When you’re ready to call in your soul mate, this is the spell for you.
(This love spell is an excerpt from my book, Holistic Energy Magic. Like all the spells in Holistic Energy Magic, it requires no physical ingredients or tools.)
Working magic for attracting a partner must be done carefully. While of course we don’t want to attract just anyone, I am not a proponent of the old “make a list of every quality you want in a partner” technique, as the Universe (or the part of us that is one with everything) knows much, much better than our rational mind what partner will be perfect for us at any given time. We’re not ordering a pizza, after all; rather, we’re attracting a multifaceted, complex human being with an ineffable eternal essence! With that in mind, in this love spell you’ll begin by getting your vibration into a very clear and positive space because like attracts like, and then you’ll set the clear intention to allow the Universe to find you a partner who is ideal for you in every way.
Oh, and never ever do this or any spell to attract a partner while visualizing or naming a specific person, or prolonged misery for all concerned will certainly ensue.
Wake up before sunrise on the morning of a new moon. Go outside and face east. Just as the sun peeks above the horizon, say:
Feel the light of the sun blessing you with its gentle yet powerful energy.
The next morning, and every morning up until the morning of the full moon, as soon as you open your eyes in the morning (or at least sometime in the morning before you go about your day), feel sunlight shining on you and into your heart as you inwardly say:
Sun shines brightly into my heart.On the night of the full moon, go outside and gaze at the moon, basking in its gentle glow. Say:
Feel the receptive, mystical light of the moon bathing you and rendering you radiant and irresistibly magnetic.
Note that you may attract a number of potential partners after this ritual: don’t assume the first one that appears is the one. Instead, keep an open mind, honor the journey, and have fun!
…What did you think of this spell? Did it work for you?
I'm so excited, I preordered Holistic energy magic and it is on its way! Thank you for all your blog posts, books, and most of all your insight!
Oh cool, thank you so much for ordering the new book! I hope you enjoy. Thanks also for reading the blog and connecting. Happy new moon!
Only one question. When you say morning if the new moon do you mean
1 new moon all night morning after say the spell
Or
2 say the spell in the morning when you go to sleep that day it’ll be a new moon
Didn’t quite understand that bit
Mae, either way is great, but it’s more ideal if the moon has recently begun to wax. So technically the morning after the moment of the new moon. Does that make sense?
Hi Tess, I want do the spell but not sure if I should wait until next new moon or I can do it now? The recent new moon being on 7 December? Is it still the ideal time?
This upcoming Friday would be a great day for it.
Thank you Tess ,wish me luck!!!I’m 45 and haven’t had a partner since 2005,she left me for another man!I’ve never been married and have no kids, and I’m currently on a pension, we live in a material world, which concerns me as I feel I’ve got nothing to offer a lady,I was hoping to meet someone 25 to 30 years of age,my previous partner put me in a state of shock and suffered with chronic depression, for a decade, I found it hard to move on,I’ve moved on now,but feel helpless to find another sweet heart of my dreams! My ex partner was materialistic and compared me with over men who had better salary, I’m not a big sallery man,in fact I left school at 15,I wasn’t very good at school,I was working in supermarkets,I spent my wages supporting her for her university she left me on my 32nd birthday 2006!I could cope and experience homelessness in the UK, 2015 my mother bought me an air ticket ,and went home back to Australia, I look for work but haven’t had any luck to find employment! I helped my ex,she is married and has a child,as I heard and seen a photo on line!is this how the gods repay me!I’m lost for words! I’ve been to get help from psycolidist .I live hand to mouth in my flat,I pay rent,by food,but have no real saving!I’m so lonely, its hard to find employment and love in my situation, I got to the gym on a pention price, that the only excitement I have,I just keep fit,eat health y ,I first bed a women 28 years old that was my ex,2002 to 2006.I’ve been single since,I’m cursed I think!I want to make up for lost time,my ego was crushed !that’s why I feel to find someone 25 to 30!!!!or may be my time has run out,whilst I was at work ,my ex was having an affair, on my bed ,I didn’t know ,she was making me sleep in my bed for 7 month they were using it whilst I was at work!I hope their is a chance for me to find love again!
Peter, I’m so glad you’ve been taking care of your body and mind. Keep on healing yourself and being kind to yourself. That’s the best thing you can do.
Greetings Tess! I am so excited to experience the unfolding of my future beloved(s). I began the spell this morning (Feb. 15th) as it is the day of a new moon, but it was cloudy. I noticed an increase of bright pink upon the horizon as sunrise approached, went outside, spoke the words of the spell, while facing east towards the “sunrise” and felt it in my heart. Would this suffice, for those who wake up to a cloudy day? Thank you!
Vel, it sounds to me like you felt the magic, correct? It’s all about feeling, intention, and belief.
I definitely felt the MAGIC! That morning moment was sacred and beautiful. Intention and the showing-up-ness is definitely the key to any direct manifestation. I will continue to keep you posted as to who and whatever shows up! Thank you!!
Vel, how exciting! So glad you felt the magic.
Hello Tess, (And those who are reading this)!
As promised, I am following up with an update! After completing “the love spell to attract a divine partner”, I can wholeheartedly say………IT WORKS!!!
A week ago, I received a call from someone that I work with, who confessed his feelings for me over the phone! Right out of the blue……with no warning and it has caught me completely off guard! This may be constant for some, but for me, it rarely ever happens.
I am nagivgating through my feelings for him, and the fact that we work together, to see where this could lead. I am also leaving my heart and ears open for what else arises.
For anyone who doubts that this spell works – try it! But make sure to go at with an open heart. If you need to clear some energy, do so beforehand. Tess has some great spells that will assist you in the process.
Tess – Thank You for sharing these tools and for empowering us! I am definitely a fan and will be trying other spells!
Vel, so happy to hear it! Thank you for the update, and for the kind words.
Does this really work. I don’t want to waste my time and get my hopes up for happyniess.
Hi Alex! If it feels like it will be powerful for you and you think you would enjoy doing it, it will change your consciousness. Your consciousness is what creates and attracts your life experience. So the answer to your question is: it certainly **could** work for you. But only if you enjoy and trust in the process. If you’re not sure or you want to understand more about how magic works, you may find it helpful to watch my free Magic for Absolute Beginners video series. You can subscribe to it here: https://tesswhitehurst.com/landing-pages/your-magical-life-is-waiting/
You mentioned that we should never put a name when we are doing this spell.
What spell can I use for a relationship that is facing obstacles – I live in the US and he lives in another country. We both have an option to live where the other one is living but obstacles are blocking the path towards this.
How can I convince him that this obstacles are minor and everything is going to be alright and we should not give up on our love for each other.
Thank you.
Hi Stella! I don’t recommend using magic to “convince” someone of something, as this would likely entail overriding their free will. However, you can certainly do spell #5 in this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/ .
So I did the ritual a little over a week ago and I definitely felt it work (it was also cast on the flower moon) Then recently I met someone new I thought I was a result of it. Sadly she was not but no one else has showed up in my life. Have I missed it or do you have to be more patient.
Hi Nathan! Sounds like it was a little drop before the rain, opening you up energetically to an even better romance. I’d hang in there and see what happens next.
I cast the spell on the most recent flower moon and I definitely felt it work a couple days later I met someone who I believed was the result of it and they turned out not being that. How long does it usually take for the effects to take hold. I’m used to sigils where their effects are their within a day or so but it being such a long ritual I’m not to sure.
I love this idea! So refreshingly different from the spells that have you list every possible detail that you can think of that you might want your future partner to have. Something about that makes me feel just a little uncomfortable – how can you be *sure* that those are the qualities that you want/need? What if there’s something better out there for you that you couldn’t even imagine on your own? I feel like I would rather be pleasantly surprised by all the potential that the Universe has in store and let the relationship organically unfurl on its own. And I love that the spell is more geared towards preparing yourself for love when it comes along, rather than demanding for love to come to you ASAP. This is exactly what I’m looking for, can’t wait to try it. Thank you!!
Yay Hannah! Yes, I feel exactly the same. Thanks for letting me know you like the spell – have fun with it!
Thanks for sharing this post and insight. Could you please explain a little and give examples of “looking into the dark places and facing your pain.”
Sure. When you’re in a relationship, for example, you will likely face insecurities, such as trust or jealousy issues. In such cases, you will need to have challenging conversations, feel heartache, and even cry. It can hurt, but it will help you ultimately heal issues that have been around for a long time. Does this answer your question?
Yes, well answered. Thanks.
Other questions
1. would she have to face same challenges ?
2. How would you finally come into conclusion of the final dive partner?; as you would be coming across few potential partners before the actual.
3. What should we expect as the relationship ends with the initial potential partner? Fight, pain misunderstanding, and what or we would happily depart from each other in peace without any pain.
Thanks
Hey! Was wondering if the morning of a new moon means the morning before the new moon rises or the morning after it has risen? Thanks so much!
Good question! The morning after it has risen will be most ideal.
Will this work if you are gay, bi or any or part of the lgbtq+ community. Also I’m really excited to try this. It feels more right than MAKING one person fall in love with basically against their will
Of course this spell is for all genders and orientations!
Thank you! I have been working on the spell and the full moon is today or tomorrow, I can’t remember. But anyways, I’m really excited to see what happens and I will keep you updated. Thank you for providing us with this amazing opportunity
I THINK I FELT A VERY SMALL DROP BEFORE THE STORM!!! So today I was at the park where I usually just mind my own buisness and no one notices me, but today, this cute guy was checking me out! Is this a sign that its working??
I’d say so! Great job noticing the energy flowing. What you focus on expands.
Well thanks because if this is the start, i cant wait to see what this spell brings my way. And I’m really excited to meet my soulmate!! I know this spell works and for anyone who has their doubts, it works, I can confirm.
TESS NOW I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Is it possible that the spell is working a bit too well? I got asked out by 3 guys in one week (Sunday, Monday, Thursday)
Haha, yes: that can happen. It’s a good sign. Enjoy the process of discovery. 🙂
The spell definitely works. I’m yet to meet my divine partner, but I had a whole army of people ( friends, distant family, acquaintances) tell me they loved me and they cared. But most importantly I’ve finally let go of stuff and learnt to love me! For who I am. You can’t attract love, if you don’t think you’re worthy of it. The universe knows best what we need. You just need to trust. Now, I’m truly ready for love. Thank you 🙏
Woohoo, Marta! You’re feeling the magnetic energy. Brightest blessings of Divine Love to you.
Good morning Madam.
I casted this particular spell for divine partner about 2 month ago but my divine partner hasn’t shown up yet.
Two weeks ago a Lady friend of my ask if am in love with her and I replied yes. I ask of her interest and also replied that she is looking up to me but just few days later it seems she doesn’t want to entertain me any longer
I have being dating a Lady whom I do not love even though she crazily in love with me. I have made it known to her my heart is not with her and she has back off a bit.
I did the spell at dawn, 2 days before the new moon physically appear in the sky and that is the new moon according to internet “moon phases calendar” which records it’s new moon 2 days before the new moon physically appear in the sky.
And that Dawn the sun did not physically appear when I did it due to an internet timing for Sun rise.
Please I want to cast it again this time around seeing the sun and moon physically.
Warm regards.
Hi there Ab! Yes, feel free to repeat. Also, I’d break it off with the woman you don’t love to make room for the woman you do. (And also out of respect for her, so she will have more time and energy to connect with someone who feels the same way about her.)
Hi Tess the new moon started on January 6th can I still start this tomorrow ? Thanks
Hi Brittany! Sorry I missed this yesterday. Yes, this morning would have worked, but now maybe wait until the next new moon.
Okay thank you Tess! I’ll be back with an update 🙂
Can i do this now? What time in the morning would be ideal 6am?
Anthony, you will need to check the sunrise times in your area via a weather site or Google.
Okay i am going to do this real soon i will let you know how it goes.
Hi Tess, I completed the Spell tonight on the libra Full moon and I was wondering if I can do this spell again on the next new moon as well?
Hi Shreya! Well you certainly may, but you probably don’t need to, and it may lessen the power somewhat.
I am hung up on a previous ex who I think is the one, I’m trying to get over her and I don’t want to accidentally focus my energy on her. Any tips for keeping my kind clear while doing this?
John, yes, maybe do this meditation for a while before you do a love spell: https://tesswhitehurst.com/cord-cutting-meditation/
Way to excited to start this. I just found out that the new moon startes at the end of this month and the next full moon is on Friday the 13th ( always been my luckiest days ). That has to be a sign.
Hello dear Tess, I wanted to ask you, you said yourself to never think of a specific person while doing a love spell or do a spell to attract a certain person, does this also count with someone you have never personally met face to face?
I actually did cast a spell to make someone fall for me, this was before I found your website, and this person is someone that doesn’t know me, and we never met, but I have certainly fallen for him.
What do you think about this? I don’t know what to do, since I really have feelings for this person.
Hi Amy! I don’t recommend doing love spells on anyone specific, whether or not you have met them. I suggest releasing any charms or anything physical you have left over from the spell and setting the intention to release this person from any effects of the spell you have cast.
Hey Tess, I am curious, if i use candles or some sort of materials, will that spoil the spell?
I usually use herbs and candles for my spells and this is kinda new to me.
Hi! You can use candles and herbs if you intuitively feel like it.