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08/05/2011 By Tess Whitehurst 2 Comments

Feng Shui Your Way to Hotter Sex

Romantic Feng Shui Basics for the Bedroom
Tess Whitehurst-Feng Shui Your Way to Hotter Sex

(This article was originally published on lemondrop.com.)

We all know that the vibe of a restaurant can tip the scales between a breathtakingly romantic evening and an embarrassingly awkward first date. Similarly, and even more importantly, the atmosphere of your bedroom can make all the difference when it comes to your love life.

Once you become aware of this, a lot of what I’m about to tell you is simply common sense. For example: most would agree that nothing says “not sexy” like the presence of your mom or your little cousins so, naturally, get their pictures off your nightstand! Which brings me to feng shui bedroom tip number one …


1. Choose Imagery That Puts You (Both!) in the Mood

As every ad executive knows, imagery is extremely powerful when it comes to influencing our actions and moods. Feng shui in the bedroom is not much different. With this in mind, look at every photo and art piece that you’re currently displaying and ask yourself, “Does this make me feel sexy/romantic/sensual? Or … not?” Some good choices to display might be:

  • a piece of depicting a couple embracing (such as “The Kiss” by Gustave Klimt)
  • an earthy landscape with warm colors and/or flowers
  • a photo of you and your partner during a romantic evening or getaway
  • anything that feels sexy and reminds you of romance and togetherness

2. Go Heavy on the Warm

Warm and earthy colors open the heart and activate emotional connection. That’s why feng shui tells us it’s best if colors such as red, rust, orange, pink, terra cotta, brown, yellow, gold or beige predominate in your bedding choices. If you’re a big fan of pure white sheets, at least add touches of warmth in the accessories (throw pillows, duvet, or blanket). Cooler colors like green and blue can be cooling to the emotions and passions.

3. Be Touchy-Feely

Bedroom feng shui is also, naturally, about texture: a faux fur or chenille throw, a plush area rug, or a satin throw pillow or two can add a luxurious flavor to our amorous adventures while getting us out of our heads and into our bodies.

4. Flatter Yourself

Have you ever been to a strip club? I have. The lighting was superb, and made every dancer look like a goddess no matter how many curves she may or may not have possessed. We can all take a hint from strip clubs when it comes to bedroom feng shui. Flatter your body and illuminate your divinity with soft and ambient lighting. You might consider:

  • a strand of white twinkle (Christmas) lights
  • strategically placed red lightbulbs
  • candles

5. Put Your Work Stuff Somewhere Else

You have to focus! Feng shui reminds us that bedrooms are for intimacy, romance, and rest (all three of which work together synergistically for best results). Items that remind you of work can be distracting and subtly yet powerfully detrimental to the desired mood.

6. Diffuse Aphrodisiacs

Love potions are real things! There are a number of natural essential oils (available online and at health food stores) that are not only relaxing and stress-relieving, but are also known aphrodisiacs. Put a few drops in an oil diffuser to reap their benefits.

Some good choices for romantic feng shui bedroom ambiance would include:

  • jasmine
  • vanilla
  • patchouli
  • ylang ylang

7. Promote Equality and Create the Space for Two

Whether you currently share a bedroom or not, feng shui recommends that you have a nightstand and a lamp on each side of the bed. If there’s no room for nightstands, see if you can otherwise treat both sides of the bed the same way. This promotes feelings of equality and respect in your relationship, or if you’re single, it’s the fastest way to find someone new to claim the other half.

Employ any (or preferably all) of these feng shui bedroom tips to create a romantic atmosphere, and watch your love life blossom.

Did you try any of these feng shui tips for the bedroom? How did they work for you?

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  1. Happy Whats says

    08/05/2011 at

    I'm inspired! Phew, you've been touching on all my thoughts lately! 🙂

    Reply
  2. Tess Whitehurst says

    08/05/2011 at

    Oh good to hear!

    Reply

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