Whether or not you’re currently in a romantic relationship, this love spell can help open your heart, get you into your body, and turn up the volume on your romantic magnetism.
Romance Master Ritual
INGREDIENTS
2 sticks vanilla incense
2 red roses
2 pink candles
1 pinch dried damiana (herb)
A bottle of red wine (really any red wine you feel comfortable using in your bathwater)
2 small lepidolites (crystals), cleansed in cold water and sunlight
A delicious chocolate bar
A lighter or matches
Draw a bath. Light the two pink candles and two sticks of vanilla incense near the bath. Add the entire bottle of red wine, the petals of the roses, and the pinch of damiana to the bath water.
Hold your hands over the water and say:
Goddesses of love – Hathor, Venus, and Aphrodite – I call on you!
Infuse this water with your beautiful energy.
Fill me up with the vibrations of passion, romance, and love.
Beautiful goddesses, I thank you!
Soak for at least 40 minutes, drinking water as necessary to stay hydrated.
Get out, dry off, throw on some sort of loose, comfortable, beautiful clothing (if necessary), sit comfortably in a candlelit (or otherwise magically lit) room, and cradle the crystals in both of your open palms. Say:
Goddesses of love – Hathor, Venus, and Aphrodite – I call on you!
Please infuse these crystals with the magnetic, swirly, sparkly vibration of open-hearted love and divine passion.
With your help and the help of these crystals, may I become an irresistible love-drawing charm in and of myself.
May I experience divine romance that is perfectly suited to me in every way.
May my love situation shift and change according to what is in alignment with my truest and most beautiful good.
While my healthy boundaries stay strong, may I be totally open and receptive to ideal experiences relating to beauty, passion, and love.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Blessed be! And so it is.
To internalize the energies and seal the deal, slowly and sensuously eat the chocolate. (If you’re allergic or don’t like chocolate, substitute another sensually delicious treat such as cherries, strawberries, or coconut milk ice cream.)
In the days and weeks ahead, keep the lepidolites near your heart. (You might want to tie them into a piece of cloth and safety-pin them to the inside of your clothes. If this isn’t possible with your wardrobe, just keep them somewhere on your person.) Once you feel you’ve sufficiently drawn in the intended energies, place them on your altar as a reminder and symbol of sensuality, passion, and divine romance.
BONUS: Romance Affirmations
I love everyone, and everyone loves me.
I am loved and lovable.
I relax deeply and receive fully.
I am sexual, sensual, beautiful, and free to be me.
I revel in my senses and surrender to the fullness of the moment.
I am totally open and receptive to love.
I am totally open and receptive to blessings of all varieties.
I relax, listen, and allow.
It is safe to give and receive love.
I open my heart to love.
I welcome life’s pleasures.
(“Master Ritual” and “Affirmations” both excerpted from The Art of Bliss.)
Dzhak says
atI had to read twice. I thought you were telling me to drink the (wine infused) bath water! XD
Very nice ritual. Thank you.
Tess Whitehurst says
atHaha! Glad you realized. 🙂
Stephanie says
atWhat would you advise for someone who didn’t have a bathtub, but wanted to complete a spell with the same objective?
Tess Whitehurst says
atYou can improvise. Do basically the same thing, but with a shower. Just maybe don’t put red wine in it or stay in it for 40 minutes. (That would be a lot of water.) Then you could mist yourself with rose water when you get out.
Jessica says
atIs there an ideal time of day, day of the week and/or moon phase to perform this ritual?
Tess Whitehurst says
atFridays are great for love spells, and this one would be good during the waxing moon (new to full).