Here’s a love spell for you! But first, let me just say…
Having a divine partner in your life is fun, nourishing, and rewarding…and it’s no joke. It calls up all your “stuff” so that you have the opportunity to look at it, heal it, let go of it, and become stronger and more yourself than you otherwise could have been. It’s a lifelong challenge and a lifelong joy. What I’m getting at here is that you have to be ready – not just for roses and chocolates, but also for looking into the dark places and facing your pain.
…So are you? Does the idea fill you with a joyful thrill, even if it also feels a little intimidating at the same time? Sort of like the idea of skydiving, or traveling to a foreign locale by yourself? If so, it might just be the right time to send out a magical invitation to that special someone, wherever and whoever he or she may be. (Remember, it’s important for your magical intentions to be filled with authentic inspiration and enthusiasm.)
This coming Monday is the new moon, so I thought I’d share this ritual (from Holistic Energy Magic) now so that you have the weekend to consider, clear your mind, and steady your heart.
Here it is:
Working magic for attracting a partner must be done carefully. While of course we don’t want to attract just anyone, I am not a proponent of the old “make a list of every quality you want in a partner” technique, as the Universe (or the part of us that is one with everything) knows much, much better than our rational mind what partner will be perfect for us at any given time. We’re not ordering a pizza, after all; rather, we’re attracting a multifaceted, complex human being with an ineffable eternal essence! With that in mind, in this ritual you’ll begin by getting your vibration into a very clear and positive space because like attracts like, and then you’ll set the clear intention to allow the Universe to find you a partner who is ideal for you in every way.
Oh, and never ever do this or any spell to attract a partner while visualizing or naming a specific person, or prolonged misery for all concerned will certainly ensue. (Was that warning emphatic enough to dissuade you? I hope so! I like to think my magical mistakes of the past were good for something!)
Wake up before sunrise on the morning of a new moon. Go outside and face east. Just as the sun peeks above the horizon, say:
Feel the light of the sun blessing you with its gentle yet powerful energy.
The next morning, and every morning up until the morning of the full moon, as soon as you open your eyes in the morning (or at least sometime in the morning before you go about your day), feel sunlight shining on you and into your heart as you inwardly say:
On the night of the full moon, go outside and gaze at the moon, basking in its gentle glow. Say:
Feel the receptive, mystical light of the moon bathing you and rendering you radiant and irresistibly magnetic. Note that you may attract a number of potential partners after this ritual: don’t assume the first one that appears is the one. Instead, keep an open mind, honor the journey, and have fun!
I'm so excited, I preordered Holistic energy magic and it is on its way! Thank you for all your blog posts, books, and most of all your insight!
Oh cool, thank you so much for ordering the new book! I hope you enjoy. Thanks also for reading the blog and connecting. Happy new moon!
Only one question. When you say morning if the new moon do you mean
1 new moon all night morning after say the spell
Or
2 say the spell in the morning when you go to sleep that day it’ll be a new moon
Didn’t quite understand that bit
Mae, either way is great, but it’s more ideal if the moon has recently begun to wax. So technically the morning after the moment of the new moon. Does that make sense?
Greetings Tess! I am so excited to experience the unfolding of my future beloved(s). I began the spell this morning (Feb. 15th) as it is the day of a new moon, but it was cloudy. I noticed an increase of bright pink upon the horizon as sunrise approached, went outside, spoke the words of the spell, while facing east towards the “sunrise” and felt it in my heart. Would this suffice, for those who wake up to a cloudy day? Thank you!
Vel, it sounds to me like you felt the magic, correct? It’s all about feeling, intention, and belief.
I definitely felt the MAGIC! That morning moment was sacred and beautiful. Intention and the showing-up-ness is definitely the key to any direct manifestation. I will continue to keep you posted as to who and whatever shows up! Thank you!!
Vel, how exciting! So glad you felt the magic.
Hello Tess, (And those who are reading this)!
As promised, I am following up with an update! After completing “the love spell to attract a divine partner”, I can wholeheartedly say………IT WORKS!!!
A week ago, I received a call from someone that I work with, who confessed his feelings for me over the phone! Right out of the blue……with no warning and it has caught me completely off guard! This may be constant for some, but for me, it rarely ever happens.
I am nagivgating through my feelings for him, and the fact that we work together, to see where this could lead. I am also leaving my heart and ears open for what else arises.
For anyone who doubts that this spell works – try it! But make sure to go at with an open heart. If you need to clear some energy, do so beforehand. Tess has some great spells that will assist you in the process.
Tess – Thank You for sharing these tools and for empowering us! I am definitely a fan and will be trying other spells!
Vel, so happy to hear it! Thank you for the update, and for the kind words.
Does this really work. I don’t want to waste my time and get my hopes up for happyniess.
Hi Alex! If it feels like it will be powerful for you and you think you would enjoy doing it, it will change your consciousness. Your consciousness is what creates and attracts your life experience. So the answer to your question is: it certainly **could** work for you. But only if you enjoy and trust in the process. If you’re not sure or you want to understand more about how magic works, you may find it helpful to watch my free Magic for Absolute Beginners video series. You can subscribe to it here: https://tesswhitehurst.com/landing-pages/your-magical-life-is-waiting/
You mentioned that we should never put a name when we are doing this spell.
What spell can I use for a relationship that is facing obstacles – I live in the US and he lives in another country. We both have an option to live where the other one is living but obstacles are blocking the path towards this.
How can I convince him that this obstacles are minor and everything is going to be alright and we should not give up on our love for each other.
Thank you.
Hi Stella! I don’t recommend using magic to “convince” someone of something, as this would likely entail overriding their free will. However, you can certainly do spell #5 in this post: https://tesswhitehurst.com/5-karma-friendly-alternatives-to-putting-a-love-spell-on-someone/ .
So I did the ritual a little over a week ago and I definitely felt it work (it was also cast on the flower moon) Then recently I met someone new I thought I was a result of it. Sadly she was not but no one else has showed up in my life. Have I missed it or do you have to be more patient.
Hi Nathan! Sounds like it was a little drop before the rain, opening you up energetically to an even better romance. I’d hang in there and see what happens next.
I cast the spell on the most recent flower moon and I definitely felt it work a couple days later I met someone who I believed was the result of it and they turned out not being that. How long does it usually take for the effects to take hold. I’m used to sigils where their effects are their within a day or so but it being such a long ritual I’m not to sure.
I love this idea! So refreshingly different from the spells that have you list every possible detail that you can think of that you might want your future partner to have. Something about that makes me feel just a little uncomfortable – how can you be *sure* that those are the qualities that you want/need? What if there’s something better out there for you that you couldn’t even imagine on your own? I feel like I would rather be pleasantly surprised by all the potential that the Universe has in store and let the relationship organically unfurl on its own. And I love that the spell is more geared towards preparing yourself for love when it comes along, rather than demanding for love to come to you ASAP. This is exactly what I’m looking for, can’t wait to try it. Thank you!!
Yay Hannah! Yes, I feel exactly the same. Thanks for letting me know you like the spell – have fun with it!
Thanks for sharing this post and insight. Could you please explain a little and give examples of “looking into the dark places and facing your pain.”
Sure. When you’re in a relationship, for example, you will likely face insecurities, such as trust or jealousy issues. In such cases, you will need to have challenging conversations, feel heartache, and even cry. It can hurt, but it will help you ultimately heal issues that have been around for a long time. Does this answer your question?
Yes, well answered. Thanks.
Other questions
1. would she have to face same challenges ?
2. How would you finally come into conclusion of the final dive partner?; as you would be coming across few potential partners before the actual.
3. What should we expect as the relationship ends with the initial potential partner? Fight, pain misunderstanding, and what or we would happily depart from each other in peace without any pain.
Thanks