Purify yourself of negative energy and empower yourself to move forward in your life with these 5 simple rituals for cleansing, clearing, and unblocking.
If you’re a little under the energetic weather, you want to get someone’s energy out of your field, or you just need to get your energy clear, these rituals can help.
(Also be sure to perform regular meditations like this one and to check out my book, Little Guide to Protection Magic.)
Remember: don’t panic. Never panic. Take a deep breath. Then take another one, and remember that you are the power in your own life. You absolutely have the ability to shift your own energy for the better.
Unblocker #1: The Lemon Cure
For the Lemon Cure, on the morning of a full moon, rise between sunrise and one hour after sunrise. Cut a lemon in half and sprinkle the top of each half with sea salt. Sweep your aura with one half and then the other half (sort of like you’re using an energetic lint brush about 6-12 inches away from your skin) and then place both halves face up on your altar. The next morning, again between sunrise and an hour after sunrise, discard the halves in a yard waste, trash, or compost bin. Then repeat the entire process with a new lemon. Repeat for 12 days straight to break any curse or hex.
Unblocker #2: The Saltwater Cure
If you feel intuitively drawn to the Saltwater Cure, draw a warm or hot bath. Add 1 cup epsom salt, 1 cup sea salt, and 1/4 cup baking soda and dissolve by stirring the water in a counterclockwise direction. Before you enter the water, hold your hands in prayer pose and say, “Divine Spirit, thank you for filling this water with vibrations of healing, purification, and love.” Visualize the water as filled and surrounded with blindingly bright white light. Then get in and soak for at least 40 minutes. Feel and sense that all negative or stuck energy is being broken by being neutralized and dissolved as you soak. And stay hydrated as you soak: be sure to have plenty of drinking water on hand.
Hex or Curse Breaker #3: The Angel Cure
Enlist angels to cleanse and unblock your energy with the Angel Cure. First, obtain a celestite crystal. Cleanse it by placing it in bright sunlight for 5-10 minutes. Hold it in both hands near your heart as you center your mind. Then say:
Archangel Michael, I call on you. Thank you for powerfully clearing and purifying me of any and all stuck or challenging energies. Archangel Haniel, I call on you. Thank you for attuning me to the frequencies of purity, harmony, and peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Blessed be. And so it is.
Keep the crystal with you for one full moon cycle to help dissipate all old or stuck energy completely. Purify it in the light of the sun every few days.
Unblocker #4: The Selenite and White Sage Cure
Selenite crystals and white sage are both powerful detoxifiers and can help clear old energetic patterns or vibrational debris related to personal or generational challenges. Using a selenite wand, sweep your energy field downward and outward, about 6-12 inches away from your skin. Then light a sage bundle so that it’s smoking like incense and thoroughly bathe your aura in the smoke by waving the sage around the around the outside of your body, again 6-12 inches away from your skin. Be very careful to catch any burning embers with a dish or a plate. Then safely extinguish the sage by sealing it in a jar.
Unblocker #5: The Rose Overdose Cure
Roses can help cleanse and unblock your energy because they have among the highest and purest vibrations of any living thing. For the Rose Overdose cure, draw a warm bath. Add 1/4 cup rose water and the petals from 12 white roses. Soak for at least 40 minutes. After you dry off, put 4 drops of rose flower essence under your tongue. (Please note that flower essences are very different than essential oils, as they are safe to take internally. In case you’re not familiar with the difference, here is an example of a rose flower essence.) Put another 4 drops under your tongue just before bed. Every day for the next 28 days, take 2 drops of rose flower essence under your tongue every morning upon waking and every evening just before going to sleep.
Not Sure Which One(s) to Choose?
Cut 5 small, equally-sized squares of paper. Now you’re going to draw simple representations of each cure. (Don’t worry if you’re not an artist – as long as you can recognize it, it’s fine.) On one, draw a lemon. On another, draw a simple wave to represent water. On the next, draw angel wings. The final two will be a leaf (to represent sage) and a rose.
Put them in a hat. Say a prayer for guidance, asking the Divine to show you which cure will most effectively unblock your energy. Without looking, use one hand to mix them around, and draw one.
Then, flip a shiny penny to see if it will be helpful for you to do an additional cure. If it’s heads, the answer is yes. If it’s tails, no. Choose up to three this way.
If you happen to choose any combination of the lemon, rose, and angel cures, do them in tandem: don’t wait a month and then start the next.
If you happen to choose both the saltwater and the rose, do the saltwater bath first. Then wait a full 24 hours before beginning the rose cure.
The selenite and white sage cure can be performed before (and on the same day as) any other cure.
Keep Calm and Stay Strong.
To bolster your energetic immunity in order to support the full release of the old energy, make sure to eat lots of healthy food, drink lots of water, and get plenty of sleep. And, as I mentioned above, it’s also a good idea to keep your energy clear and shielded with a meditation like this one.
And for lasting, holistic energetic well-being, I highly recommend reading my book, Little Guide to Protection Magic.
And remember: don’t panic! You’re going to be fine. You’ve got this.
You may also like 5 Simple and Powerful Protection Charms.
Aerie says
Hi, I am trying to find out information on breaking a hex from someone who is deceased now. It was from my grandmother who would tell me frequently that she put a hex on me to never have children. Joking or not, I’ve been trying to conceive for two years now with barely any success. How should I go about this? It is true she may have just been saying it, but she would claim to have put them on other people, including my mother (specifically to not have male children until she met the “right” man, and low and behold, I have a 2 year old half brother now at 25 years old). It is just a concern that maybe this is why i am struggling.
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi Aerie! I’m getting that the lemon cure (the first one on this post) will be helpful for you for this purpose.
Michie says
My aura is grey cobwebs and nobody can or will offer me any help.
Tess Whitehurst says
Michie, have you tried my aura cleansing meditation? https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/
Michie says
Thank you … I’m not sure it’s fixing anything but it does make me feel better
Alisia Adella says
you can olny be helped if you let help in
Yvette Ellison-Welsh says
Hi Ms Whitehurst,
I’ve been married almost 7 yrs. Before I married my husband, he had all the qualities you would want in a husband. It’s as if someone flipped a switch, & turned all that off when we got married, and I moved in to his house. We don’t sleep in the same room, 95% of the time when he speaks to me, it’s harshly, and disrespectfully, the rest of the time, we’re not speaking to each other. I’m miserable, I hate him for turning my life upside down. I have a strong feeling someone has a hand in the demise of my marriage, and I have a strong feeling who it is.
Tess Whitehurst says
Yvette, I’m so sorry to hear this. It sounds like you may want to do couples counseling, and if that doesn’t work, you may want to consider separating. You CAN empower yourself and heal your life so that you love it again.
Shadwin says
Hi I’m Shadwin. I’ve been having a rough life and everything I do doesn’t seem to be working out. Whenever I feel things are working out there’s this full stop that appears. And I don’t understand what’s causing it.
Tess Whitehurst says
Shadwin, I’m so sorry to hear it! I highly recommend the book The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. Maybe give it a try and see if it helps.
Liz says
Hi Tess, I am thankful to have found this page. I was suffering for 3 years now 2 yrs.ago i was confined and always doing the checkups because my body is in pain but the doctor said its all normal but i know something is not normal in me there are some changes in my body like weight loss, dull eye, my face looks different from before, skin color and always experiencing back pain and feeling there’s an insect in my face and head. A friend of mom thinks somebody put this magic on me a possible things i remember i had an argue before. I tell to my friend and she bring me to a faith healer the old woman told me there are two girls jealous of me and they want me to gone crazy plus a guy who dont want me to be with somebody else and want me to be ugly. don’t know what to do anymore how to deal anymore i want to get out of this i dont want to be lonely anymore. Wish you can help me
Tess Whitehurst says
Liz, I’m so sorry! This sounds challenging. I recommend the Lemon Cure.
Chair says
Hiya my mate is by far definitely cursed, bad things keep happening everyday, coincidences all the time, feeling as though she has been hit round back of the head and other people when they around, is there anything we can do at all? Please.
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi there! I recommend the Saltwater Cure (#2 in the post).
kayla says
Hi tess Whitehurst my name is Kayla and I am 17 years old. I know this may sound crazy but I’m not the kind of person who ever talks about this type of stuff but I know someone is giving me a hard time and I might be hit with a curse in my mind which is effecting everything including my thinking and everything else that I’m doing from a Hispanic girl and her friends that may be involved. You see it’s kind of a long story but I’m a senior in high school at eastern Guildford in Gibsonville, NC and I live in Mcleansville, NC I was a new student there last year when I was a junior me and my mom moved from Greensboro for a better place and I was ok with that since it was going to be new people I was being myself. I was riding a new bus 1062 the bus driver is nice and she is the only person who is nice. Anyway jumping to the situation that I’ve been dealing with I’m depressed acting out of character things just isn’t going my way and things aren’t right like it used to be. You see I was happy and I was in my own little world just thinking about a lot of things in my mind which is good for Me good things but I noticed I have had a hard time with negative people who are messing with me and this Hispanic girl particularly who have put a curse on my mind and blocked all of my thoughts and I am having a hard time concentrating. I just want to be happy again and if you can help me some how to get these negative people and the effects that they gave me inside of my head that might be beneficial to me . I may be also dealing with a short term memory loss I just can’t think anymore or be in my own little world. I am suffering of being bullied indirectly from these people and the Hispanic girl who has caused all of this. That’s it for right now thank you please help me if you can because that’s all I can think about this all the time.
Tess Whitehurst says
Kayla, I suggest that you carry or wear a clear quartz crystal point. Keep it cleansed regularly with sunlight and/or running water. Also, cut all added sugar and processed food out of your diet. Fresh, whole fruit is OK, but fruit juice is not. I also suggest that you eat lots of fruits and vegetables and take a high quality probiotic supplement every day. After at least a month of this, you will almost certainly feel a lot better, but keep it up.
John Yeo says
Hello Miss Whitehurst.
I am a 78 yr. old man who thinks he may have been cursed by his father–but I’m not sure. When I was 6 yrs. old my father was full of incessant hate and would kick me with his boots, all the while cursing me.
I have never been successful and have absolutely no desire left to do anything. I have lost everything, especially my daughter whom I loved very much. I am a good writer, but I always pick the wrong literary
agent and just end up doling out money for nothing. I have one self-published book that is out there, but I doubt that it will sell . . . and I am unsure whether to try and find a good, honest agent for my next book?
I hope and pray things will change for the better. I haven’t told you everything; there is not enough room here. I would love your opinion.
John
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi John! I’m so sorry to hear about your heartbreaks and challenges. It’s my sense that your relationship with your father definitely had an effect on your life, but that it’s not a curse precisely. Have you read You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay? If not, I highly recommend it.
Areley says
Hey my name is Areley and about 3 years ago I found this clear sealed bag with my hair in it and white rice and seem to be some time of spices or dirt in it too. I was told to not touch it with bare hands and to go throw it as far as possible away from home . So I did that, but till this day I don’t know what that really meant and idk if that’s what has affected my life so much that I always lose my stuff like last time I lost my wallet went back to the place where I lost it before getting off the car and into my home and they showed me the cameras and it shows how I got into my car with it so I looked all really good in my car but it’s not there either… I didn’t stop to get off anywhere else so I could have not lost it no where else, things like that happen to me a lot now and Or something good is happening in my life and then things turn bad..
Tess Whitehurst says
Areley, I suggest the Angel Cure from this post.
joshi says
hy tess,I stole from my struggling sis,and told me,I will live in agony and my children to come shall make my life nor peace,,pls what can I do
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi there! Did you make it right with your sister? Start by paying her back. Then if you feel you still need support, try the Angel Cure.
J says
Hi Tess. I have had awful luck since childhood, especially in obtaining the sole thing that I want. My oldest sister has expressed extreme jealousy of me since I was a child, because I had something she wanted (which happened to be the exact thing I have always wanted since I lost it after childhood). A few years later I lost that thing (it wasn’t tangible), and I worked extremely hard until I finally got it back by myself. But now, a year later, in a ridiculously illogical and rare turn of events, I have once again lost that thing. I have fairly bad luck in other areas of life, but it is this one area where I have the most inexplicably, unexpectedly horrific luck. I have spoken to professionals, friends, my parents, many of the things that happen to me that cause me to lose what I had have no reasonable explanation, and often completely baffle experienced professionals. And it is this exact thing that my sister has always been jealous of. She is definitely the type to be interested in magic, but she doesn’t practice it from what I know. Does this sound like a curse to you? What can I do? Will I be able to reverse the things that happened to make me lose what I had?
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi J! It doesn’t feel like a curse to me, but actually a karmic pattern that goes back from before this lifetime for you both. For now and to start, I suggest a daily cleansing and shielding meditation. It doesn’t have to be this one, but this is the type I mean: https://tesswhitehurst.com/quick-thorough-aura-cleansing-meditation/. After you’ve done something like this daily for at least a month, if you would like further guidance, feel free to connect with me again.
J says
I forgot to add…she has since gained the thing she was jealous of me for, and in the years that we both had it, she expressed no jealousy towards me, but the summer before I lost that thing, she again told my mother that she is still jealous of me for it, and it was about 6 months later that year that I lost it again, in a weird, incredibly illogical series of events. When I say illogical, I really mean it. It is true that experienced, educated professionals have been absolutely baffled by the things that have caused me to lose this thing, and have often said there is no possible way that this occurred. Actually, every time that she has expressed any jealousy or admiration of me having that thing, it seems that I have subsequently lost it within the year, despite having it for years on end before she speaks about it. This has happened at least 2 or 3 times. I believe only one of the times, out of maybe 4 or 5 times in all, that I lost it may not have been preceded by her commenting on it.
J says
Oh I just saw your reply, thank you.
Lynnz says
Long story short I have been experiencing heavy intuitions and feelings that feel and sound crazy but are incredibly amazing. Like thinking of a detailed situation and then it happens.. listing to my gut and following my thoughts led me from one thing to ano Th eat and bam here i am! It started after my aunt passing followed by My divorce of a 14 year relationship And it ended really bad. Anyways, here I am 2 years later and I have been told that a Very negative female energy had put a hex On my aunt and all the females in her family for Their love life for ever, Generation by generation. Help.. it kinda Makes sence and would explain a lot
Tess Whitehurst says
Lynnz, what kind of help are you asking for – a spell? If so, is there a spell in this post that appeals to you?
Jon doe says
Hello Tess I got married to a woman from the islands about 7 years ago..we divorced a year into the marriage..after I left one year later I started to hear her voice in my head..also I feel sharp pains in my body..to this day I am going threw the same thing..her voice beats me down says negative things..I’m thinking this maybe a curse or a hex.i do not no becuz I am not familiar with any of this..what I do know is that I e eaten her food and a pond me moving out of her place I’ve left something behind..how can I free myself..no one seems to understand
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi there. I suggest that you contact Sen Elias over at Crescent City Conjure. Here’s his website: https://crescentcityconjure.us
Jenny says
Hi pls ineed your help, put a spell on someone to dreamt about me, i put our names on a pink paper with my perfume, we broke up.so i erase our names on the paper but i kept on having bad dreams, pls help what to do to
Tess Whitehurst says
Hi Jenny! I suggest that you do the lemon cure from this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-awesome-ways-to-break-a-hex-or-a-curse/
Justin Richards says
Do you have to shill something with every answer or recommendation? Is that part of your policy?
cherina says
this very much sounds like ancestral healing being called for john. We are intimately linked to our fathers and forefathers, we carry their patters in our DNA. Perhaps you could invoke your fathers spirit if he has passed, or your grandfathers if not and make an offering, some tobacco or some food cooked that he used to enjoy. Its a good idea to leave it outside by a tree or flower/stone that means something to you. By feeding out ancestral lineage we create a connection with them to work through. He will help you.
Ana says
It may sound like torture but sit down with plenty of Kleenex and write your story, childhood and abuse. It will sell.