The 9 Best Feng Shui Tips for Love and Romance

Attract more love and romance with these 9 simple feng shui tips. Transform your space — and your heart — starting today.

Love is an energy — and like all energy, it can be invited, nurtured, and amplified. Feng shui, the ancient Chinese art of harmonizing your environment, offers some beautifully practical ways to do exactly that. Whether you’re calling in a new relationship, deepening an existing one, or simply opening your heart to more joy, your home can be one of your greatest allies. These easy-to-implement feng shui practices are surefire ways to create an environment that supports and enhances your love life.

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Feng Shui Romance Tip #1: Reduce Clutter in the Bedroom

Clearing clutter is always a good idea. And, feng shui teaches that if you want to create a romantic atmosphere, it’s extra important to clear clutter from the bedroom.

So, if you can, choose another room for your books, knickknacks, vitamins, appliances, workout equipment, and any other items that contribute to a chaotic and non-romantic vibe. (If you can’t, store them so they’re out of sight.)

Additionally, if you can manage, don’t store anything under the bed. If you stuff it under the bed, it might be out of sight, but it still has an effect on the vibe. Trust me: you can feel it. When there’s nothing under the bed, the energy flows in a simpler and more harmonious way.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #2: Create the Space for Two

Feng shui teaches us to create the space for what we desire.

So whether or not you currently live with a partner, incorporate as many romantic and partner-friendly design choices as possible. If you’re in a relationship, this promotes harmony and orchestrates beautiful moments for togetherness. If you’re not in a relationship, this will help magnetize one.

For example, it’s ideal for your bed to comfortably accommodate two: this means a large enough bed, two nightstands, and space on both sides of the bed so no one has to climb over the other.

If you have a patio, two comfy deck chairs or a cozy outdoor loveseat would be fantastic.

Also consider a cozy dining spot for two.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #3: Get Family Photos OUT of the Bedroom

You know what doesn’t create the space for romance? A photo of your mom. Or your brother. Or your kids.

Don’t worry: you can go ahead and have these photos any old place you like…except the bedroom.

If you have empty spaces on your nightstands where your photos used to be, consider candles, floral decor, or Himalayan salt lamps.

Speaking of Himalayan salt lamps…

Feng Shui Romance Tip #4: Go for Ambient Lighting

Obviously, you would be more likely to plan a romantic date in a subtly-lit restaurant than a fluorescent-bright one. So, obviously, to attract and promote harmonious romance, light your home in an ambient way as well.

If you don’t want to invest in recessed and dimmer-switch lighting, consider twinkle lights, also known as white Christmas lights. You can run them under cupboards and along shelves, place them in vases, and otherwise arrange them artfully throughout your home for an instant, economical, and feng shui friendly glow.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #5: Choose Warm or Neutral Colored Sheets

Pink sheets may not be for everyone, but feng shui wisdom tells us they promote romance and relaxation.

If pink isn’t your thing, warm white, peach, or chocolate brown will also support passion, intimacy, and romance. Cooler sheet colors like greens and blues may be lovely, but they just aren’t amenable to passion and warmth.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #6: Clear the Space After a Break-up

If you still live in the same house you formerly shared with someone else – or even if you didn’t share it, but you did live there when you were in a former relationship – it’s important to clear the space. Otherwise, some of the old relationship patterns and energy will still be in place. Naturally, this can cause problems with attracting and maintaining a new relationship.

Be sure to get rid of items that were gifts from, or previously belonged to, the old partner. And if you shared a bed with this person, it’s ideal to replace it.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #7: Bring in Fresh Flowers

Flowers are powerful heart openers, romance magnetizers, and emotion healers. And they instantly uplift the vibe in your home, which of course means good feng shui. Roses are the standby for drawing and maintaining romantic love, but you can get more specific with this complete list of the metaphysical properties of flowers.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #8: Mist with Rose Water

Speaking of roses, fill your home with sweet-smelling feng shui vibes by misting your space with rose water. This will help cleanse away challenging vibrations while aligning your space with the energy of pure romance and harmonious love.

Feng Shui Romance Tip #9: Decorate with Happy Couple Imagery

Imagery is powerful. It changes your vibe and your psyche, both of which powerfully affect how you appear and what you attract. So be sure your imagery supports your goal of harmonious romance.

If you choose artwork that depicts happy and passionate human couples, sweet and whimsical animal couples like these swans or these lovebirds or even two trees that you might say are in harmonious relationship, you’re surrounding yourself with visual affirmations of that which you desire. And that’s a powerful thing to do.

Thoughts, questions, Feng Shui tips for love you’d like to add? Please share in the comments below.