer.’ Hahaha 🙂
How would you suggest more specifically? 🙂 hugs
Hi Gail! It sounds like you’re pretty good with clutter, actually. Do you have any clutter hiding in storage anywhere, or in your parents’ basement, or anything like that? Digital clutter can also be a thing to clear, like old photos and emails. The other type of clutter I would look at is psychological: any old grudges, limiting beliefs, or unhealed wounds can act as blocks like physical clutter can. Not that the goal is to be 100% healed (because no one is), but just to see if there’s anything there that you can look at and heal at this time.
I hear this. And truth be told, I am sure there’s tons of stuff everywhere :D. You and I know, that when your life gets big- it just gets bigger, and bigger. And better, and better, all the time. Definitely there’s no basement. My mother has transitioned since I was 19. And my father has moved several times. Though there is definitely storage somewhere of life before. And I am sure there’s tons of emails, and everything. I definitely have old items, very valuable things that people have given me. Boyfriends, things like that. Though, I have cleansed and regularly cleanse in several different ways all these things so that I can use them . Though of course. Lol I wonder. 🙂 Exactly what it could be, woweee. 🙂 I don’t know if I could truly know. Mmmmgahhh. Lol :)♥️💚. Is there anything that just, “Clears all?” No matter what it could be, or where?
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🤗💍💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🙌🏽💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🎶✨🌈. Thank you so much phenomenal Tess. 🙂
Hi Gail! Have you read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up? My other favorite is Clear Your Clutter With Feng Shui. They both help you learn how to discern what to keep and what to get rid of.
Thank you so much wonderful TEsS I will definitely read them :). Also, fun thing, what happens when your “diffuser necklace” breaks? 😀 I did that spell for finding a Devine partner, and a few days ago, out of nowhere, my very secure necklace, broke, the top came off, and the pad with the oil on it departed too. Lol
I didn’t even notice actually that it happened until the next day. Granted, I did the spell a bit early than what you recommend, and I have another diffuser situation that came with the necklace:). Should I just do it at the right time, the full moon 🌕 comming up? Or does the fact that it broke, mean that I have already met my Devine partner? I am seeing someone right now, and we have loved eachother for a long time. 🙂 we have gotten more serious as of recently since this spell, and we are talking about marriage lol 😂 incredible:D what do you think? 🙂
Hi Gail! No the spell will not be angry, and it sounds like it’s already working. You can do it over if you want, but you could also just start using the ring instead. What does your intuition say?
You are so much fun Tess hahahaha :D. And thank you so much :)x . And awesome. I’m going to do it again then on full moon in 2 days like the instructions say then. :). I also did the clear the way for love bath a few weeks ago actually:). With the patchouli, and white rose. 🙂 And actually, while we’re here, and since you’re the best, 😀 I wanted to ask you if the bath still worked, even though I let the water out before I took out the petals lol. But I have a drain that doesn’t allow them to be washed away, and I did complete all other steps. Like I did collect the petals, and scatter them accordingly :). Lol I know I ask you the silliest questions. 😀 And I really appreciate you answering them, and always being so nice. 😀 xoxoxoxox
And yeah actually! It does feel like it’s working honestly! I definitely have been going through some kind of major detox these last few weeks. Like, I’ve been able to quit smoking, then I had that wonderful date with the guy I told you about :). And he’s texted me a few times since :D. He even texted me yesterday:).
He was super sweet. And definitely some things have been leaving my life for the best, my skin is clearing up, and he has even been sweet during the not so easy parts of this detox. Which is really incredible. I’m excited to see what happens when I do this spell correctly in a few days. I feel like it’s going to be so much more powerful. 😀
Oh! And get this. 😀 So, yesterday I was taking a bath and I like to bring my crystals with me. Recently I did a body scan with my spooky2 rife machine, and some tens pads. And I have been running the results all week long, it’s been running on remote for 187 hours at this point:D. And then I have a detox maintenance program running through my Radionics machine, with dials set to 369. 🙂
Anywhy. Here is the neat part :D. I like to look at my scan results to see what frequencies my body can use a little more of. And there were 3 that stuck out. One was love, the other was abundance, and the last one was…
Clear quartz. Yeah 😀
Ok. Back to the bath, I’ve been making it a point to bring the clear quartz from my job spell in to the bath with me since I saw that :). As well as my rose quartz Crystal eggs. Because, well rose quartz, love, yada. Hahaha 😀
Well yesterday for the first time in this way ever, I picked up my clear quartz, and it had split! 😀 it wasn’t really a bad split it was just the bottom of the pyramid flat part. 🙂 so now I just have one flat part and one pyramid part and it’s not really that big of a deal. But it felt like something was different. Hahaha and I’m not entirely sure that the bottom wasn’t glued onto the top part. But it doesn’t appear to have been glued. I’m about 99% on this :D.
Well I looked it up and saw that if a crystal breaks that you used in a spell and put an intention in it means the intention has manifested. I was like woahhhhhh. 😀 What do you think about that? 😀
Actually this is the last thing, but I wanted to tell you about this too. 🙂 Because I just remembered it. A couple of weeks ago when I went on that date with the guy I mentioned to you, ( where he came to my work to see me sing, etc, so much fun, rainbows, diamonds, love, awesomeness etc. 😀 xoxoxoxo) I did a clearing with my pendulum in the tub while getting ready. (A lot of my best stuff comes right out of tub time for me I have the most fabulous tub in my new house hahaha :D. Anywhy.) 🙂 I did the pendulum clearing on myself, my guy, and my boss Teresa at church:). Just because it’s nice to have as many leg ups as possible for a phenomenal day, and a phenomenal performance. 🙂
As soon as I was done clearing the guy, (remotely I cleared my darling, and my boss lol :D,) but as soon as I was done, The string to my rose quartz pendulum BUSTS away from the stone! It was REALLY something:D. And it literally was like it just came alive practically there was no reason for it to have done that really. It was just really bizarre.
And then I told you about the other thing with the doing the spell again and the jewelry of that one breaking. What do you make of all this wonderful TEsS? 😀 xoxoxo And hugs thank you my friend as always:).
Gail, this is all so interesting! Yes, I think the stones hold the energy of your intention, and when they split, it’s like the energy is released because the intention has arrived. Not necessarily all cases, but in these cases, it sounds like that’s what happened. Love it. Thank you for sharing.
Oh my goodness YES! 😀 (Regarding the stones. :D) And oh wow. Ha. :D. Is it joining the cast of that tv show here in New York I have often toted about flirting with job wise, that takes place on the first day of the weekend you think? Because we’ve been in contact again actually:D
Oh and actually I just realize it says to do the spelling of Friday during the full moon or second quarter moon. So this full moon is on Monday, second quarter is definitely gonna be on Friday still right? Hahaha 😀 everybody went to sixth grade science except for me apparently 😀
Haha, yes, 2nd quarter is the quarter of the moon cycle that comes before full.